Originally posted by: PrincessAshVik
I am sorry I disagree.
She had this long time coming.
If he has had this MU it's majorly because of her contradicting actions. She says one thing and does another. Let's look at Friday's episode, where he refuses to give her the hammer and when he asks her about PCT and her reactions then. She could very nicely tell him no about PCT. She could have listened to what he was saying instead of just cutting him off. But no, she had to be so rude and make an issue. Makes me wonder how she thinks in spite of her behaviour he is going to stick around and confess his love. Till date they have not shown her wondering why he had called her for coffee!!! He waited for 5 hours for her, there must be something he wanted to say that must have been of utmost importance to him. But at that point she was too busy for him. She does not even ask him, in spite of his numerous attempts of telling her and asking her why she did not come and asking her if she does not want to know what he wanted to say!!!
She purposely makes him jealous and hurts him. She wears that lehenga in spite of him telling her Aditya paid for it! Leave alone her blasting Aditya about it, I thought she might not wear it, but she does! What about her self respect then?! Her self respect only comes in front of him? No wonder he feels like it's a dhong! I never took sides before until last week's episodes. But Sumo is just confused. And her behaviour and actions are making me take sides. Earlier I could reason out her actions, at present while I see some reasoning in some actions, I am majorly at a loss.
Shravan is of course at fault, there is no doubt about it. But I personally think Sumo is majorly at fault here.
It's human nature to recall the worst times when you are upset and hurt by someone especially when you are insecure and have issues. And that is what has happened here. Shravan only remembers her being rude (an understatement) to him ever since PreeKar shaadi nonsense as it's the most recent and "using him" (teenage days) as he has not forgotten that feeling and that hurt and pain. Hence he is lashing out. He has forgotten the terrace waali trust thing and her coming after him at 2 in the night. Because he is angry and hurt. These 2 are those emotions that blind you completely and make you see the negatives more than the positives. But why I am on his side (Lol! It sounds so funny) is because he tried helping her, being there for her, being patient (and for someone who loses their cool easily, that is a big thing) in spite of feeling hurt and humiliated all the time (because that is what you feel when your dear one refuses to take your help [which Sumo does and she does not refuse politely but gets angry and blasts at him every single time] and take somebody else's help right in front of you). She keeps going on about self respect, but does not have issues wearing that lehenga or taking the papers thinking Shravan might have given them to Aditya for the deal (Me: WHAT????). Had Shravan done what Aditya did (lehenga case), she would have blasted him.
Imagine someone coming and telling you the person you love the most takes somebody else's help rather than yours. How would you feel? That is what Shravan feels. Hurt. I agree Sumo does not know all this, but she does not even have an inkling on how hurt will Shravan be? 3 times he gave her the papers (First time he was being an Idiot!) and she refused. First time rightfully so even the second time cos he mentioned Ramnath but I don't understand why she was so rude to him the third time round...
After the fiasco at PCT while Shravan was walking away, could she not go after him clearing the MU he had telling him why she took the papers? She already knew what had brought this, but she was too drowned in the pain of him humiliating her, talking to her the way he did and breaking all ties with her! (Which I understand that when you are in too much pain you can't think straight or act immediately...). But that's the thing about Sumo. We rarely see her reflecting on her actions. And we never get Shravan's monologues. (This I blame the CVs.)
Also, what was that young Sumo and elder Sumo scene? Really disappointed in that scene. I thought at least young Sumo would perhaps have some value of the friendship. Can see now why Shravan thinks of this friendship as khokhli cos that is how young Sumo sees it. (I am sorry but that is what I feel.)
On a separate note, Ramnath is an idiot majorly responsible for all this but in his own twisted way the man loves his son!
Can't even say that about Nirmala who thinks there will be a hungama if Shravan comes to know about Aditya but not about why there will be hungama. Less said about this woman, the better. She makes my blood boil!!!
Aditya gadha go jump off a cliff! Idiot!!
Sorry had to rant about the other 3 people.
Let's see what tomorrow's episode brings and how the CVs clear this mess.
EDIT: I realise after reading other comments, my post might be seen as supporting Shravan in everything. I for one, do not agree with the whole public humiliation and wasting food. I made a mistake saying she had this long time coming- I meant him lashing out at her. My mistake should have re-read the main post once again before posting my comment
Also edited some typos and added other points I had missed o
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