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Erika

@roni_berna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Feeling bad for a INNOCENT character/person is called HUMANITY, no matter if the person has chosen his/her fate or not. It just requires a HEART for that, nothing else. There are so many people who sacrifice their life for others and are called brave and rewarded for their sacrifice. Some also lose their lives in this process. How can I forget the soldiers and police officers who risk their life for the country? Yes, they have chosen that life but when they suffer and lose their lives, I cannot say that I don't feel sorry for them as they dont' deserve that. Not comparing Radhika to a soldier but she is an angel in disguise for Samaira and she got married to a man who wants to kill her friend, without thinking once about her own life. Radhika also said that "A life that one doesn't live for another person isn't called a life." This sentence pinched me so much. Radhika is a true selfless person who cares for her friend to an extent that she will put herself first before any other person hurts her friend. Even though I am happy that ArDhika got married, I feel so sad for Radhika as she is a true guard in my eyes and wants to protect her friend by burning herself in the fire. It's not Samaira's death bed that Radhika took vows around but it's Radhika's death bed.

I can understand when nobody feels pity on Radhika as the ship sank and they even hate the actor and wish evil for her. However, I feel bad for both the characters as both Radhika and Samaira are angels who haven't thought bad of anyone and they don't deserve a man like Arjun who hates them. Good things happen to good people no matter if anyone thinks evil of them and this time Nandini won't be able to harm both Samaira and Radhika. They both will defy evil and be victorious. I just want Radhika and Samaira to not bend before Nandini and play in her hands. She needs to be taught a lesson and even Arjun should be taught a lesson for hurting the girls.

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ThePirateKing

@ThePirateKing

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: erikalui
Feeling bad for a INNOCENT character/person is called HUMANITY, no matter if the person has chosen his/her fate or not. It just requires a HEART for that, nothing else. There are so many people who sacrifice their life for others and are called brave and rewarded for their sacrifice. Some also lose their lives in this process. How can I forget the soldiers and police officers who risk their life for the country? Yes, they have chosen that life but when they suffer and lose their lives, I cannot say that I don't feel sorry for them as they dont' deserve that. Not comparing Radhika to a soldier but she is an angel in disguise for Samaira and she got married to a man who wants to kill her friend, without thinking once about her own life. Radhika also said that "A life that one doesn't live for another person isn't called a life." This sentence pinched me so much. Radhika is a true selfless person who cares for her friend to an extent that she will put herself first before any other person hurts her friend. Even though I am happy that ArDhika got married, I feel so sad for Radhika as she is a true guard in my eyes and wants to protect her friend by burning herself in the fire. It's not Samaira's death bed that Radhika took vows around but it's Radhika's death bed.

I can understand when nobody feels pity on Radhika as the ship sank and they even hate the actor and wish evil for her. However, I feel bad for both the characters as both Radhika and Samaira are angels who haven't thought bad of anyone and they don't deserve a man like Arjun who hates them. Good things happen to good people no matter if anyone thinks evil of them and this time Nandini won't be able to harm both Samaira and Radhika. They both will defy evil and be victorious. I just want Radhika and Samaira to not bend before Nandini and play in her hands. She needs to be taught a lesson and even Arjun should be taught a lesson for hurting the girls.

Finally a sensible post. In all the shipping wars Radhika and Samaira fans have called the characters and heck even each other names, but Arjun has always gone free with the excuse that Nandu is manipulating him as if he is a bechara. Surprising that people who found so much fault with Rads and Sam could find no fault with Arjun. Forget Nandini, I don't want Rads and Sam to bend even before Arjun. If Arjun wants to win Radhika's heart he has to bend before her.

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Erika

@roni_berna

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ThePirateKing

Finally a sensible post. In all the shipping wars Radhika and Samaira fans have called the characters and heck even each other names, but Arjun has always gone free with the excuse that Nandu is manipulating him as if he is a bechara. Surprising that people who found so much fault with Rads and Sam could find no fault with Arjun. Forget Nandini, I don't want Rads and Sam to bend even before Arjun. If Arjun wants to win Radhika's heart he has to bend before her.

I got upset when Arjun dint get a slap from Samaira yesterday. He actually deserved it for what he had done to her. Getting married to her friend in the same mandap, he deserved kicks too 🤢 Want both the girls to teach him a lesson of his life and then never ever think of using a girl for revenge.

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persadian

@persadian

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: erikalui
Feeling bad for a INNOCENT character/person is called HUMANITY, no matter if the person has chosen his/her fate or not. It just requires a HEART for that, nothing else. There are so many people who sacrifice their life for others and are called brave and rewarded for their sacrifice. Some also lose their lives in this process. How can I forget the soldiers and police officers who risk their life for the country? Yes, they have chosen that life but when they suffer and lose their lives, I cannot say that I don't feel sorry for them as they dont' deserve that. Not comparing Radhika to a soldier but she is an angel in disguise for Samaira and she got married to a man who wants to kill her friend, without thinking once about her own life. Radhika also said that "A life that one doesn't live for another person isn't called a life." This sentence pinched me so much. Radhika is a true selfless person who cares for her friend to an extent that she will put herself first before any other person hurts her friend. Even though I am happy that ArDhika got married, I feel so sad for Radhika as she is a true guard in my eyes and wants to protect her friend by burning herself in the fire. It's not Samaira's death bed that Radhika took vows around but it's Radhika's death bed.

