Emotions being compared instead of being respected

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Posted: 9 years ago
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After yesterday episode, What I have seen is people are getting biased and comparing Shravan vs Suman pain. Some say Suman does not have anyone except nanu and have lot of responsibilities on her hence they feel bad for suman. WHILE those who support Shravan would say, his mother left him with questions and never returned back that's the reason his behavior is accepted.
In my opinion , pain should not be compared but rather honor it. It should be an important lesson most people must learn in life myself included. People think that they have been through more pain and hurt than others but why, there is no measuring cup made to test this.

You cannot feel what is like to be inside of another person's heart or experience how they process pain.Some people have great inner strength to bear the pain that it takes a run a marathon but while others cannot walk without others help. That does not mean one is weak than the other
Shravan pain is no less than Suman. Both have equal pain and they are showing in a different way. Shravan is blinded by the father love and cannot see what is beyond that. brainwashed every single time.
Suman might be strong outside while Shravan is hot headed. They are forced to do according to the situation.

Now i dont want to talk about who is right or wrong? Thats whole different topic and very sensitive to discuss on this post.

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Naheed

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you! 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very well said 👏
We can empathize but there is no way we can truly feel the pain they both are going through.
But I think yesterday's episode was too emotional so people felt bad for both of them and it came out in defense of Sumo or Shravan but there are a few who have maintained that both are hurt.

Let the emotions settle down a bit and everyone will be back
to their rational selves. Just my 2 cents !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post naheed!!
Rather than blaming one just see as shraman!! Both r in pain!! I think I can blame cv's here for their inconsistency in characters!! Whole marriage track become senseless now!!

Sumo character is ruined for sake of self respect!! That shown too much!! Shravan brain washed by his dad!! No one perfect!! I real life to no one perfect!! People have to accept good and bad of a person in any relationship!!

I don't understand why people r looking forward to sumo and Aditya track!! They r blaming shravan for how he reacted?? Is it a crime if ur emotional?? How can he felt once he knows he is rejected?? Anyone feels it na... His way of reacting Is like that... Some people cry, some becomes angry, some will confront other person to know the reason... Here shraman surpassed that stage...if we consider whole marriage track cv's shown shravan more emotional... He is emotionally connected with sumo and ramanath... Unfortunately knowingly r unknowingly these two people r giving him pain!!


Anyway i couldn't connect to EDKV any more!! It became more of drama rather than simple love story!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nith125

Very well said 👏
We can empathize but there is no way we can truly feel the pain they both are going through.
But I think yesterday's episode was too emotional so people felt bad for both of them and it came out in defense of Sumo or Shravan but there are a few who have maintained that both are hurt.

Let the emotions settle down a bit and everyone will be back
to their rational selves. Just my 2 cents !


Thanks nith.. I agree with u we can only show empathy since we are not in their shoes.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is a love story of these two people. The constant bickering on one is right and the other being wrong is so disheartening.

If both were be perfect this show would be called Yeh Rishta...

No wonder followers decreasing in the forum.

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