Sumo and Nirmala - Similar yet Dissimilar?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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So I watched the episode again and wanted to pen down some of the scattered thoughts - mainly to calm myself down. 😆

So the high point for me in the episode was the father-son dialogue:

Ramnath draws a parallel between his estranged wife and potential daughter in law - both independent, passionate about their work, headstrong and adamant. Tries to show Shravan how such people always (apparently) undermines relationships when it comes to making a choice.

Shravan agrees that Sumo is all that, but adds that she is also someone who loves and respects her family with the same passion - the way she is with her work.

Ramnath disagrees and almost submits into letting his son "see it for himself"

So here we see a parallel of sorts being drawn - is sumo like Nirmala? But then how actually was Nirmala? - we can come to that later (in the due course of the plot line may be)

As for what can happen next - It is very clear the Ramnath is out there to test Sharavan's theory - to test how much sumo loves (and sacrifice) for family - or for Shravan - when it comes to making a choice between herself, her self respect and the happiness of the people around her. Hence the cheque drama - playing out simultaneously, just when her family might need all monetary support and when Shravan is all set to maker her, his own.

Seeing from Ramu's perspective this is the perfect test - with all traps set for a failure (for Sumo) no matter what she does - if she chooses both cheque and money - she looses her self respect (and sort of sells out her family's self respect). If she refuses cheque and accepts shravan - she lets her family down and chooses her own happiness. If she turns both down, she lets down her family and her love for her self respect.

Have to applaud the CVs for creating this chakravyuh of sorts for sumo! 👏

How will she deal with it? I don't know. As I said, no matter what she does, she will loose something. I have a feeling she will decline both money and SM.

Why? - she can never let go of her self respect - just like Nirmala. And she does not want Shravan to have to choose between her and his father - just like Nirmala. She backs out - just like Nirmala. Her family will feel she is selfish (though I don't know how accepting money on the sly is a good thing, but that's a different discussion).

But then - she will also do something to show that despite all her similarities with Nirmala - she is not her - but how?

The parallel is also about Niru-Ram vis-a-vis Sumo - Shravan relation. The former had no trust, particularly from Ram. The latter has ample amount of it. So I am hoping the "difference" will be brought out from Shravan's part too by him trusting her, despite her apparent actions.

Thoughts? (I have been picking Indrani's 🤗 brain incessantly - and finally thought I should let it all out of my system 😆)

Love - Quirky (Sanjukta)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: QUIRKY333

So I watched the episode again and wanted to pen down some of the scattered thoughts - mainly to calm myself down. 😆

So the high point for me in the episode was the father-son dialogue:

Ramnath draws a parallel between his estranged wife and potential daughter in law - both independent, passionate about their work, headstrong and adamant. Tries to show Shravan how such people always (apparently) undermines relationships when it comes to making a choice.

Shravan agrees that Sumo is all that, but adds that she is also someone who loves and respects her family with the same passion - the way she is with her work.

Ramnath disagrees and almost submits into letting his son "see it for himself"

So here we see a parallel of sorts being drawn - is sumo like Nirmala? But then how actually was Nirmala? - we can come to that later (in the due course of the plot line may be)

As for what can happen next - It is very clear the Ramnath is out there to test Sharavan's theory - to test how much sumo loves (and sacrifice) for family - or for Shravan - when it comes to making a choice between herself, her self respect and the happiness of the people around her. Hence the cheque drama - playing out simultaneously, just when her family might need all monetary support and when Shravan is all set to maker her, his own.

Seeing from Ramu's perspective this is the perfect test - with all traps set for a failure (for Sumo) no matter what she does - if she chooses both cheque and money - she looses her self respect (and sort of sells out her family's self respect). If she refuses cheque and accepts shravan - she lets her family down and chooses her own happiness. If she turns both down, she lets down her family and her love for her self respect.

Have to applaud the CVs for creating this chakravyuh of sorts for sumo! 👏

How will she deal with it? I don't know. As I said, no matter what she does, she will loose something. I have a feeling she will decline both money and SM.

