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Hey people,
Yeah I know everyone is in a terrible mood and they're cursing the new CV for slaughtering a beautiful FIL-DIL relationship. I'm preparing myself mentally to see all the negativity flowing in but as always I want to give you all positive vibes. Here's what I have to say about tonight's episode:
1. DO I THINK THEY COMPLETELY RUINED JR'S CHARACTER?
Nope I don't. Ok no matter how nice and loving people are the tiniest and the most illogical of doubts cloud a person's ability to trust. I have learnt this from my own experience with friends. I was extremely close to a friend who I went over and beyond for and one fine day she confronts me saying that I have never cared for her and I was just pretending to care for her. Why? Because a third party put doubt in her mind that I didn't actually care for her and when I told her that this was all wrong and that I loved her like a best friend, she didn't believe me. This is exactly the case between JR and Tara. People forget all the kind things and all the love you shower on them when doubt seeps into their brains. That's why today I didn't feel bad because you're so much better off without these kind of people in your life who are willing to throw away a strong relationship because of something they've heard or seen that may not be true. They showed us what it's like in reality - when it comes to a time of crisis, people show their true face. Suddenly people who you thought would always be by your side leave you forgetting how you were with them in their time of need. This is reality my friends, not a butchering of character.
2. DO I THINK TARA TOOK THE RIGHT STEPS TODAY?
She did what MJ told her to do. She knew RP would attack MJ but she had to do it because her patidev wanted her to get the truth out. I'm glad that she blurted all that out because even if they didn't believe her, they will not stop thinking about the accusation she hurled at RP. When Baba cools down and starts missing Tara bahu he'll start thinking deeply about what she said. Also if Tara hadn't done what she did today then she would have never discovered the selfishness of this family and now she will try even harder to prove their innocence to restore her relationship with JR. Not such a bad thing imo and now I feel like Nirmala will play her part :)
3. WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO MJ NOW?
Tbh it's hard to say with the unpredictabilty of the show but I think that they will live in the UC if JR kicks them out. Also about the verdict, I reckon Nirmala will somehow manage to save MJ from this. From her expressions today, you could see that she wasn't buying RP's overacting. C'mon Nirmala your time has come!
Look I know these are hard times for a viewer to watch now because of all the bad things that are happening but I really hope none of you stop watching or start hating the show. That would really break my heart because we're all a big EBI family and each and everyone of you are so valuable to this forum and show! Also thanks to you all for being so lovely and liking my posts :) I hope I'm able to cheer you guys up! Kya Tara ke liye zeher ban jayega ek boond ishq? Now the show is back on track!
Yeah I know everyone is in a terrible mood and they're cursing the new CV for slaughtering a beautiful FIL-DIL relationship. I'm preparing myself mentally to see all the negativity flowing in but as always I want to give you all positive vibes. Here's what I have to say about tonight's episode:
1. DO I THINK THEY COMPLETELY RUINED JR'S CHARACTER?
Nope I don't. Ok no matter how nice and loving people are the tiniest and the most illogical of doubts cloud a person's ability to trust. I have learnt this from my own experience with friends. I was extremely close to a friend who I went over and beyond for and one fine day she confronts me saying that I have never cared for her and I was just pretending to care for her. Why? Because a third party put doubt in her mind that I didn't actually care for her and when I told her that this was all wrong and that I loved her like a best friend, she didn't believe me. This is exactly the case between JR and Tara. People forget all the kind things and all the love you shower on them when doubt seeps into their brains. That's why today I didn't feel bad because you're so much better off without these kind of people in your life who are willing to throw away a strong relationship because of something they've heard or seen that may not be true. They showed us what it's like in reality - when it comes to a time of crisis, people show their true face. Suddenly people who you thought would always be by your side leave you forgetting how you were with them in their time of need. This is reality my friends, not a butchering of character.
2. DO I THINK TARA TOOK THE RIGHT STEPS TODAY?
She did what MJ told her to do. She knew RP would attack MJ but she had to do it because her patidev wanted her to get the truth out. I'm glad that she blurted all that out because even if they didn't believe her, they will not stop thinking about the accusation she hurled at RP. When Baba cools down and starts missing Tara bahu he'll start thinking deeply about what she said. Also if Tara hadn't done what she did today then she would have never discovered the selfishness of this family and now she will try even harder to prove their innocence to restore her relationship with JR. Not such a bad thing imo and now I feel like Nirmala will play her part :)
3. WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO MJ NOW?
Tbh it's hard to say with the unpredictabilty of the show but I think that they will live in the UC if JR kicks them out. Also about the verdict, I reckon Nirmala will somehow manage to save MJ from this. From her expressions today, you could see that she wasn't buying RP's overacting. C'mon Nirmala your time has come!
4. Never judge a book by its cover:
Why do I say this? I think it's too early for us to come to any conclusions about JR's character at the moment. I've talked about human nature and I've said that JR's mind has been poisoned by doubt and so he has forgotten of all the sacrifices MJ and Tara have made for this family. However, JR isn't a stupid man.
What is a dead man going to do with property? If Tara wanted property then why go through all that trouble to prove MJ innocent when she could've let MJ rot in jail and enjoy the luxurious life? Why would Dadaji who is mentally unstable iterate the same thing Tara just said? Isn't he too sick to understand the situation? Why does RP not like people coming into his room and if he was so confident that Tara was lying then why wasn't he ready to clear all the allegations put on him by agreeing at once to show everyone his room?
These things were so evident that it would be really stupid if JR didn't pick up on it. This why I feel that we have to wait and watch. How do we know that JR hasn't planned something himself? How do we know that he isn't doing this to protect Mriara?
These things were so evident that it would be really stupid if JR didn't pick up on it. This why I feel that we have to wait and watch. How do we know that JR hasn't planned something himself? How do we know that he isn't doing this to protect Mriara?
We don't know but we will find out but for that we have to be patient and keep an open mind. The biggest mistake we make as viewers is that we always expect them to show what we want to see. We look for certainty and familiarity in a story that we're quick to reject anything that's new or different from what we imagined. Where's the fun and thrill if everything goes the way we want to? The show would be boring if all the characters were all one dimensional.
Look I know these are hard times for a viewer to watch now because of all the bad things that are happening but I really hope none of you stop watching or start hating the show. That would really break my heart because we're all a big EBI family and each and everyone of you are so valuable to this forum and show! Also thanks to you all for being so lovely and liking my posts :) I hope I'm able to cheer you guys up! Kya Tara ke liye zeher ban jayega ek boond ishq? Now the show is back on track!
p.s I love that we're all having a healthy discussion over this and I really hope that we always respect each other's POVs :)
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Shegufta xx
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