Double Standards - Page 3

Tell me something if tomorrow out of the blue someone comes n tarnishes your parents name.. As a daughter will you be able to tolerate it??? Specifically when your parents are no more?? If you ask me then the answer is a BIG NO.. No daughter can ever tolerate anything uttered against her parents... We might for a second overlook our own Self respect but never can we stand our parents insult... Ask this question to yourself... Will you be able to bear your parents insult???

Originally posted by: Mohabbateinn

😆 A lot of baseless action going on in the show.. a bigger matter is probably how he doesn't have the confidence that he'd win the case legally. Sadly, in the real world not everyone has a rich friend who could give away a whooping 6 crores. I wish Sumo was a strong character... but sadly they are showing her super weak from the past few epis. Moreover, just like every other show.. she's reliant on a male lead to save the day. Her only contribution to the case has been crying, and collecting a few water bills. Meanwhile, the male lead himself took the easy way out.🤣 Both character sketches need huge improvement... there were some topics out there today on the forum stating how they loved the epi.. but imo, there's so many flaws that still need to be worked on. If a girl is going to cry in every episode, don't name her SUMO. If a male lead is constantly going to be played around by the female lead, and emotionally controlled.. then DON'T show him as a huge London-based hot shot.

I was also confident that he would fight the case with facts and arguments and win it. And 6 cr. too dramatic.

Originally posted by: Angels11

Believe me she knows. A girl always knows. She knew that he refused 2 stay back wen his dad begged him. She knew that he has put his career in London on hold. She knows but she ll b grateful & send heart wala thank you message only if everything is as per her liking. She dint yell at Shravan but neither did she appreciate his gesture. She is quick to find fault in Shravan but sadly herself falls short of her own lofty standards when returning back love & affection.

She ll b happy, cheerful pleasant only if Shravan dances to her tunes. If he is angry or heartbroken & insults her she wont even give him 1 backward glance or try 2 understand his pain! A relationship never looks beautiful wen its 1 sided. Beauty of a love symphony is only when there is music in the hearts of both, not just a 1 sided unhealthy obsession frm 1 side

Originally posted by: surochitadutta

Tell me something if tomorrow out of the blue someone comes n tarnishes your parents name.. As a daughter will you be able to tolerate it??? Specifically when your parents are no more?? If you ask me then the answer is a BIG NO.. No daughter can ever tolerate anything uttered against her parents... We might for a second overlook our own Self respect but never can we stand our parents insult... Ask this question to yourself... Will you be able to bear your parents insult???

Coming to her mother taking loan... Yes she took loan n it's not that ki she enjoyed taking loan.. It was her majboori n not her sauk to take loan from all n sundry... N ok for once she might think that she had indeed taken a loan from Khosla.. But she knew her parents... N she knows her mother could never have taken loan by mortgaging the house which was so precious to Her father or whose Co owners are her own siblings ... We all know what our parents are capable of doing... N so going by that knowing Sumo is dead sure that her mother can never mortgage her parental house... N ya when her house was auction after her parents demise she was only 6 year old.. How can a 6 year old possible have self respect... A 6 year old doesn't even know the meaning of that word...

Coming to Shravan... Sumo knows n appreciates what Shravan did... She knows what her friend did was good for the house... N she is greatfull for that... But unknowingly the mistake he committed can't be ignored also... She is hurt n not angry... Sumo at this point of time has irrevocable trust on Shravan.. But it's not easy for her to overlook the mistake also... It's not about her self respect but it's about the truth n her mother's reputation... Trust me every child wants her parents to be remembered fondly... Every child is Possessive about Their parents... She is not doubting Shravan's intentions even for once but there is a saying in Hindi " Sahi kaam karne ka Har galat raasta galat hi hota hai " n from Sumo POV her reaction is completely justified...

brilliant ⭐️👏 my words.

Suman has a point in being disappointed. The issue here isn't just about Priya taking loans but about the accusation on her that she cheated her father and siblings by using their house document for the loan. That's a serious accusation on her honesty.

Plus, Khosla has been falsely claiming that Priya took a loan from him. By paying him money, somewhere it goes to show that Khosla was right and is the honest person in all this. Him getting to extort money by using a dead person's name to his advantage is plain injustice. And there is no guarantee Khosla would be satisfied with this 6 crores; he might try to trouble them in future to get more money out of them. Plus, now there would be an added debt of 6 crores on Suman.