Why? - she can never let go of her self respect - just like Nirmala. And she does not want Shravan to have to choose between her and his father - just like Nirmala. She backs out - just like Nirmala. Her family will feel she is selfish (though I don't know how accepting money on the sly is a good thing, but that's a different discussion).

But then - she will also do something to show that despite all her similarities with Nirmala - she is not her - but how?

The parallel is also about Niru-Ram vis-a-vis Sumo - Shravan relation. The former had no trust, particularly from Ram. The latter has ample amount of it. So I am hoping the "difference" will be brought out from Shravan's part too by him trusting her, despite her apparent actions.

Thoughts? (I have been picking Indrani's 🤗 brain incessantly - and finally thought I should let it all out of my system 😆)

Love - Quirky (Sanjukta)


Sanjukta - Love this analysis. I have been thinking along these lines as well
1) Whatever she does she loses something
2) She wont say YEs to Shrav for sure
3) She might give the cheque back and then talk to Ramnath to convince Kamini on a normal wedding
4) This will show Ramu how shes not Nirmala. It might make the family against her but like Khosla track maybe Shrav will make her the hero
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sanju🤗
A cracker of a post
Ram's modus operndi is now eerily similar to what he did to Niru..
Niru had the choice to fight for her son or to leave without a notice and without a fight. She chose not to fight because that would result in a lot of accusations for herself and bring immense pressure on her 16 year old boy. She chose to leave without taking up the challenge and only thing that she did was not divorce Ram...A fact which neither gave her love nor her self-respect.But, the fact that Ram lives under her shadow or perennially in fear...
So far, so good
But, Sumo will not leave without a fight...at one side is her self-respect, at another her family's happiness and most importantly, her love
We have seen time and again..Sumo is not parallel to Niru...she has time and again proven her maturity, her understanding and love for Shravan...
Case in point, Daal, going forth numerous times to apologize for Niru drama, forgiving him for what he did during the revenge track (school reunion party), never revealing his or his father's role in PCT court case to her family members. And recently revealed through adding less ghee in the halwa..
She for her love was willing to stand on the ledge, was willing to reason him out of his despair and the gloominess of his vision...
So, Sumo has proven herself as adept in handling the man-child quite a few times
This time it is the most difficult one...money per se is not important, but her family's wishes are
Money vs Love is no equation for her...
So, Sumo needs to find a way out of this quagmire to be on the same page with Shravan and her family/self-respect
Lets see

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@spshastr - yup - she will do something to trump ramu - what would that be is the million $ question! btw - what is your name?🤗
@indrani - absolutely - sumo is not someone to succumb to such tricks - so she will do something completely unexpected (from ramu's POV). also the fact that Ramu equates her with Nirmala is because, he judged suman superficially only - either he is too blinded by hatred towards "independent" women or he is a bad judge of character (in general) - the latter is amply evident though from the way he snubbed nirmala forever and sides with the likes of kamini.

also, as you said - Sumo = Nirmala+truck loads of strength of character - so she is no easy one to deal with for folks like ramu and kamini. and with SM's trust, she can totally rock their boat.

this indeed is a very interesting track with so much potential to bring up sumo's guts and shine through the mutual trust SM-ST share - irrespective of anything. let's see how the track actually plays out vis-a-vis its potential.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@spshastr - yup - she will do something to trump ramu - what would that be is the million $ question! btw - what is your name?🤗
Smita 🤗
Lets see how this plays out. Will they bring this out is something we need to watch
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i didn't read your post but i know sumo is slim but nirmala should maintain diet 🤣
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: QUIRKY333

So I watched the episode again and wanted to pen down some of the scattered thoughts - mainly to calm myself down. 😆

So the high point for me in the episode was the father-son dialogue:

Ramnath draws a parallel between his estranged wife and potential daughter in law - both independent, passionate about their work, headstrong and adamant. Tries to show Shravan how such people always (apparently) undermines relationships when it comes to making a choice.

