Torn dress or broken friendship... - Page 2

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Originally posted by: rekha.366

Well I get it Suman will be heart broken when she knows about what shravan did and maybe don't trust him and not forgive him but why you guys think he will ask sorry and what changed between now and then he will ask get sorry . He is doing this because he wants to show her that what he felt when Suman take him granted and didn't consider his feelings. Don't say that she didn't lead him and they are children. I think they are at least 16 or 17 age I think that age people know that what is right and wrong . He asked her to come with him and she say that he was not good enough to go with him I can imagine how he hurted that he still didn't get over that. . What I am thinking is he didn't want to insult her ya anything he just want to show that how he hurt when she said he was not good enough for her. Like Suman said it's not big thing but he want to show that it's very big thing for him and he wants sumo understand that. And it's not only shravan who seek for her forgiveness sumo also need shravan forgiveness if they wants to continue their friendship. If not then they can move with their lives without crossing each other paths.

Originally posted by: poppinss

Even thought they are not kids at that age... they are also not mature. This is the age when when everything is taken casually. This is also the age when our parents support us financially and emotionally and we all feel the world is at our feet. Only when we go to work and face the real world, away from parents do we really grow up.

In that sense neither Suman nor Shravan were grown up... Again, in the past and present Sumo apologized Shravan didn't... For Shravan it is not just about Sumo ditching him at the party... it is about Sumo not being in love with him and reciprocating his feelings... that is what hurt him. Then, he did not want to wait and now, he is going about it from the wrong side of the road!!

agree that they are not mature and don't take things seriously but it's the same age which is foundation of the future what ever you learn you will learn in childhood and it's effects in adult hood. And Suman really don't know that the hurt she caused him. And I don't really think it's only Suman refused his feelings it's more than that. No one can blame that it's her choice who she wants to be with. It's more like he was not good enough for herself friendship. Because he was geeky, nerd that's why he was not good. It's hurt when people judge then seeing their outer appearance and I think that hurt him more.

Exacting revenge from a person who was once your world, doesnt make sense to me. Borders on cruelty and insensitivity. Shravan even after ten years is going all out to humiliate her for what he believes she hurt his innocent heart. But did she really? Sumo was always clear that they would be friends outside the school premises, and he agreed with her. He didnt back out and neither did he reveal his true feelings and when he once did, am very sure Sumo was and still is unaware.

Na I don't think she will easily forgive him after all this..she did that in childhood but he is doing now...

LOL!

Originally posted by: beagleboy

I think this whole tit for tat track is rather silly. But perhaps Shravan is meant to look silly and immature in the track. Yes. That's what it is. He is meant to look silly and moronic.

When Sumo did what she did, she was young and full of herself. Now, Shravan is OLDER and full of himself. To do something silly in your youth is one thing, but to take that and repeat it when you are older is something else all together. He has taken Suman's immaturity and acted upon it when he is older and supposedly more mature.

Now do you want to be friends with someone who is that immature, who has not evolved with time? A nut lodged in a hard candy? You'd rather throw that candy away than breaking your teeth and spending money on a dentist!

So I may not be able to predict what the character will do but I can say what I would like her to do- not eat that candy. There are plenty of other delicious desserts in the market that will satisfy your cravings. Time is very precious and one should spend it with people who are worth spending it with. To chase after an unlikely dream is to chase after a kite that is too fast and swept by strong winds, and when you finally get to hold it you realise that it is torn and imperfect. But you would have wasted time and energy running behind it. Sumo is better off on her own.

Simple logic ...repeating all the 'wrongs' or silliness that suman did as a teenager is the 'heros' answer for revenge ...its surprisingly different ,good different, bad different or indifferent is the question as a viewer I ask

Originally posted by: Ri21

she always had this thing in her that she ll make it up to him for all the deeds. so this again the same thing. dosti ke liye kuch bhi
but yes that dialouge was a symbol that suman not going to forgive shravan after reunion party when she ll know all these were intentional and more worse part now the goons thing. it just added oil to fire
so yea mr malhotra ll have tough time wooing suman. coz she was all in her dreamland for shravan but now after all this she ll be a strong her. a sight which he ll be scared to see now,