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Posted: 9 years ago
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i was on shravan's side until today's episode, but after watching the way he was behaving quite irrationally... i am furious that sumo didn't taunt him in return that they broke up and he needs to take some responsibility for that instead of accusing her of cheating on him 😆
the cheating dialogue was so off.. she really should have told him off.. next time dont throw a hissy fit and end everything if you are going to accuse me later of cheating... maybe control your mouth and own up to your words then i will listen to you 😆
sumo speaks at the wrong time... she is rude when he is helping but when he is acting possessive and crazy she looks heartbroken... she should stand up for herself and not let him walk all over her..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: peachesandcream


It's so complicated isnt it. He thinks they have a relationship that she betrayed after he broke all ties with her. She herself thinks on some level she has betrayed him and so cannot meet his eyes and is uncomfortable with Adi's expressions of affection.

So much is unsaid between them yet they act as if their silent declarations to themselves have been to each other.

I am looking forward to the confrontation between them. I am sure he will be aggressive. CV's have been building up a physical attraction between them and now that Shravan is acting like the self righteous spurned lover who has been watching his Suman being handled by someone else, he might wish to stake some claim. 😳

I think you had mentioned this in another post of yours, about how their relationship of friendship had to be changed to a relationship on another level and to do that the friendship had to be destroyed in some level.




Yes, without a break in the friendship there is no buildup of sexual chemistry. Romantic chemistry is easy enough in a friendship, but the previous is difficult.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Not only shravan suman thinks same way...she knows he loves her waiting for his confession...when shravan tried to confess then she denied to hear Bcoz of ramanath promise...pushed him back but mentally thinks he wud come n confess...even though she knows that she broke shravan 's trust n still that trust isn't built up...shraman so use to each other can't think anyone in between them...they feel it obvious but. No communication...at this stage shravan doesn't know anything ..suman knows all...as Aditya is Nirmala 's son...still she doesn't bother to talk to shravan to explain herself ...suman is more fault than shravan...she can't c him other girls too...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LIKEDMG

Not only shravan suman thinks same way...she knows he loves her waiting for his confession...when shravan tried to confess then she denied to hear Bcoz of ramanath promise...pushed him back but mentally thinks he wud come n confess...even though she knows that she broke shravan 's trust n still that trust isn't built up...shraman so use to each other can't think anyone in between them...they feel it obvious but. No communication...at this stage shravan doesn't know anything ..suman knows all...as Aditya is Nirmala 's son...still she doesn't bother to talk to shravan to explain herself ...suman is more fault than shravan...she can't c him other girls too...


Sumo thinks she belongs to him. She is uncomfortable when Adi gets close to her. I think at this point Sumo is overwhelmed due to circumstances and she is taken aback by Shravans uncharacteristic behaviour. He used to be her support and now he is hurling taunts at her. She is dealing with the situation by just not responding since she may think he is not ready to listen.
Edited by peachesandcream - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Marybarton

Shravan in his mind has advanced so far based on their connection that he thinks Sumo cheated on him. Incredible acting by Namik today. Shravan likes to have unsaid convos with Sumo and he thinks she will just accept that as their relationship because he essentially accused her of cheating on him today. He thinks she can cheat him even after he "broke up" with her.

Problem here is that he takes Sumo as an extension of himself (romantic), but at the same time, that means he took her for granted and learned a hard lesson today. He is transferring a lot of the things he expected of his mom (not to leave him) on her actually. It's a lot for a young girl to put up with because mom's love is forever, girl's love is conditional as one of my favorite author's said.


they both think they are in a relationhsip and she is ashamed of the pain she has caused him
Did you see her expression when he said dekhte hain kya tum ek duje she was hurt there
But her love is unconditional for him and that will be proven soon.. just like his is unconditional
He is the more reactive one and she has learnt to check her emotions..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Marybarton

Shravan in his mind has advanced so far based on their connection that he thinks Sumo cheated on him. Incredible acting by Namik today. Shravan likes to have unsaid convos with Sumo and he thinks she will just accept that as their relationship because he essentially accused her of cheating on him today. He thinks she can cheat him even after he "broke up" with her.

Problem here is that he takes Sumo as an extension of himself (romantic), but at the same time, that means he took her for granted and learned a hard lesson today. He is transferring a lot of the things he expected of his mom (not to leave him) on her actually. It's a lot for a young girl to put up with because mom's love is forever, girl's love is conditional as one of my favorite author's said.


Loved the last line and so true ..poor babies feel bad for both of them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Aha, beautiful analysis and equally good replies. I am married to my childhood best friend and though we never have to face this much trouble as there was no one else like Aditya but he proposed only after my parents started searching match for me... And even after a yes I never got flowers or gifts ... Which he used to give to his all infatuations... Ha ha
We never felt jolt or spark
In holding hands ... But we were very comfortable all the way long and still he tie my shoe laces in malls or any where which is practically not possible in any other kind of relationships.
With friendship comes a hot chocolate kind of feel which smooths you and make you sleep peacefully ... and sometime its importent to be awake ... ha ha
* took us long time to take it to another level. Ha ha ha
It's a strange journey ... But beautiful one so far ..
Edited by Wiccamaya - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#18
awesomely written!
👏
especially the part about unsaid convos, expectations like that from his mother..
He himself most of the times behaves brotherly with her...protective, caring...and stops at that...like he said duing accident...main tumhe aise nahi dekh sakata...kyon ? no answer
again when he warned her about Aditya...muze lagata hain ki Aditya dosti ki hade paar karke aage badh raha hain...baat khatam...he could have also added...aur muze yeh pasand nahi...but no...
i hope alcohol wil make him say all these kyon farak padata hain things...
😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good to see this post Mary!! Much needed too.

Whats wrong with Shravan? He wants to treat Sumo like dirt, he is too consumed by jealousy. I understand he is very hurt and insanely jealous and possessive about her... but his behavior with her during the marriage was loathsome not to mention the PCT fiasco. I am disappointed that Shravan shifts all blame on Sumo, why? Introspect, my boy! Introspect!

And Sumo... why does she have to enter into a marriage with Adi with so much unhappiness. She knows she belongs to no one but Shravan. Both could not stand to see the other dancing with someone else. In a way Shravan atleast is being finally vocal about Sumo. But Sumo on her part needs to find a way out of her situation.

She is going to hurt not just herself but Adi too. Get a life gal, focus on PCT and find a way out of this mess that you are in.

If Sumo is not going to break the marriage... I want Shravan to do something and get the job done. That would be fun.

Preeti is going to get into a lot of trouble and very soon!!


Edited by poppinss - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaanetu

i was on shravan's side until today's episode, but after watching the way he was behaving quite irrationally... i am furious that sumo didn't taunt him in return that they broke up and he needs to take some responsibility for that instead of accusing her of cheating on him 😆

the cheating dialogue was so off.. she really should have told him off.. next time dont throw a hissy fit and end everything if you are going to accuse me later of cheating... maybe control your mouth and own up to your words then i will listen to you 😆
sumo speaks at the wrong time... she is rude when he is helping but when he is acting possessive and crazy she looks heartbroken... she should stand up for herself and not let him walk all over her..


Maybe she is heartbroken because she wanted him to express all these things... but before what happened in PCT. Now its kind of too late!! 😆


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