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Posted: 9 years ago
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For Nirmala to try and meet Shravan? 🤔 I mean though she deny that she doesnt want to meet him but the fact that she is still staying at the Tiwaris despite Ramnath not being happy about it says a lot about her hope/wish to meet her son. But the fact is How right it is for her to invade in Shravan's life like this??

Though Ramnath too is of no good but apart from the lies he spoke, Ramnath always gave to Shravan what all love he needed. There are no two ways about the fact that Ramnath loves Shravan. But Nirmala? Does she really love Shravan? She left Shravan 10 years ago and in all those eyars didnt even bother to now how he looks like 😲 🤢 The time when she left, she was a established woman whereas Ramnath was still building a career, but still she didn't care about ensuring the financial security of Shravan. Rather she left Shravan w/o even trying to tell him the truth...for heavens sake he was a 14-15 year old boy not a toddler. He had the sensibilities in him to understand the situation. Even later Nirmala never tried to ensure how Shravan was doing in life. Rather she let the world believe that she is married to Ahuja. Is this called sacrifice? I don't think so. Honestly I feel irritated when she sheds those stupid crocodile tears and manipulates Sumo. Atleast Ramnath appears so worried to lose Shravan...we may call it his insecurity but we are only insecure for the ones we love. Whereas Nirmala she is giving two hoots about the fact that how her stay at the Tiwaris will not only spoil Shravan's family life but also his relations with his best friend. She doesnt give a damn about the fact that how difficult it would have been for her son to overcome his parents separation. .As a mother atleast she should know how sensitive Shravan is and it wont have been that easy for him to deal with the turmoil his family went through. And now after 10 years when he has finally learnt to move on Nirmala wants to spoil it all.

Honestly at the moment though cvs have tried to show that it was all Ramnath's fault but I dislike Nirmala much more. She gives a damn about what Shravan feels and only thinks about herself, her convenience. This is not love. Love is not convenient...it is unconditional and strives on constant effort and care. How I wish she just disappears from the show...because her character is really not helping me like her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Both of shravan's parents are at fault eqaully.. Nirmala on one hand behaves like a strong independent woman and.on other hand left her son just coz she was afraid of getting her name tarnished in front of her son..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

Both of shravan's parents are at fault eqaully.. Nirmala on one hand behaves like a strong independent woman and.on other hand left her son just coz she was afraid of getting her name tarnished in front of her son..


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I must I m disliking Nirmala more than Ramnath 😆
Ur pov is valid 👍🏼
When Sumo was Saying that They can try to sort out differences for Shravan's shake, rather than defending herself she could come out with some good reason I guess 🤢
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

Both of shravan's parents are at fault eqaully.. Nirmala on one hand behaves like a strong independent woman and.on other hand left her son just coz she was afraid of getting her name tarnished in front of her son..

I agree with u both are equally wrong
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

Both of shravan's parents are at fault eqaully.. Nirmala on one hand behaves like a strong independent woman and.on other hand left her son just coz she was afraid of getting her name tarnished in front of her son..

Agreed!
Ramnath is an egoistic insecure male chauvinist pig! Who cares only about himself and needs his son as a trophy.

And Nirmala, yeh aurat mere samjh nai aati...
Whatever the past, she left her only child with a man so broken like it was cake walk.. she didn't once stop to think that OK, she's saving her son from a bitter custody battle but she's leaving him with a guy who hates her.. needless to say that's the environment Shravan would grow up in.. if she didn't care then, toh ab, please shove your love and get lost. The self sacrificing image isn't getting any soft corners.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

Both of shravan's parents are at fault eqaully.. Nirmala on one hand behaves like a strong independent woman and.on other hand left her son just coz she was afraid of getting her name tarnished in front of her son..

bingo 👏
Same thought 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with the TM. Both the parents are at fault wherein they simply used shravan as their personal toy. Nirmala i have problems with is because the cvs try to justify her excessively. While ramnath wasn't right in what he did neither does that justify what nirmala did. Now she seems desperate to meet shravan and how much she worries for him but for me unfortunately that falls flat. The ten year gap and her no contact to him whatsoever simply messes it up. Both ramnath and nirmala in their own issue simple messed up shravan! While individually they had their own reasons as parents they just fall short.

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