I can understand when nobody feels pity on Radhika as the ship sank and they even hate the actor and wish evil for her. However, I feel bad for both the characters as both Radhika and Samaira are angels who haven't thought bad of anyone and they don't deserve a man like Arjun who hates them. Good things happen to good people no matter if anyone thinks evil of them and this time Nandini won't be able to harm both Samaira and Radhika. They both will defy evil and be victorious. I just want Radhika and Samaira to not bend before Nandini and play in her hands. She needs to be taught a lesson and even Arjun should be taught a lesson for hurting the girls.

but did Sam ask her to sacrifice her needs for her, does Sam know that this is what Radhika is doing for her, has Radhika felt the need to be honest with Sam, no, Radhika adopted a future perspective and made a decision with what? The hope that everything will sort itself out eventually!

Soldiers choose to go to the army and fight because they already have accepted that they will die in the process.

This bad decision has now cost Radhika her self-respect, her family and her friends; nobody is going to look at her with the same eyes, and she never consider the repercussions of her actions.

1 she is now untrustworthy - Arjun sir is bad, no Arjun sir is good, no wait Arjun sir is bad, no I love Arjun sir

2 she betrayed her friend - anyone not knowing the truth and is being fed a watered down version of what people think Sam should hear, off course, she is going to react, what you expect no reaction!

How would you react? Let everything unfold in front of you without doing anything? 1 Sam is dumb if she doesn't react, then Sam is bad because Sam puts herself first, any individual puts themselves 1^st above all. Its human nature! No one is selfless, humanity is meant to disappoint. That is why we are imperfectly flawed.

Why, I don't feel sorry for Radhika? Because it was more one-upmanship rather than weighing the odds and trusting her friend, and now, she is trapped in a corner of her own doing.

Sam chose Radhika up till that point of all occurrences manipulated before her eyes, but even on that mandap, she left Arjuns hands to let Radhika marry him because she thought Radhika and Arjun love each other.

[the sad thing is that Arjun manipulated both of them, and they got caught in his lies, even worse, is that both friends have no trust for each other]

Who is the true friend here? I would never be friends with Radhika again, even after finding out the truth some 10 odd years later...too little too late, there was just no faith in Sam, simple as that.

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Mukta

@Greys_Anatomy

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

He did broke her heart ...so his mission is accompilshed 😕

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Erika

@roni_berna

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

^^The fact is you like Samaira's character while I like Radhika's character and love SaRa bond. When these two friends used to stay in one house, their friendship was worth watching and they were true friends. Both were unknown to each other but they still cared for each other. When Samaira had tears for Radhika when she was admitted in the hospital, the scene was so touching. I can't relate to their friendship now as where Radhika seems too good to be true while Samaira seems to behave like a normal girl but very vulnerable.

If you wouldn't be friends with Radhika, I wouldn't be friends with Samaira ever. I wouldn't like a friend who would gift me a slap if I go and tell her that her fiance is cheating on her and question my character. There's where the friendship, trust and all my feelings for Samaira and SaRa came to a stand still as she was behaving like a normal person who can be manipulated by anyone and everyone. I know the next will be that if a friend starts blaming the fiance before everyone, she deserves a slap but sorry I will always disagree with this as there are other ways to deal with the person IF one consider their friend as a family member but if one considers their friend as an outsider, they will not think twice before humiliating her.

Both the characters have flaws but I don't feel that either of them deserve to suffer no matter what they have chosen for themself. Where Samaira was being blind in love and was falling in Nandini's trap, I still felt bad for her and now when Radhika has chosen to pay for her friend, she too needs to be pitied on as she doesn't deserve it.

1 she is now untrustworthy - Arjun sir is bad, no Arjun sir is good, no wait Arjun sir is bad, no I love Arjun sir

Radhika is like Samaira where both trusted Arjun and believed him. Both are untrustworthy as they don't know who loves them and who doesn't.

2 she betrayed her friend - anyone not knowing the truth and is being fed a watered down version of what people think Sam should hear, off course, she is going to react, what you expect no reaction!

True that as now Samaira will feel cheated by her friend but she also needs to hate Arjun. I wouldn't like Samaira to trust Arjun for what he has done to her. A person can make a mistake once, twice but the third time making the same mistake feels that the person is foolish and I don't want to see INDEPENDENT Samaira to act foolish now. I want her to just spare sometime with herself and analyse her mistakes and not repeat them again.

