One Doubt

I can see Ramnath's good face& selfish face at the same time..
He respects & love Tiwariji & put his wish in priority list than own family's
But at the same time, he plays behind the whole incident.
Yesterday, his request to kamini was genuine.
I can't blame him, for his selfishness as a father, bcz every parent will be selfish for own child, to provide them the beston this earth.
He may be genuinely scared about his son's life is insecure with Sumo.
Here, I want to clear a doubt, "instead of leaving Ramnath& son, why Nirmala didn't try to remove his doubts??
Why she didn't think about her son's future before leaving, that too withoutany intimation..
Whatever reason she have, don't you think her son is more important than her self-respect??
And in past10 years, she never cared about Shravan??
In Ramnath-Nirmala issue, I feel both are wrong...
And Suman heard only Nirmala's version..
What if Ramnath also have some genuine reason for behaving like that??
What do you think about this subject??

That is want I was telling in one of the posts, we did not get to see complete version of ramnath side story till date... we just can't conclude..

Ramnath is a person who is filled with insecurities, thats his basic problem. He couldn't trust his wife who was working for the family and constantly insulted her, whn one final day the barriers broke and he became a monster slapping his wife which led to their break-up. Nirmala is wrong in believing that her husband might be a good father who would raise their son better than her and never ever re-considered her decision to not look back. Yes, ramnath is indded a good father but again with his insecurities he was and till today is hurting his own son. He genuinely likes Suman but just as Tiwariji's family, he's insecure that she might seperate him from his son by bringing out his hidden facets.

Yes they are making Sumo a feminist by making her side nimmo without hearing ramu...you are right ramu too may have reasons to disbelieve nimmo just like how circumstances are there between shraman

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Ramnath is a person who is filled with insecurities, thats his basic problem. He couldn't trust his wife who was working for the family and constantly insulted her, whn one final day the barriers broke and he became a monster slapping his wife which led to their break-up. Nirmala is wrong in believing that her husband might be a good father who would raise their son better than her and never ever re-considered her decision to not look back. Yes, ramnath is indded a good father but again with his insecurities he was and till today is hurting his own son. He genuinely likes Suman but just as Tiwariji's family, he's insecure that she might seperate him from his son by bringing out his hidden facets.

Insecurities are a normal thing..
Most of the people have insecurities on one or other thing..
And for Ramnath, his insecurities proven right, as still he believes Nirmala eloped, and Nirmala didn't tried to make him understand that, what he thinks is wrong.
If women around us, start to leave husbands for slapping/doubting, many children will lose either of the parents.
So I think Nirmala's reasons are not enough to leave them

Originally posted by: Joyness

Yes they are making Sumo a feminist by making her side nimmo without hearing ramu...you are right ramu too may have reasons to disbelieve nimmo just like how circumstances are there between shraman

Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Insecurities are a normal thing..
Most of the people have insecurities on one or other thing..
And for Ramnath, his insecurities proven right, as still he believes Nirmala eloped, and Nirmala didn't tried to make him understand that, what he thinks is wrong.
If women around us, start to leave husbands for slapping/doubting, many children will lose either of the parents.
So I think Nirmala's reasons are not enough to leave them

A very good and reasonable doubt...

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

No, trust is the basic foundation of any relation. A relation can stand even when there is no love but trust is necessary and I don't think I myself can live for my whole life with a person who doesn't trust me. Its interesting that in the plot its shown that Niru din't keep a tab on both her husband and son while they kept a tab on Niru. Is it that wrong to look after her boss's family when she herself was left alone with noone beside her??

If there are trust issues in life, common people will try to solve it, and divorce & leaving the house are only last resort.
And here she have to think about Shravan also.
Whatever flashbacks they show so far, I don't feel there is such an intolerable situation to leave her family, including own son behind & escape from the place.
Was her life under threat?
The only evident thing here is, Nirmala loves own life & own preferences than her son.
Till, some genuine reason is revealed, I can't stand with Nirmala..

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

No, trust is the basic foundation of any relation. A relation can stand even when there is no love but trust is necessary and I don't think I myself can live for my whole life with a person who doesn't trust me. Its interesting that in the plot its shown that Niru din't keep a tab on both her husband and son while they kept a tab on Niru. Is it that wrong to look after her boss's family when she herself was left alone with noone beside her??