Originally posted by: --Amulya--
Its not wrong to keep tab on a person whom we're missing... I meant to say while Niru moved ahead in her life leaving her hubby & son, they couldn't do the same and are left with many wounds and insecurities... Niru comes out as a stronger character where she easily moved on with a new son (but if we think otherwise, did she try to see her own son in Adi and so never felt like missing Shravan)... I might be wrong but I trust motherly instincts, I believe something so bad must have happened with her that she on a whole decided to never look back
Amulya, I disagree that on the whole something bad happened and hence she never decided to look back. She never tried to explain the matter to her son who if you remember did immediately say to his father that you must have had a fight with her and thats why she left. He was sensitive and mature for his age. Even when years alter they meet again at Sumo's insistence, Shravan's love for his mother was overwhelming which reduced all his anger into ashes...He knew marriages could fail but not a mother's love for her son.
And lets say something did happen during the last ten years...but, even once Nirmala while happily feeding Adi with biryani and counselling him never thinks about that absent son...never thinks that it was not his fault that he lost a mother. Never thinks once also that the man who manipulated her might also manipulate her own son...I am not sure if I can like this woman...
As a woman also I really cannot say that she did a right thing..she was accused by her own husband of having committing adultery and then manipulated into accepting his demands and she never thought of clearing her name...because she wanted a certain image of her to be maintained intact...Reputation is maintained by one's actions and her actions only show her as a weak woman.
She should have fought for her own integrity and for her son. As a mother if she found her own son in Adi and never felt like missing Shravan ...I can only pity her..
And the fact that in spite of having lost his mother on such disastrous circumstances ...Shravan values both Chachi as a mother and Adi's invisible mom...goes to show the character of this man. Also, it was Shravan who fought for Sumo's dead mother...
So, yeah as a mother her role weakens absolutely
Edited by indranigupta - 9 years ago
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