about yesterday

every time they are on screen its really cute and funny to watch them.
amidst all the tension. their scene had a calming effect

as yesterday we got to see ramnath's perspective about his wife. this is also the same perspective of shravan about his mom and all other woman. which was inflicted by ramnath at tender age.
ramnath showed shravan the side which he saw and he wanted to saw

as pushkar said earlier insaan wo dekhta ha jo wo dekhna chahta hai
ramnath's layers are now being peeled off slowly slowly

he is the actual example of the guy who wants woman to stay at home and take care of children and not work. he was unemployed and his wife was working. hence the insecurities coz end of the day society actually makes fun of the man who is sitting at home and his wife is working.
though i dont see even nirmala was that nice lady. even she is layered.
she was busy proving her right and her work when shravan needed her

but we cant say ramnath and nirmala didnot love shravan or didnot care for him
both loved him and did everything for his bright future. but both lacked trust in their relationship
and now ramnath says i know how it feels to be alone and u cant judge everyone as one made the mistake.
though i feel ramnath is now guilty as he can clearly see his deeds made shravan a man like this today
there is a major confrontation coming up btw nirmala and shravan as shravan now clearly wants to know what happened why she left. and he better tries to find the answer now. he was kid back then and left for london so he didnot get the oppurtunity to know the answers i really hope he asks now what happened
eagerly waiting to see nirmala's side and i do feel something happened in btw before nirmala left
one thing i didnot like about shravan yesterday was when he said woman can only break house when vandy was also present there with the whole family

whatever be his reasons but u cant say harsh words like this when ur brother's wife is present there. who is also taking care of his family.
the bitterness shravan has regarding woman i dont think it ll change any time soon. nor it ll change after his mother comes and things become all right

but what i have seen from yesterday episode is suman is silently taking all the anger of shravan.
she tried to make him understand tell him she didnot know that he has so harsh feelings about woman but shravan didnot listen to her for once
again as pushkar said shravan ll see what he wants to see
lets c how much suman takes it. coz her self respect ll soon come to picture which ll eventually lead her to move on from him. coz the guy nanu wants for suman who ll fulfil her dreams is definately not this new shravan.

today was abt suman getting a piece of clue in knowing the 'changed ' shravan ..

i liked the way suman tried to respond to him and touch of knocking on door (subtle clues are the best in the show) .. she didnt defend his mom ( which usually happen in indian telly a lot ) she showed concern for a friend in pain ..

like definetly nanu word and the new shravan rather i would say the real shravan..is not going 10 on 10 around

but what the bullshit is this ? why the hell women need a man to fulfil her dream why cant she alone cant fulfil it?

I just hate this type of mentality?

sumo is enough for herslef why he needs any man yaar like seriously nanu should think it twice ni amtter how much she cars for suman but this is not just right

😡already there is a lot of mess dont want sumo geeting maaried To osmeone and shravan commiting sucided..

sumo will move on as story is going that way but shravan will again will stuco on sumo after all the revaliton fo her parents side is done..

CVSS want to bang ur head cpmpletely ..

Dont dare to play any dirty politics and dont even dare to TRAP NAAMIK into it no way!

Yes... why didn't vandy say anything when shravan accused all women...

Now even I do not like sumo to go behind shravan at the cost of her self respect coz all these 10 years sumo led life on her terms no matter how she was treated at home. She is successful in her own way...

Just because shravan was her childhood friend she should not take it and move on. Shravan should realise what he said is wrong...

I am very upset about the way yesterday's flashbacks were conveyed. But as Echo, Indrani and so many others have mentioned would chalk it down to poor direction and editing. Do not want to take away the cvs efforts for the way they have moved this story.

It was only yesterday that I was thinking... how strong Shraman's love really is and how nothing could break them apart. Then comes today's episode and I am left wondering how Sumo is even going to be able to love / support this MCP man child. Kudos to the CVs for managing to do this...

Shravan, this man is a product of bad parenting. His father was selfish enough to demean his mom in front of him and his mom for reasons unknown abandoned him. Though both parents loved Shravan their love was twisted and selfish. They cared the most for themselves than for their child. Ramnath does not want his wife working and his son to be with him. Instead of nurturing the broken boy he promptly packs him off to London. Seriously bad!!

For the young Shravan, Sumo was his only ray of hope and sunshine. But they had their own nightmares to get past. Sumo unlike Shravan is from a loving family before fate took away her parents. But she has only happy memories about them.

Yesterday it was very clear that there is definitely love between Shraman. BUT that love alone will not be enough for them to surmount their emotional hurdles.

Sumo did a stupid thing on that marriage talk. But what right did Shravan have to tell everyone in the family about the marriage? Their friendship gave them that right. Both were behaving like kids playing pranks till it got serious. Shravan opened up and it was clear that he hates all women, predominantly because of the picture painted by Ramnath about his mother. As ttt1 mentioned in her post, it does not make sense for Shrvan to hate all women because his mother turned out bad. No logic there...

Then again Shravan has spent time with Sumo and considered her Friendship very important. So how would he think about her? What does he think of his Chachi and Vandy bhabi? No one is perfect, no one is all good. Humans are both good and bad. And all these women and even men have their inherent goodness along with the bad qualities. As Pushkar said Shravan sees what he wants to see.

Will Shravan ever change? Yes! He will only when he is driven to the extreme. His relationship with Sumo has seen extremes because she affects him very deeply. If she is unhappy it does get to him. We saw that in the party and Khosla track. She is the only person he runs to with his problems. She is also the only person who can stand up to him and make him see the right path. Once again, remember in the Khosla track how Shravan's father gave him the easy way out but Sumo steered him again in the right direction. She also does not leave his side and manages to shut Chachi up.

We may see something like that very soon. Shravans words about breaking their friendship isjust 'blaa' and nothing else. He has been without her for 10 years and has always been the one to leave her. We need to see what his reaction would be when she decides to move on. From what we have seen till now, if she ignores him, he always blocks her path and brings her back :). Love or hate he would not let Sumo be..

Once again he would want to change now, to become a better person in front of Sumo's eyes. He may not accept his defects but he WOULD change for her with her support. Sumo's marriage would just be the push for him in that direction. He would soon realize if he does not change then he would loose what matters the most to him and is going to be a very unhappy man, just like his father.

Wewww!!! That was a long post. In my defense, since yesterday's episode I have not been able to stop posting 😆😆 There is so much ranting that need to find vent 😛