Helplessness: A dilemma of hurting yourself ( An Analysis) - Page 3

awww heart-wrenching yet so beautiful & realistic...

we all can relate to EDKV is some or the other way so it is very close to our hearts...

Mitali, brilliant as usual..

My heart went out to Sumo today.. The poor girl was dealt a cruel hand.. She faces the financial issues to get through wuth PreeKar marriage.. The burden of this almost resting her shoulders seemingly.. Then on the other side is Shravan.. It felt as if she isn't still sure if Shravan's love for her ..bcz she felt that he didn't trust her enough.. Then Ramnath categorically spitting out shit saying he doesn't want her to be his DIL.. Where does all this leave her... In an utterly confused state of mind.. And we saw exactly that side of Sumo yesterday..

On one side there's the PP wedding monetary issues and then there was Shravan.. What could she choose without jeopardizing a lot of things... If she chose the cheque, yes she could finance the wedding but she would lose the two things she holds dearest to her, self respect n Shravan. Even if we consider her taking the cheque for her family's sake, it's wrong.. A thing given with an ulterior motive can't be of any help.. Also there was the condition attached to it.. To stay away from Shravan.. Even though she isn't sure of his feelings she loves him n for her to walk away would mean abandoning him... Leaving him in the same position he was in 10years back.. She couldn't hurt him anymore.. Not when she had seen the progress in his character... Although she didn't feel that she was the reason for it.. She did see the calmness on his face, the way he was confident now.. And she couldn't hurt him again.

Sumo's conflict was so well depicted yesterday.. She thought about Shravan, all the other major players and also the outcome and what impact it could have..

Waiting to see her decision.. Hoping for Sumo to pull something out of the bag to tackle this situation.. Im very hopeful that nothing will go back to square one n it won't go round in circles anymore.

Roshni

And Mitali, excellent analysis once again.

I did understand sumo's dilemma. She was torn between her family and her love. But I didn't understand the need for her to bear a great amount of responsibilities for preekar's wedding. Their parents are there to handle everything. Sumo can contribute, but she doesn't have to sacrifice her love for that. I know she is obliged to help, but she has to start thinking about herself too. The people who placed her in that dilemma, are nothing but selfish (talking about preekar, not Shravan). I guess she just needed some time to think about it all, but why was she so rude to him? She didn't even realize that Shravan loves her, which is why Ramnath came to tell her whatever he said. And the worst part was when she said NO on his face. I know you said that she took out the anger of her frustration on him, that happens in reality, it's a psychological mechanism. But girl, be polite at least. This man took care of you and didn't even leave your side when you were ill. Sumo recollected all this and still she was harsh. That broke me as much as it broke Shravan. I was like, you did not just say that?! 😲 She could've said that she is busy and won't be able to meet, in a really polite manner. I couldn't see a shattered Shravan again. Every time he tries and his heart breaks, it's unbearable to watch again and again.

Thank you Priyam for posting it on her behalf😳

Love is never easy but today even among despair and sadness she stood tall

Her love shone through like the smile which refused to be washed away from Shravan's face

She still did not know about his feelings..but, she cared, she loved him deeply to allow him to be scarred again

She who did not know her value in Shravan's heart...allowed herself to be obliterated from his life..silently

But true love never fades nor is obliterated it finds its way through...a power which Ramnath failed to acknowledge

Love will find a way

Her dilemna , her pain I am amazed that people dont see all that. He can be rude to her but hes justified.

I am not siding her but I feel she was so shocked and I dont want her to accept his proposal.

Sorry until Ramus truth is out She should not accept his proposal. Marriage is not just these ILUS. Ramu will create more problems if she agrees without Shrav knowing the truth

agree she is confused and cant decide what to do or what no

so all this is leading her to get frustrated and the way mami says she will handle everything and the trust on her by family is another reason.

poor sumo ..