Shravan should stop it!! It looks cheap!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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May be is it just me but I am absolutely disliking Shravan again and again pressing the Tiwaris to make arrangements according to Chachi's demands 🤢 I mean he is someone who has grown up with Tiwaris since childhood. He must know neither nanu nor Sumo would accept any monetary help. Not even as family friends leave as future relatives/ladki wale. And I am also sure he can understand Tiwaris are not so well off to afford 5-star sangeets. I don't know why this thing doesnt bother him? Why he is not bothered that Sumo can be in some problem? All he seems to talk about is his coffee date. Not even once he think if theres some reason or some problem she is caught up in that she is avoiding him. Doesnt he feel ashamed in asking Tiwaris to make lavish arrangements or ask Sumo to buy diamonds?? Just because he has taken up the responsibility of Pushkar's marriage doesn't mean he has to act cheaply. If chachi wishes to get her demands fulfilled in such cheap ways of making dowry demands she should do it herself. Why use Shravan as a puppet? And I think if there was any other guy in place of Shravan he would make his brother clear that I will make the arrangements but I will not beg in front of the ladki wale to arrange sangeet in 5star or buy diamonds. And if that is what is expected out of me I shall back out because this is against my self-respect. But Shravan doesnt think that even once. Why? Why he becomes so fragile and weak when it comes to family? This time he has given up even on his self-respect for this. In the last epi Pushkar said, "How could have bhaiya asked Sumo that you should buy expensive ring?" Exactly my point! Shravan should have let her buy according to her wish. But the sad part is indeed Sharvan did ask her to buy the expensive one Why cant Shravan just stay away from the money talk? Why cant he clearly say it to chachi that he will look after arrangements only when there wont be any discussion about demanding for expensive things. This time I am really disappointed in Shravan. The dialouge in last epi..." Arrangements to chachi ke hisaab se hi honge"...he said it in ego but sadly he didnt realize they were talking about dowry. Which is much serious than the cvs of this show seem to think.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree what they r showing is ridiculous. I mean making the lead actor do this is something beyond my understanding. Shravan is shown to be intelligent and with a mind of his own. What's wrong with him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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He hast lost sense ...except coffee use kuch dikhayi hi nhi de rha h he never thought once dat jo log apne ghar ko bachane k liye lawyer ki fees tk afford nhi kar sakte wo Kamini ki demand kaise poori kar payenge
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agreed! CVs have brought in a useless plot and lost the essence of the show. if it was not for namik, i will not even be watching it
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't agree with you put whole blame on Sharvan here.
Whole scenario is so real and happens in everyone life

He don't want them to take all the expenses and make the arrangements - He knows it not easy for them

He was very politely explained his Chachi's demand and try to avoid another awkward drama by Chachi and want to help

Truth and Self - respect goes hand-in-hand, when you agreed for anything , do it then only your self-respect is in act other no meaning to it.

Why Tiwari's keep saying we will meet all Kamini's demand then, why can't they be truthful

When Nanu says everything will be taken care, why Sumo told we are trying to meet the demands but doing thing to Malhotra's status is not so affordable

Marriage should be sharing - making memories sweet one

That's what Sharvan meant in ring buy scene.

Be practical guys...

Edited by sneha_17 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17

I don't agree with you put whole blame on Sharvan here.

Whole scenario is so real and happens in everyone life

He don't want them to take all the expenses and make the arrangements - He knows it not easy for them

He was very politely explained his Chachi's demand and try to avoid another awkward drama by Chachi and want to help

Truth and Self - respect goes hand-in-hand, when you agreed for anything , do it then only your self-respect is in act other no meaning to it.

Why Tiwari's keep saying we will meet all Kamini's demand then, why can't they be truthful

When Nanu says everything will be taken care, why Sumo told we are trying to meet the demands but doing thing to Malhotra's status is not so affordable

Marriage should be sharing - making memories sweet one

That's what Sharvan meant in ring buy scene.

Be practical guys...


Agreed that in the first place its the Tiwaris at fault who agreed for destination wedding and agreed to fulfil all demands despite knowing their financial scenario. But again why cant Shravan let Kamini handle this. Why he should be made the communicator to talk such embarrassing stuff. No guy would do this specially if he is himself a man with a backbone. Whatever he is saying to Tiwaris about ring or venue its is not his point of view. This is what Kamini wants not him. Obviously when he gets married to Sumo he wont expect anything like this. So if something is against his thought process he should not do it. Him not interfering when Kamini handled this directly with Tiwaris was fine. But here he is fully involved which is not what is expected out of him. He should just deny to become the mediator of money talks. Thats it.

And as for sharing, NO THAT CASE DOESNT APPLY HERE!! If Malhotras really wanted to share expenses they wont even bring the word "help". They would right away make clear to Tiwaris that half the expense will be bore by us no questions asked. Thats the way of giving respect if you really want to share. Not that on one side you say "take help from us" and other side you term it as sharing. Doesnt work that way.
Edited by Malika - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika


Agreed that in the first place its the Tiwaris at fault who agreed for destination wedding and agreed to fulfil all demands despite knowing their financial scenario. But again why cant Shravan let Kamini handle this. Why he should be made the communicator to talk such embarrassing stuff. No guy would do this specially if he is himself a man with a backbone. Whatever he is saying to Tiwaris about ring or venue its is not his point of view. This is what Kamini wants not him. Obviously when he gets married to Sumo he wont expect anything like this. So if something is against his thought process he should not do it. Him not interfering when Kamini handled this directly with Tiwaris was fine. But here he is fully involved which is not what is expected out of him. He should just deny to become the mediator of money talks. Thats it.


Pushkar asked him yaar - he just want to make things better for Preekar thats it - simple
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17


Pushkar asked him yaar - he just want to make things better for Preekar thats it - simple


Right, but Pushkar himself is against demanding stuff 😆 And my question is why doesnt he tell it to Pushkar politely that he cant talk about expenses as its against his self-respect. The main point is, for me Shravan shall NEVER do anything that is aginast his own self-respect. And definitely never for Kamini or even for Preekar. He really needs to learn a thing or two from Sumo when it comes to taking a stand. Anyways lets see how he handles the venue situation...Hope he proves us wrong and comes up with some smart solution so that both Sumo's budget and Chachi's demands are met.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't like the way cvs put current track .. The demand of kamini in other way dowry..
None of tiwari n malhotra will say anything against it..
I can't blame shravan. More I pissed preekar..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you so much for pointing this out. It has been bothering me since day one. Why is Shra only focussing on her not coming for coffee date. As her friend shudnt he understood about d tension. When she struggled to pay 3 lakhs earlier so how big a tension it is for her now.

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