OK lots of folks feel tat i am being insensitive, not understanding the pain of a daughter fighting for her dead parents. So let me just highlight a few points which troubled me:

1. Frm the beginning Suman was claiming that v cant lose the house. Both Nani, herself & even Shravan r so attached to the house. So her 1st & foremost priority is to save the house rt? But no for Suman the only priority was always to prove that her parents were best. Per se I dont find this wrong. Every kid thinks their parents r best. But then y the lie tat saving the house is all she cares for. So mami was rt in a way. For her BAAD MEIN JAYE SAB LOG, the reputation of her parents is more important than saving her precious Nanu's house. Is this not being selfish. Again I am fine with ppl being selfish. We all are! But I am simply pointing out the double stds of the fans on this forum. If mami is selfish she is evil, freeloader blah blah. But if Suman the great heroine is selfish its not being selfish. She is actually MAHAN. This tendency in every forum in IF to justify every single deed of the FL is wat irritates me. Happened in my old forum as well. If maami hurts others in trying to make the life of her kids better she is evil. But if the grt Suman hurts others in trying to prove her mom's honesty she is MAHAN!!!!

2. Its a romantic fiction. So v all know tat Suman, Shravan r good, Suman's parents r gud. But does tis happen in real life? Just coz parents love their kids doesnt make them pure than the driven snow. Even the worst criminals might ve kids tat dote on them. I am not saying Suman's parents r evil. All I am saying is how can an entire case lie on the strength of the love of a 6 yr old girl who idolized her parents? Is tat not taking a myopic view. Same with nanu always supporting his daughter. Nanu & Suman keep claiming that Priya had written everything in her book. Suman's parents died an untimely death. When did Priya last update the records. What if they had taken the loan on the day they died or the prev day & hence dint ve the time 2 record it. All I am pointing out is how weak legally the case is. Just try telling tis in court that Priya is innocent coz there is no entry in her little book with Khosla's name. You ll b laughed out of the court.

3. Coming to Shravan-Suman relationship. Even the jerk ASR showed examples of caring for the girl he kept insulting. But here so far I ve seen only insults from the grt heroine. Frankly I am just tired of all this aatma samman stuff. In between the aatma samman if the CVs show small glimpses of Suman's affection & friendship for Shravan the show can be enjoyable to non-biased viewers like me. I am not asking Suman to fall in love & go all gooey. I am just asking for some honest glimpses of her care for Shravan. Till now its always Shravan has done something & she reacts. Earlier he insulted so she insulted back. He put his life & work on hold, so she thanked him. Basically till now she has never done anything voluntarily for this friendship. After 3 mths if the CVs still cant show even small glimpses of Suman giving back something in this relationship then sorry they must change the title frm Ek Duje Ke Vaste to Sumo ki Majnu. It ll b more apt.

Agree with u..I think it's time for cv's to show sumo' s feelings.. Until now we have seen only sharavan' s side.. I didn't like how sumo every time giving lectures to shravan.. It's high time they can show sumo' s feelings..until now only shravan character developed fully... Hopefully soon they develop sumo's character too...

Guys Chill. ...

Originally posted by: Angels11

Her parents' names are already tarnished. Their house WAS AUCTIONED. Do u know how humiliating experience it is to ve ur house auctioned. My friend's uncle actually committed suicide. So her parents' life was so far blemish less & only Khosla caused the proverbial scar on the moon????

What was auctioned was their own money. Here they are accused for acts that they did not commit. Tantamount to stealing. Not the same.

Also there is a limit to how much a person can GIVE, GIVE & GIVE in a relationship. This guy has actually put his bloody life on hold for this lady. Do u even know wat it takes 2 put ur career on hold. HELL i ve 2 give 1000 answers to my manager if i take 1 day leave & believe me i am in a high position myself in my company. So a guy has actually gone thru hell to help u. Do i see even a little teensy weensy bit of gratitude. Oh no coz for Sumo its always I ME MYSELF.

Shravan was Sumo's lawyer. No lawyer could act without consulting a client. I am starving and I want food, but if you give me a gold coin, it is not going to help me satisfy my need. This is what happened in this case... For Sumo her mom's character matters. She does not complain. Merely states their ways of thinking.

Why is Suman sad again. Oh u forgot. Let me remind u. She did not have her way as usual. After all not every1 including Khosla is a doormat pushover like her fav boy toy!

Shravan should have discussed. Yes. Sumo was not angry at him but hurt. I guess he is the only person to whom she can bare herself and he does understand too. There are no equal give and take in a relationship. You cannot measure it like math. Its feelings and at times one would give and the other would take. Right now Sumo is at a low and Shravan has to give. When the roles reverse you would see Sumo being there for Shravan. Lets wait and watch.