If it was so simple, why didnt they show Shravan doing it? - Page 2

Originally posted by: chicksoup

The way Shravan sees it, Chachi has had to compromise every bit of the way. Nothing has happened according to how she wanted it... And he can see that no one in his family values her sentiments...

If Nanu had his way with the girl's side dealing with the wedding, Kamini should also have something to talk about her son's wedding...and I guess these rituals don't matter much to Shravan...He hinted during the haldi and the mehendi...

Even now, it has not been easy.

Kamini is not happy even if she has made a smiley face...

In effect, Adi has succeeded in getting her riled up so much, she is going to get her revenge!...She had long forgotten about it in the excitement of the wedding...😆

I actually didn't mind the fact that Shravan refused to talk to chachi...he knew it would require some blackmailing...and he didn't want it if she didn't agree to it happily...this is the groom's mother...why upset her?

And what Ramnath did was also emotional blackmailing...He knew Kamini couldn't refuse him with the whole family around her...Ab Kamini ki baari hai! 😉

Originally posted by: Joyness

I think if shravan would have suggested the same even to ramu...then ramu would have definitely thought that shravan is instigated by Sumo and would have created more problems...but because Adi is third party ramu took it on face value... every one i.e. ramu and chachi would have blamed shravan if he would even have suggested that tiwaris want marriage venue changed however good shravans intention would have been. Both ramu chachi already feel shravan is under influence of sumo...so...it was a bad situation for shravan. But Adi has no connection with any one...therefore it worked. Shravan was right in fact he was most truthful. He didn't increase their hopes stated the fact about kamini...sumo should have not taunted him...i feel mama mami preeti instead of getting shravan in middle should have themselves sorted out..why didn't preeti request pushkar...arre pushkar should have been the person to talk and not shravan

Originally posted by: indranigupta

A very good question Mallika

Why not? Why make Aditya pose it to Ramnath? In terms of the story I shall reserve my judgement but since you said this was character inconsistency...wanted to say that Shravan's character may seem odd to many of us but within the character frame his consistency is logical enough. Chachi has not been happy with Sumo's arrangements and this has led to lots of bad blood between the two families as well as between SS. And not only has she accused Shravan of not seeing the larger dynamics of a mother only wishing for a grand wedding for her son but more so, Chachi has time and again snubbed Sumo's hard work. Chachi has disregarded every gesture of Sumo as being nothing more than a sign of arrogance. This is a red zone area for Shravan because his father also categorizes Sumo in the same vein...too concerned with her ideas of what constitutes a right or a wrong action.

He does not want another family member of his to think bad of his Sumo. One father of his is enough. 😆

Also, using Nanu's ill-health as an excuse to ruin Chachis wishes for her son is a big no-no for Shravan. This son of Chachi is not only Shravan's brother but also someone who has requested Shravan to see that his wedding does not meet any mishaps. Shravan wants Sumo to be acknowledged and applauded for her all that she did for her sister's wedding not being castigated and reviled for the same. And whats worse bringing Nanu into this picture of mud slinging is something which is unacceptable to Shravan.

You may say a compromise could have been effected. Yes, probably. But, then why was it not? For Shravan, a mother dream and a brother's wish cannot be compromised. likewise, Nanu's ill-health cannot be used as the medium to cast aspersions on Sumo's self-respect. There is another reason which has more to do with the story so shall not explain😉

Originally posted by: indranigupta

A very good question Mallika

Why not? Why make Aditya pose it to Ramnath? In terms of the story I shall reserve my judgement but since you said this was character inconsistency...wanted to say that Shravan's character may seem odd to many of us but within the character frame his consistency is logical enough. Chachi has not been happy with Sumo's arrangements and this has led to lots of bad blood between the two families as well as between SS. And not only has she accused Shravan of not seeing the larger dynamics of a mother only wishing for a grand wedding for her son but more so, Chachi has time and again snubbed Sumo's hard work. Chachi has disregarded every gesture of Sumo as being nothing more than a sign of arrogance. This is a red zone area for Shravan because his father also categorizes Sumo in the same vein...too concerned with her ideas of what constitutes a right or a wrong action.

He does not want another family member of his to think bad of his Sumo. One father of his is enough. 😆

Also, using Nanu's ill-health as an excuse to ruin Chachis wishes for her son is a big no-no for Shravan. This son of Chachi is not only Shravan's brother but also someone who has requested Shravan to see that his wedding does not meet any mishaps. Shravan wants Sumo to be acknowledged and applauded for her all that she did for her sister's wedding not being castigated and reviled for the same. And whats worse bringing Nanu into this picture of mud slinging is something which is unacceptable to Shravan.

You may say a compromise could have been effected. Yes, probably. But, then why was it not? For Shravan, a mother dream and a brother's wish cannot be compromised. likewise, Nanu's ill-health cannot be used as the medium to cast aspersions on Sumo's self-respect. There is another reason which has more to do with the story so shall not explain😉

Originally posted by: Malika

Very well explained Indrani and I do get your point but somehow all these reasons still don't sum up to the fact that Shravan didnt even give a second thought to asking Ramnath about it. Definitely in case he had directly spoken to Kamini she would have snubbed him for favoring his friend rather than his family. But a discussion with Ramnath could have helped. He didn't want Sumo to be degraded in chachi's eyes but what about the last wish of the person she loves the most. He didn't even "think" about that. I think this is not about if he had been able to shift the venue or not...this is about giving a try. Had he only given a vague try, just like Adi did, even that would have made Sumo happy. Also him treating Kaminis wishes or her views as so important is beyond me. The only explanation I can give to his behavior, which he even states time and again (and Sumo doesn't realize the gravity of it too) is that he cant let the heart of an actually loving mother get hurt. This is something he doesn't have in his life. This kind of possessiveness of a mother, this kind of unconditional love. He feels Kamini has given up on all her wishes of choosing her DIL on her own and just demanded for a grand wedding for which too they offered to help, so she made so much sacrifice for the love of her son that at least one wish of her needs to be granted. But probably, no one including Sumo understands this. And thats what makes him so hurt. And with that I feel the whole point of this track is that though these two love each other like anything but somewhere still they don't understand and acknowledge each others scenarios as they are...may be because they are still unaware to the insecurities each of them grew in during their teenage years when they were not together.