Iss 'hug' ko kya naam du?????(fun post) - Page 2

Originally posted by: S696_sehreen

Yep it was a cute story, much related to real life and it was a weekend show used to air in 2010

and viraf ki thi gals fans ussi show se bani hai, his char was like every gals dream boy

but truly saying there is no comparison of MJ.. he acting skille r more shown as MJ

Originally posted by: MastaT

No wonder I haven't watched it!! I studying away from home then!! 2010 seems like yesterday!!

Originally posted by: MastaT

A character like MJ is rare!! And Viraf essays it so well!!! I don't know who's fan I'am I more of MJ or Virafs??!!

Originally posted by: S696_sehreen

ohhh am yet to go away from home for studies😆
yep MJ is a rare char, and viraf is so perfect for it, thts why we fought so dont he dont leave us
seriously am also confused who do i admire most, am big fan of viraf
as he is very down to the earth, by reading his articles n all
and also he refused Bollywood offer my respect for him as increased ...
MJ ki toh baat hi alag hai, true he is a rare char, never seen a male char who
ride horse, click pics and sketch and ready to do anything for his love ones

Originally posted by: MastaT

Yaar both r gems!! MJ on screen n viraf off screen!! Both r just tooo good to be true!!

Originally posted by: S696_sehreen

Hehehe thnkxxx for making my confusion clear yes both r gems no doubt😛

Originally posted by: MastaT

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