A fine line

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Originally posted by: mannu100

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Sureee dont know what cvs are trying to say by SELF RESPECT..

I am just certainly unable to connect to suman character anymore ,

i find her self respecy mere a bullshit self respect does not mean u lost ur brain too

but this girl OMGGG is seems she has no changed mentaly this is year no maater how much sacrifice anf troubles she had been gone thorugh but the fact is..

SUMO has no changes she is till that badtamiz baddimag and kinda selfishhh and obseesed...Girl😡

Sorry for ranting but i cant understand...what she did with shravan was no less than crime...and she just not thining or not readt to aceept the fact that how much she has caused pain to shravan like seriously

SELF RESPECT ,,SELF RESPECT SELF RESPECT...bullshit yaar

It seems that self respect is her mask under being since the same sumo who is so so IMAGEEE OBSSESED.

Get a life girl

''Kisi ko dil se sorry bolna Apna self -respect khona nahin hota hai'''''''

Juat started to hate Sumo ...dont know but i just cant able to take her any more

Even now she is so so egoistic and impulsive she is just in her own world

MY SELF-RESPECT,,MY PROBLEM MY EGOOO

SUMAN TIWARI u are Has a bhulney ki bimari

Get check urself thoroughly dear...

I am readyyy to be bashed😃

sory this is just my frustration hope no body will be ofended...

am not talking about this money matter i am talking aobut sumos self recipocrate and realization...does she ever think of once why shravan goes To that extreme does for ever single moment for god sake!!!!!! ...just sayin woh mera bacpana tha she cant get off with it what she has done with ...shravan ...in the pasrt does she ever...think of it ..naaa instead she is so impulsive ...is better to not talk about...😲😲...

Soory doesnot meant u loose ur self respect ...just one for the moment think miss tiwari...

One sorry...can do majic the word looks simple and pale but it has a masculine effect...

Suman should understand the divisions BTW self respect ,EGO and...Impulsiveness!!

Originally posted by: memario

Totally agree with you mannu..i mean sure all of us girls have a self respect but we also say sorry all the time i havent ever felt less by apologizing for my mistakes you actually feel good by saying sorry..As a girl i myself am not able to relate to suman..

I agree with you. Many like me are on the same boat, unable to relate to or like the character. Many folks ve argued that if she hadnt cared why was she so happy to meet Shravan after 10 yrs. Her enthusiasm has got nothing to do with regret or apologizing. She just wanted to see a childhood friend who pampered her. Now that she is an adult & is bowed down by responsibility & cold disdain by her relatives Shravan is her way of clinging on to happier memories when she felt loved & cherished by someone. We all feel happy & nostalgic about school, childhood, childhood friends. Same with her. Its got nothing to do with regret. I still maintain she still feels she did nothing wrong. Else she wouldnt ve used the word bachpana. Even during hisab barabar she should ve said OK I hurt you, you hurt me so it cancels out. No she still maintains that ITNI BHI BADI BAAT NAHIN THI.

Believe me when I am hurt with my hubby & says Fine, I ve forgotten it. He knows I ve not forgotten it. He knows I am still angry & hurt. Thats why i feel Suman never really knew or understood Shravan. Her friendship was very superficial! Look at Shravan. He feels her pain, her emotions even though she pretends that she is fine. But Suman never sees beyond the mask. Thats why i find her shallow, selfish & superficial. Shravan described her best aft the party.

But love is blind, thats why Shravan still loves this girl. Noone else would!

Suman already.said sorry for what she did but.shravan made it look like he was way pass that incident and said her to move on.. She didnt mean it when she said it wasnt a big deal.. She knows it was a big deal but if he.is acting as if all is ok and he moved on there is nothing she could do... She dont know how much she affects shravan... She dont know that she is the reason behind his changed personality.. She dont know at obe point of his entire life revolved around her...

Originally posted by: Angels11

I agree with you. Many like me are on the same boat, unable to relate to or like the character. Many folks ve argued that if she hadnt cared why was she so happy to meet Shravan after 10 yrs. Her enthusiasm has got nothing to do with regret or apologizing. She just wanted to see a childhood friend who pampered her. Now that she is an adult & is bowed down by responsibility & cold disdain by her relatives Shravan is her way of clinging on to happier memories when she felt loved & cherished by someone. We all feel happy & nostalgic about school, childhood, childhood friends. Same with her. Its got nothing to do with regret. I still maintain she still feels she did nothing wrong. Else she wouldnt ve used the word bachpana. Even during hisab barabar she should ve said OK I hurt you, you hurt me so it cancels out. No she still maintains that ITNI BHI BADI BAAT NAHIN THI.

Believe me when I am hurt with my hubby & says Fine, I ve forgotten it. He knows I ve not forgotten it. He knows I am still angry & hurt. Thats why i feel Suman never really knew or understood Shravan. Her friendship was very superficial! Look at Shravan. He feels her pain, her emotions even though she pretends that she is fine. But Suman never sees beyond the mask. Thats why i find her shallow, selfish & superficial. Shravan described her best aft the party.

But love is blind, thats why Shravan still loves this girl. Noone else would!

Originally posted by: spnfan

Suman already.said sorry for what she did but.shravan made it look like he was way pass that incident and said her to move on.. She didnt mean it when she said it wasnt a big deal.. She knows it was a big deal but if he.is acting as if all is ok and he moved on there is nothing she could do... She dont know how much she affects shravan... She dont know that she is the reason behind his changed personality.. She dont know at obe point of his entire life revolved around her...

If the accident and 3L incident didnt happen may be she would have thought about him but she never got time to think about how much she hurt him...

She didnt even took money from her employ then how will she take money from someone who literally called her a gold digger few days back that too on front of so many people... Anyone would have done what suman did...

This is where I disagree. Somewhere Suman still feels that what she did was not a big thing. Its reflected in her attitude, her response. Else after the party when she realized that Shravan has actually not moved on she should ve regretted what she did. Not just for hurting him but for losing a golden friendship. She wouldnt ve glossed over her behavior calling it bachpana. So no she still doesnt regret it nor does she truly understand the inner turmoil of Shravan. Shravan was more selfless in his friendship than her & I am not telling this just due to that 1 incident. Shravan even now understands her pain & true feelings. Suman is clueless. This means the friendship has always been skewed & Suman has less empathy & is defo more selfish. Granted that aft being called a gold digger no girl would like to take money. I support her for trying to repay Shravan. What i dont support is that she is still in denial that her behavior was & is boorish & arrogant. She needs to show more empathy towards others.

If she notice she doesnt actually love her family either, except Nana & Dada. Yes she slaves around but tats not due to love or affection but coz she feels obligated towards them. In Shravan's case though he knows his chachi is little selfish he still loves her, lalaji, both brothers & even Wandy 😆

This is why i love the CVs of this show. They have taken a deliberate gamble with Suman;s character by making it less likeable, some1 who is human & finds love despite her flaws. Usually in other shows they do it with the hero & gloss it over with the hero's hotness but here the gender is reversed. I am really like the CVs & director of this show 😳

If we are talking about money return then she thought that as self respect as they are not friends if they were friends then she might accept but after shra's behavior at party she broke all relationship with him so when he gives money she doesn't consider that as help but show off of money...So she thought he hurts her self respect...
Then about itni badi baat she wanna apologize heartily after meeting him.but he said I don't remember any sumo but still she tries but every time he stops her not giving opportunity to her to talk so ...
But after jewellery flasback I too feel she know pain of being alone without parents but then how can't she understand his pain...that was strange thing...