HAQ and RISHTA : the price of expectation in love!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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What a super episode to follow up on the "mujhse se dosti karogi"!

I will not dwell much on the Thu episode which has been beautifully analysed by a lot of postmakers...to name a few...redwine1, DocD, Prc_fan1, ri21, sankadevi..etc..(sorry if I have missed naming the others)

The follow-up episode was the way the CVs delivered a seamless episode after the "friendship" gauntlet.

Sumo's extreme confusion as she waits for cues from Shravan on how she must handle this problem looked interesting. Sumo in a previous avatar would have led the proceedings, but this is unchartered territory; she is not sure how to proceed. However, Sumo's way of handling her confusion is vintage Sumo. How dare Shravan sleep peacefully when she is in a crisis?

Shravan on the contrary, sleeps peacefully, absolutely content now that Sumo has accepted his friendship. Yet, Shravan does not forget the rules of this newly minted friendship. He responds to the frantic call of his friend, gently chiding but absolutely the friend in deed for a friend in need. This may be the new friend Shravan yet intrinsically, he is the Shravan of the yore, who cannot see his Sumo in distress, however addled she may sound. He will do her bidding, as always.

However, there is now a significant "change" in the new equation. Sumo asks Shravan for his advice on a matter that Shravan has already banished from his mind so much so that Shravan has to reach the recesses of his memory to know what the fuss is all about. Sumo is encouraged by his nonchalance. If Shravan has already braved the storm, he will show her the way. He shows her the way...only that the way disappoints her...she had laid more expectation from her friend. The balance has tilted ever so subtly. Sumo comes away pensive. She had not expected to be in this zone (friendzone) considering their new-found understanding. There is perhaps that price of expectation that Sumo will have to pay for the change in balance. Her friend has suddenly become content with the "status quo"

Here comes in the part of that promo..."tumhe rokun woh HAQ kahan se laun"? and "main kis rishte se ruk jaun"?

The CVs have brilliantly restored status quo in their relationship yet changed the rules of the game. Sumo of the yore would have never hesitated to "jatao" her HAQ on Shravan and Shravan of the yore would have lain in wait for her HAQ "jataoing" . The new Sumo hesitates to take the call on their relationship and the new Shravan is just content at being her friend, nothing more nothing less. He had lost this precious thing in the past in his eagerness to have more and he is not ready to risk it. In fact, he is not even thinking of it. He has the one thing he holds more dear than anything, his Sumo's acceptance of him as a friend. I stress on the word acceptance. From Shravan's perspective, It was the one thing lacking in their bond, Sumo's acceptance and now he has it. This is why he is possessive of that bond, almost reconfirming it with a promise on the terrace and a reminder on the "tanga"😊

I am excited for the new part of the journey. Sumo's journey for that "HAQ" that will result in a "RISHTA"...that rishta which will bind the two forever. A relationship of true equals!!

Brilliant job CVs...👏👏.great work by the cast and crew. What sublime writing, the one thing sorely lacking in soaps of today that insult our sensibilities day in and day out. This is a refreshing attempt and I am so glad to enjoy it.

Lot of stand out scenes...the early morn convo of Shraman...Shravan can never say no to Sumo...the tanga scene...his playfulness now that he is content. All the rest of the guys just beautifully blended in..Pushkar-Preeti, Mami-Masi-Nanu all scenes for a purpose. What a lovely ensemble cast!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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A very nice analysis, I agree with you - the CVs have tied things up very well. The promo about the Haq was very well built into the story.
yes the caste is fantastic, each plays their role in the game almost making you forget that they are not those characters in real life.
Its good that they went from bitter with each other to friendship, but I think Shravan also wants more, but somehow he is being patient. Clearly he was wasn't crowding her with "Dosti" on his mind. He was clearly flirting with her, but I think he saw how she was completely taken aback, so he is taking it slow.
I love how the Cvs are driving this up and down and sideways and keeping it very interesting...👏 - as you said a very pleasant change from most soaps.
I must say though when Priti fell into Pushkar's arms today I was annoyed, but it looks like Pushy is not interested in Priti, but is certainly interested in playing Cupid! I hope they keep him that way and if they have to I wish they bring in someone new for him. Otherwise both Priti and Pushkar can be single, but not together.

I loved how Pushkar was handling Sumo wrestler:-)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanfan

The CVs have brilliantly restored status quo in their relationship yet changed the rules of the game. Sumo of the yore would have never hesitated to "jatao" her HAQ on Shravan and Shravan of the yore would have lain in wait for her HAQ "jataoing" . The new Sumo hesitates to take the call on their relationship and the new Shravan is just content at being her friend, nothing more nothing less. He had lost this precious thing in the past in his eagerness to have more and he is not ready to risk it. In fact, he is not even thinking of it. He has the one thing he holds more dear than anything, his Sumo's acceptance of him as a friend. I stress on the word acceptance. From Shravan's perspective, It was the one thing lacking in their bond, Sumo's acceptance and now he has it. This is why he is possessive of that bond, almost reconfirming it with a promise on the terrace and a reminder on the "tanga"😊

I am excited for the new part of the journey. Sumo's journey for that "HAQ" that will result in a "RISHTA"...that rishta which will bind the two forever. A relationship of true equals!!