Shravan agrees that Sumo is all that, but adds that she is also someone who loves and respects her family with the same passion - the way she is with her work.

Ramnath disagrees and almost submits into letting his son "see it for himself"

So here we see a parallel of sorts being drawn - is sumo like Nirmala? But then how actually was Nirmala? - we can come to that later (in the due course of the plot line may be)

As for what can happen next - It is very clear the Ramnath is out there to test Sharavan's theory - to test how much sumo loves (and sacrifice) for family - or for Shravan - when it comes to making a choice between herself, her self respect and the happiness of the people around her. Hence the cheque drama - playing out simultaneously, just when her family might need all monetary support and when Shravan is all set to maker her, his own.

Seeing from Ramu's perspective this is the perfect test - with all traps set for a failure (for Sumo) no matter what she does - if she chooses both cheque and money - she looses her self respect (and sort of sells out her family's self respect). If she refuses cheque and accepts shravan - she lets her family down and chooses her own happiness. If she turns both down, she lets down her family and her love for her self respect.

Have to applaud the CVs for creating this chakravyuh of sorts for sumo! 👏

How will she deal with it? I don't know. As I said, no matter what she does, she will loose something. I have a feeling she will decline both money and SM.

Why? - she can never let go of her self respect - just like Nirmala. And she does not want Shravan to have to choose between her and his father - just like Nirmala. She backs out - just like Nirmala. Her family will feel she is selfish (though I don't know how accepting money on the sly is a good thing, but that's a different discussion).

But then - she will also do something to show that despite all her similarities with Nirmala - she is not her - but how?

The parallel is also about Niru-Ram vis-a-vis Sumo - Shravan relation. The former had no trust, particularly from Ram. The latter has ample amount of it. So I am hoping the "difference" will be brought out from Shravan's part too by him trusting her, despite her apparent actions.

Thoughts? (I have been picking Indrani's 🤗 brain incessantly - and finally thought I should let it all out of my system 😆)

Love - Quirky (Sanjukta)


Great post Sanjukta, ur mindblowing hamare dimag to chalne rahe... superb analysis
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks Sravya 🤗 just pretending to keep calm and chant Ram-naam 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Sanjukta great post.. I agree with whatever you said.. Sumo is tough nut to crack..N even though from exterior out look Sumo may share similar trait with Nirmala but she is different from her in many aspects like you have pointed out.. But there is another thing which Ramnath failed to judge or misjudged is his son Himself... He not only compared Sumo with Nirmala but He also thinks that his son is his Parchai his exact replica... N this is where he is wrong... Shravan who is again like Ramnath in his basics like getting angry at the drop of his hat but The Shravan the lover n friend of Sumo is a complete different person.. Shravan fell in love with the fighter Sumo.. For him it's her dreams which mattered to him the most even more than his dream... He termed her Special not just because she is his Childhood Best Friend but because she is equally Caring n independent... He values her self respect equally n that is why he challenged her to open his PCT at her home... He knows her passion for her cooking he is the only who witnessed it when no else realised her passion n even then he never left her side even though he abhorred the smell of Karelas.. N that's why it was her passion which he chose to cure him... He himself said cooking is your life how can you think of leaving it... If tomorrow Sumo decides to leaves her profession it is Shravan who will stop her from doing it... Even though Shravan has spelled out to Ramnath, Still Ramnath failed to see the depth of his love.. Shravan's love is unconditional n selfless which exactly opposite to Ramnath's supposed love which is based on Ego n selfishness..
I believe this track is brought not only to bring out the difference between Nirmala n Sumo n show how Sumo cam care for her family n Shravan without compromising with her self respect but it will also have to Show Shravan's irrevocable Faith in Sumo n whatever might her decision be he would stand by her as her rock solid support n show how indeed he has start following his heart...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@surochita - you summed it up so well! 🤗
Ramu has read everything wrong - the two people, the two relationships - and that is where his plan will go horribly wrong - eventually. But I am very sure the twists that will be brought forth by his ill-planned game will be worth our while 😉




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