Is it justified for Suman to say yes to Aditya?

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mineforever

@mineforever

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Nanu didn't really give her a choice..he forced her to say yes all the while saying that he wants her to give an honest answer and then continuing by saying that how his health has improved so much and how much he is feeling happy with this..
He manipulated her and she could not refuse..
Adi also took that choice away by announcing it in front of everyone..
Having said that I had thought that she would try speaking to Adi and telling him the truth that she doesnt want to marry him but it didn't happen..maybe next week it will..though I don't think so..
I don't think this time Shravan will be the one to step forward bcos he tried and it backfired on him so this time only Sumo can do anything..

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Teju

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

I do think whatever she is doing she is doing it for nanu.. as Nanu is hell bound to be free from Suman named responsibility.. by emotinally balckmailing her.. n asking her frequently tum khush ho na? tell me.. otherwise I won't take medicine or shot which can save my life.. (in short.. agar tumhare na kehne se mein mar gaya toh roti rehna zindagibhar..😡 )

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Remus.Lupin4

@Remus.Lupin4

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: KostinsQueen

How can she say that she has a guy in her mind , when the guy ad cut all ties with her ?And I don't think Nanu would be calm if she had said that she has someone in her heart , Nanu would definitely ask about the guy .She tried her best to reply him calm , but she lost before her Nanu's Ziddh .
Resolving the issues, I agree someone from both should take a step forward & now I think it wIll be Shravan

but he loves her... she knows that

Edited by jaanetu - 9 years ago

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anisha-anisha

@anisha-anisha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

I agree with Kostinsqueen. The poor girl has been cornered, pushed to the wall.

Ramnath's threat, Shravan's very inconsistent behaviour, Adi's manipulations, her not knowing her relationship status with Shravan, , nanu's illness and fear of losing him, problems in her business, financial strain etc . all put her in the dock. Why can't any body think of her emotional turmoil? Can anybody take a sane decision under such circumstances?

Nanu made her say yes at GUNPOINT. It was total emotional blackmail by him.

And why should anybody sympathise with Adi. He is a liar, manipulator . He says he is observant, has good sixth sense and is half jyotish, then why could he not make out that Suman doesn't like him and there is something bet Shraman. He has tunnel vision.

Shravan loves her deeply , there is no doubt about it, but why can't any body see that it is the same Shravan who humiliates her in public (reunion party- in front of batch mates, PCT case- in his office in front of the staff and now PCT again- in front of Sumo's employees) whenever he is angry with Suman and she always defends him in public.

Both have a troubled background, both love each other,both want to confess, both carry a baggage, are happy when they are together but, there are external factors which donot let them be together .

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Fangirl1

@Fangirl1

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

welll reason no 1 i fully support she shouldnt have agree to marry nirmala son... i know nanu gum point.. i so hope cvs shows that she talks that champu and tell him to say no and buz off.. now shadi is done so i know she dont wana admit but for once cant she think why sharvan was mad pct she took for adi... like seriously he blowup he made it clear i know she wasnt in a state to think but now she can and i so wish cvs shows that... He broke friendship so what u love him and u were friends u wont hurt ur friend even if they are not on ur talking terms.. i mean cvs need to get grip and characters straight.. mess up kar kay rakha howa hai..

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Aditi

@Infinite_Flame

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: anisha-anisha
I agree with Kostinsqueen. The poor girl has been cornered, pushed to the wall.
Ramnath's threat, Shravan's very inconsistent behaviour, Adi's manipulations, her not knowing her relationship status with Shravan, , nanu's illness and fear of losing him, problems in her business, financial strain etc . all put her in the dock. Why can't any body think of her emotional turmoil? Can anybody take a sane decision under such circumstances?

Nanu made her say yes at GUNPOINT. It was total emotional blackmail by him.

And why should anybody sympathise with Adi. He is a liar, manipulator . He says he is observant, has good sixth sense and is half jyotish, then why could he not make out that Suman doesn't like him and there is something bet Shraman. He has tunnel vision.

Shravan loves her deeply , there is no doubt about it, but why can't any body see that it is the same Shravan who humiliates her in public (reunion party- in front of batch mates, PCT case- in his office in front of the staff and now PCT again- in front of Sumo's employees) whenever he is angry with Suman and she always defends him in public.

Both have a troubled background, both love each other,both want to confess, both carry a baggage, are happy when they are together but, there are external factors which donot let them be together .

+1 😊

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naaznin

@naaznin

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

thou suman was forced to say yes..so after saying yes she shud have talked to shravan and confessed her feelings and her state..dey together cud have sorted things out..suman has an idea abt shravan feelings bt still she gave up so easily..bt everyone is brainless here..even vamp chachi is of no use here..she never gets to knw any secret or proofs lyk other shows..d show is getting dumb wid every passing day

Edited by naaju - 9 years ago

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: jaanetu

but he loves her... she knows that

Suman had a belief that Shravan's love for her will push him to make a stand for her even if she can't because of Ramnath. But as the situations have unfolded her beliefs have been shattered. So even if she knows he loves her she's lost trust in the strength of their relationship.

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Nancy (Zin)

@PlainJane

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Exactly!

How can Suman say yes when she knows Aditya is Nirmala's son? She must know that Shravan will be even more upset when he finds out this connection. Forget love. Shravan is Suman's best friend. Surely, you wouldn't think about marrying someone closely related to someone your best friend hates.

It is totally unjustified. Also, whatever flaws Aditya has, it is unfair of Sumo to lead him on and marry him if she loves someone else. It is unfair to Adi, Shravan and herself. This decision only means disaster.

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nierembergia

@nierembergia

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: anisha-anisha
I agree with Kostinsqueen. The poor girl has been cornered, pushed to the wall.
Ramnath's threat, Shravan's very inconsistent behaviour, Adi's manipulations, her not knowing her relationship status with Shravan, , nanu's illness and fear of losing him, problems in her business, financial strain etc . all put her in the dock. Why can't any body think of her emotional turmoil? Can anybody take a sane decision under such circumstances?

Nanu made her say yes at GUNPOINT. It was total emotional blackmail by him.

And why should anybody sympathise with Adi. He is a liar, manipulator . He says he is observant, has good sixth sense and is half jyotish, then why could he not make out that Suman doesn't like him and there is something bet Shraman. He has tunnel vision.

Shravan loves her deeply , there is no doubt about it, but why can't any body see that it is the same Shravan who humiliates her in public (reunion party- in front of batch mates, PCT case- in his office in front of the staff and now PCT again- in front of Sumo's employees) whenever he is angry with Suman and she always defends him in public.

Both have a troubled background, both love each other,both want to confess, both carry a baggage, are happy when they are together but, there are external factors which donot let them be together .

You make an excellent point about Suman going through a lot, but earlier last week she was celebrating when she had made Shravan jealous. She understood that he was jealous, but she expected him to confess out of jealousy, except he ended their friendship. Her whole point of jealousy backfired on her in a way that she didn't expect. Instead of reflecting on how her actions made him feel or why he reacted the way he did Suman felt sorry for herself and decided she was alone.

There is no doubt that Shravan was wrong, but Suman is not assertive with him when he is wrong nor does ever fight for their friendship. The minute things get difficult she ditches the friendship. She has yet to assertively tell him to stop the public humiliation and yet to fight for the sake of their friendship. It is always Shravan who comes back, even when she humiliated him when they were childhood friends or even when she is rude to him or even when she gives up on him. The guy puts his pride aside and shows up for her.

Edited by PC00 - 9 years ago

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