I already said that Samaira's reaction is justified towards Arjun and Radhika as she felt cheated. However, her decision to walk towards the mandap with Arjun was not justified after she had seen him in a compromising position with her best friend. I would slap such a man and hence I cannot relate to Samaira here. I wouldn't even do what Radhika did as I'm not a saint to die for a friend but I do feel bad for her as she's good.

Here again comes the fact that it's ARJUN who should be hated as he cheated both the girls. He pretended to be good before both and hence both Samaira and Radhika considered him a GOD when he's a DEVIL. On one hand he wants to destroy Samaira's life and on the other hand he wants Radhika's life not be destroyed. He needs a reality check and in my life I would want to even know a man like Arjun who doesn't know what's good and what's bad.

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persadian

@persadian

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

I liked SaRa bond a lot in the very beginning when Ratz was a bratty kid with Sam like her levelheaded counterpart, they reminded me of my BFF and I, and yes that hospital scene when Sam was so cut up by Radhika being hurt, like her brother all over again, was heartwrenching, you felt the love between the 2.

but like you said "were" when they were equals in their friendship,

not now, when Radhika feels that Sam cant make up her own mind and makes it up for Sam, than thinks she is doing Sam a favour by sacrificing her life, because as we see yesterday, Sam very INDEPENDENTLY knew how to tell right from wrong and make a noise about it.

looking at the tract of this "friendship" what hasnt Radhika usurped from Sam, I suppose Neil is only left now...Radhika demeaned Sam in this friendship, by not believing that her friend can make her own choices

take Radhikas dream for instance, lets hypothetically say Radhika gave Sam the gun and told her to shoot herself, sure Radhika gave her the gun, but its still Sams choice to pull that trigger.

as much as I want my friend to be dirt honest with me, at the same time I would like to make my own decisions, and if I make them then I would live with the consequences... I mean, why am I living this life if not to live it, lets give my friend my life to live for me

Arjun is not worthy of any words...

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Erika

@roni_berna

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: arishma108
I liked SaRa bond a lot in the very beginning when Ratz was a bratty kid with Sam like her levelheaded counterpart, they reminded me of my BFF and I, and yes that hospital scene when Sam was so cut up by Radhika being hurt, like her brother all over again, was heartwrenching, you felt the love between the 2.

but like you said "were" when they were equals in their friendship,

not now, when Radhika feels that Sam cant make up her own mind and makes it up for Sam, than thinks she is doing Sam a favour by sacrificing her life, because as we see yesterday, Sam very INDEPENDENTLY knew how to tell right from wrong and make a noise about it.

looking at the tract of this "friendship" what hasnt Radhika usurped from Sam, I suppose Neil is only left now...Radhika demeaned Sam in this friendship, by not believing that her friend can make her own choices

take Radhikas dream for instance, lets hypothetically say Radhika gave Sam the gun and told her to shoot herself, sure Radhika gave her the gun, but its still Sams choice to pull that trigger.

as much as I want my friend to be dirt honest with me, at the same time I would like to make my own decisions, and if I make them then I would live with the consequences...I mean, why am I living this life if not to live it, lets give my friend my life to live for me

Arjun is not worthy of any words...

@blue: That was the best part of their friendship and close to reality. 👍🏼

@pink: Radhika should have told Samaira the truth instead of considering her friend to be too weak and unable to handle the situation. A girl like Samaira who can handle her brother's loss can handle even this betrayal of Arjun. She has the support of her parents as well. If Samaira wouldn't believe her, at least Samrat would have believed her.

I feel this show teaches us what would we learn from the characters and not repeat their mistakes. Like Radhika underestimated her friend and dint let her deal with those problems, Samaira too dint try to ask her friend before humiliating her. Both love each other deeply but they get manipulated easily which makes their friendship bond weak. They shuld both have faith in each other.

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

What is there to feel sorry?

She is free from death penalty and thats her big achievement

Edited by White-Rose - 10 years ago

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

i don't feel bad for sam cos look at what she's gained, her freedom from a juvenile murderous idiot who forget love, doesn't even feel a twinge of remorse that he'd intended to kill a GOOD person, a friend whose willing to go to death's lair for her- even if she doesn't see that now i believe she will, a potential second chance at life to be with someone who does love her to bits- neil, i hope against hope that they're explored and she's gained her mama bear and not lost her father. but more than anything she's gained the liberty to mold herself into a person whose SO much more than arjun's manipulated lap dog, she can be the smart talented intelligent sam again. i just hope to god that the cvs don't go the damned pathetic route and show her pining for arjun. i loved her more than ever yesterday cos for the first time a woman in indian serial directed the fault of a broken trust not only on her female counterpart but where it belongs equally- on the man's shoulder. i hope she dishes out to arjun professionally whilst radhu makes his home a living hell till he gets over himself and starts behaving like a normal person. life doesn't owe you anything, you reap what you sow, thats what nandini got and arjun needs to understand that. its what he will get i hope.

Edited by tejaswiniwenham - 10 years ago

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