Word to everything you said!
And @BOLD 👏

That's exactly what I felt; he's so content with what he has now, he is not even thinking of it progressing into something more.
And I could never have expressed it like you did there😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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R,
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Such a beautiful post. 👏
Agree word by word...The storytelling is excellent here. In fact, I was as disappointed as Sumo with Shravan yesterday. Though on Thursday, he had made the friendship status crystal clear...Sumo is aware of her feelings now...and seriously, woh kahan se haq laayegi! 😭

Mujhse dosti karogi!

So their journey has come back to that point ..and the first half of the promo has played out...😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely post this one!
👏👏
Word to your post😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i have a feeling that she will get her haq from the letter shrvan wrote her she will by some means get hold of it and this realization will give her haq for their rishta
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup

R,

🤗

Such a beautiful post. 👏
Agree word by word...The storytelling is excellent here. In fact, I was as disappointed as Sumo with Shravan yesterday. Though on Thursday, he had made the friendship status crystal clear...Sumo is aware of her feelings now...and seriously, woh kahan se haq laayegi! 😭

Mujhse dosti karogi!

So their journey has come back to that point ..and the first half of the promo has played out...😳


Hey Soup,😊

Hey why are you upset with Shravan? 😆 I would have been upset only if he had flirted with her yesterday...which he clearly did not. He was playful on Thursday 😉 and indulgent on Friday but I genuinely think he seems to have let the love submerge into his subconscious ( as was evident in the Khosla track). The track has let him get over his bitterness, in my view..it would have been hardly fair for him to "trade" that situation (where all and sundry have been considering the case his victory) with a love confession from his end.

Well Sumo has to dig deeper to search for that HAQ..I doubt it is going to be handed on a platter (read letter 😆😆 as per the latest OLV).





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Hey Soup,😊

Hey why are you upset with Shravan? 😆 I would have been upset only if he had flirted with her yesterday...which he clearly did not. He was playful on Thursday 😉 and indulgent on Friday but I genuinely think he seems to have let the love submerge into his subconscious ( as was evident in the Khosla track). The track has let him get over his bitterness, in my view..it would have been hardly fair for him to "trade" that situation (where all and sundry have been considering the case his victory) with a love confession from his end.

Well Sumo has to dig deeper to search for that HAQ..I doubt it is going to be handed on a platter (read letter 😆😆 as per the latest OLV).




Upset as in...I know he is not at fault in any way..but damn the guy! He could sleep so well and brush it off as a chhotti baat! Grrr...😆

I am miffed with him for being so dense! Poor Sumo! 😭😆 And there is nothing she can do to prove that haq! Yeh banda itna successful ho gaya hai...He has almost gone out of her reach...

But Yes...I don't expect the guy to barge in with a confession..let him take his time...

Saw the OLV-

Isn't there a pattern here?😉

Everything is happening to Sumo...

She is the one made aware of her feelings..She is the one drilled about their relationship status...She is the one made inquisitive by the Pushkar- Preeti bet...and she is the one desperately hoping for a closure...
..Now she is the one who stumbles on a letter written years ago...There is so much Shravan doesn't know about what is going on in her mind..

And now, how is she going to process that letter...Will it make her more wishful, or will it dash all her hopes, knowing Shravan has already sorted this out through the years...and he has clearly called her a friend.
How heart breaking! 💔

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


Upset as in...I know he is not at fault in any way..but damn the guy! He could sleep so well and brush it off as a chhotti baat! Grrr...😆

I am miffed with him for being so dense! Poor Sumo! 😭😆 And there is nothing she can do to prove that haq! Yeh banda itna successful ho gaya hai...He has almost gone out of her reach...

But Yes...I don't expect the guy to barge in with a confession..let him take his time...

Saw the OLV-

Isn't there a pattern here?😉

Everything is happening to Sumo...

She is the one made aware of her feelings..She is the one drilled about their relationship status...She is the one made inquisitive by the Pushkar- Preeti bet...and she is the one desperately hoping for a closure...
..Now she is the one who stumbles on a letter written years ago...There is so much Shravan doesn't know about what is going on in her mind..

And now, how is she going to process that letter...Will it make her more wishful, or will it dash all her hopes, knowing Shravan has already sorted this out through the years...and he has clearly called her a friend.
How heart breaking! 💔


Gal, You have cracked it again! I think unlike other shows, the cvs dont add unnecessary hide and seek here. I am sure Sumo would read that letter. But she would take it as Shravan's childhood love and that he does not desire her anymore. It would remind her of what she had and how she lost it all. All said and done it looks like an unequal relationship.. Shravan being tops in looks as well as status. Maybe Sumo would confess when she sees them being on equal terms.

Sumo is going to go through a lot of pain. Would she keep to herself? I am sure for a change she would not try and stop Shravan this time around. Because all along she has been the one to stop him from leaving, childhood till now. Hopefully this time around Shravan would take the call and decide to pursue his prey 😆
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