Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
Ghanna you have written it sooo beautifully 👏👏
When I watch an episode without forwarding, I feel the directors, creatives, writers are on the right track. The episode was very heart warming, I had this mushy feeling looking at Suman and Nirmala, their bond is as beautiful as any mother daughter bond ❤️
She remembers so much about Nirmala Aunty, her likes, her tastes, her preferences and she saw her overwhelming emotions and love for her son Shravan, the stair case bit , when she tried to look once at her Son, tugged my heart .
And how poignant is that line by Nanu, elder people who have experienced life can give such beautiful and in depth annotations.
"Kabhi kabhi joh log ek dusre se sabse zyada pyaar karte hai, woh ek dusre se sabse zyada door hojate hai, ek choti si ghalat femi ki wajah se"
this is precisely what happened between these two relations.. how beautiful and thoughtful is this parallel between Shravan Suman, Shravan and his mom , and kudos to the writers for such an amazing script woven around these three characters, with Shravan being the one who held strings of these two women. Such an amazing writing by the writers , I am so glad to see these parallels written so meticulously with precision 👏
Jitna pyar , uthna dard ...this is what happened with Shravan- Suman and is happening with Shravan and his mom... and the base is not just any anger or hatred.. but a small misunderstanding which can be sorted out by talking . When two people love each other immensely .. any problem in the world can be sorted by talking out .. but to get hose two people to talk is a task.
For Shravan Suman... though they are separated for 10 years.. they were still part of each other's life.. for Suman, her love for Shravan grew over the period of separation...but for Shravan,. the angst for her grew...but he still checked her on her social media.. was angry that she is happy in her life while he wasn't ... the emotions may be complimentary but they are still held together by angst and love ..neither moved on and stayed connected to each other even when they never spoke ... that is because their hearts never separated from the other .And when finally they met ... there was no one 3rd person who knew of their differences, their despair, their angst, their anguish .. it was confined to the two .. (I love this about ShraMan..their relation and bond , fights and dosti is just confined to these two ) everyone thought they are just friends like 10 years back.. but none could understand or gauge how far they have gone from each other.. no helping hand was there to help these two young hearts to reconcile .. in such situations, life rolls the dice ... .. it offered so many situations to them, case in point Khosla case ... it got them together, they talked, sorted and erased all the misunderstandings.. with no third person's help.. but because they are meant to be ,,,, "Mil Jane De Dil Jo Bane, Ek Duje Ke Vaaste"
Similar situation, mom and son are separated, the angst with in him has grown much deeper... but at the same time he was missing her and remembering her while eating daal. Mom loves her son, the separation only increases her yearning to meet and love him more .. once again they are separate, but still connected by emotions of love and angst .. mention of his mom's name invokes a profound despair within him. while for Nirmala, Shravan makes her overwhelming with love and yearning . Today, when Nirmala saw Shravan from behind and heard his voice, her heart was yearning to see him once, even if it is from distance..and cut to Malhotra house, that portrait of Nirmala on the stair case, invoked so much anger and pain in Shravan that he yelled at Vandy bhabhi and later was guilty for the same. these two scenes were very symbolic and mirror to their emotions .
For Shravan Suman .. destiny threw them at each other.. while here it has to be Suman , as nanu said.. the toughest job is to get two people to come face to face and she will be the one to bring them face to face,, not to be someone mahaan,,,.. but to help remove a friend's despair and hatred towards women, which is pulling him down and not letting him move on in life... like falling love or getting married ... with whomever it might be...and to help a mom to get back to her son .. for she holds relations close to her heart, if she can do so much to wipe off her mother's name from the khosla fiasco.. would she let another mom yearn for her son all her life ? Here again I am sure, Suman wouldn't be siding any of the two, she will be instrumental in making them face to face... and gives them the space and time to talk and sort it out. .. once those misunderstandings are cleared,,, the years of separation, the angst and pain will be wiped off and the relation starts from where it ended, years back.. like in Suman and his situation.
And as you said, clearing of misunderstanding will give a new perspective to Shravan's thoughts and like you I don't want any jealousy or 3rd person to be reason for his realization .. it has to come from with in his heart as what he feels for her, now that the mist will be wiped off the mirror and his anti women thoughts will fade away. Once the slate is cleared, he can write his love story on her heart and she can on his .
And you know the best part in the entire scenario so far is that Shravan didn't fall for Sumo, because of her looks or his attraction towards her .. or he didn't get carried away by his charm and ego that he can make any girl fall for him .. for him it's all about emotions and feelings.. from with in their hearts and isn't that beautiful and profound. ..
And i have all thee patience to wait for a logical , conclusive love story based on strong base , rather than one which is rushed .. because it has to be strong and with deeper sense and not rush rush.. like I don't want him to say "I love you Suman .." when she is going to get married to someone...while at the the same time, him holding his grudge and despair in his heart against the women folk ..where Suman also comes from . when he holds such strong opinions against women, how can he let any woman come close to him... that would be hypocritical on his part.. hence I think this particular phase in the story is very important for his character to be justified in the love story ... Love story of couple is part of journey of their life story, and not their entire life story. There are some scenarios and situations beyond love story, which are beautiful, poignant and provide a strong base for a love story.
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