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Posted: 10 years ago
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Majority of the viewers are happy about ardhika marriage, hehe congrats on that it happened. But I felt really bad for Sam today, ok let's start off

1. She lost her brother which was just an accident, and also lost her mum because piyali kept blaming Sam. Even though her mother was so close to her in distance, that poor girl missed out on her mothers love. This lead to her having insecurities and being vulnerable and hesitant. Even though the problem is sorted out, Sam will still wish that she somehow can get those years she's lost with her mother. Also part of her will still want to blame herself that she was responsible for her brothers death when it was just an accident.


2. Sam got heart broken after finding out that arjun was cheating on her. Arjun came into SAMs life when she was in a vulnerable stage, he played his card well and manipulated SAMs heart. He made her feel connected with her and she started to fall in love with him. However it all shattered when she found out about bonnie and arjun.

3. Of course the wedding with arjun never happened, her heart got shattered by the same guy again. I know that it's for the best the marriage didn't take place but it's still sad. I mean come on your freaking wedding got broken. So many people invited, it's the day you've been waiting for to tie the knot. You're getting dressed up and most important the person you love is going to be yours for the rest of the life.
Those dreams you saw with them, getting old and having kids and blah blah. But it was all gone in one instance.

It was more upsetting that she had to witness the wedding, seeing her best friend marrying her love in her freaking house. That's really heart breaking lol. I mean seeing your best friend marrying your would be husband is just a painful thing to witness.


Put yourself in Sams situation/position and question yourself how would you feel if you had to witness such thing?



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with all you said. First she lost her brother and now her love. It must be so painful for her. Poor Sam.. Hope now she realises the value of Neil and his love!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sam values Neil.But we usually take the person who is close to our heart for granted.(ghar ki murgi daal barabar).
But she will consider Neil as her friend until and unless Neil tells her about his feelings or someone make her realize that. Because they are childhood friends and she is used to his care and concern.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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this girl never got happiness
seeing ur friend n fiance marriage on d same mandap...its so hard to witness it
but i am happy with sam reaction she did great yesterday gave it back to who cheated her
i hope she just stays away from them n concentrates on career
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually today calls for a celebration👏

Yes, the independent need love and affection, too. She is allowed to seek the human need of closeness and intimacy; she is not allowed to cave when wanting someone who is unhealthy for her.

But being lonely carries heavy weight, like misery and frustration.
People are lonely when they are cold with no answers to their problems;
People are independent when they self-assuredly go seek their own answers.

Sam's relationship with Arjun and Ratz might be broken, but she will still be left with her own stability...

...and yesterday Sam was completely confident in deciding what she wants and stamped it out all on her own.

To be independent is not to be detached, and to be lonely is not what self-reliance consists of. We see Sam as an independent woman, because we know; she is confident in her stride because she makes thought-out decisions

She is brave, but she isn't lonely.

If there is someone she'd like to share her goods, assets, ambition and heart with, she will...

...and if its Neil, then they both are lucky for finding their way back to each other!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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In all this, I just loved the way she gave back to Arjun and said thanks to Radhika as she dint let her get married to a man who never loved her. I want to see this Sam who doesn't care for the people who don't love her but value people who truly love her. I know that today she's angry with Radhika but when she gets to know the truth, she'll value her friendship.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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felt sad for her a bit but more for radhika.in this journey both are gonna have tough life ahead but one is alone one has everyone with her
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mix_of_emotions

felt sad for her a bit but more for radhika.in this journey both are gonna have tough life ahead but one is alone one has everyone with her


That's what ! Radhika is Alone where Everyone is with Samaira. Samaira lost something & Radhika lost everything in this process. Feeling sad for both :(
Edited by -Enigmatic- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ok. I love this character very much. How much I adore radz that much I like Sam too.. Whatever happened to Sam was really bad in the past. Death of her brother, her mother not accepting her everything was painful. And even this incident of arjun and radz too is miserable. But where does Sam stands in.. One moment she trust radz, then she trusts arjun. She promised arjun to be on his side on thier day of engagement. So why did she flip flopped when she saw radz and arjun in that compromising position. According to her radz is a boy friend stealer right then when she saw them like that instead of doubting radz why did she belive that lame story... Ok she believed radz claiming her love for arjun then when radz in front of everyone was asking arjun to tell the truth and he backed up, (also nandhini was openly threatening radz to tell the truth and face the consequences , that statement and nandhini and arjun behavior was strange) ... shouldn't she be doubtful.. Ok when finally arjun asked her trust him she snapped Neil hand and came with arjun to the mandatory right ..that time when when radz hold arjuns hand and accepted his marriage proposal why should Sam leave her hand from arjun.. She should have given back radz that she trust arjun and you can't have him.. . In that situation her trust for arjun is again lost... Arrey more than the situations it was her state of mind that is inviting problems for her.. Especially since when arjun started coming in her life. You decide what you want otherwise xyz will take decisions for you like what radz did today. Yes I feel miserable for Sam not because she is not married to arjun but for her mentality and her wavering attitude. Today what she is because of no one but because of her.. Solely her incapability of to assess people and situations.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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But Radhika has what everyone wanted to happen, Sam's fianc is now her husband, Sam's would be psycho nanad is now Radhikas sasural...

Radhika devalued her friendship with Samaira...so why so cut up about the fact that Radhika lost her self-respect in the process.

Sam never killed herself, when she thought she was responsible for her brother's death, never do it when her mother called her, her brothers murderer, yet Radhika thought so little of her friends capability of being strong, she imagined 😕 that Sam would kill herself over her Paa's indiscretions, it was in the past, her father is still alive, they can move pass these issues, Sam is not spineless, she acts, talks, thinks all at once, that's what makes her a winner...who made Radhika the boss of Sam, I thought Sam had her parents for that. And Neil to hold her hand, which he is still doing btw. that is a true friend, lets you make your own mistakes, than helps you pick up the pieces when you have realized your mistake.

Take for instance, when Sam refused Arjuns 1st proposal because she told him, he didn't trust her enough to tell her that he was using her pictures, coming into her office, etc. likewise, Radhika didn't trust Sam enough to be honest with her about Nandhini and Arjuns plans, and again took the decision out of Sam's hands, and now again, Arjun and Radhika will fight over Sam as if she is a toy, everyone does things over Sam's head, she is not a toy to play with at whom evers whim.

If Radhika wants to play games with Arjun, then like her mother said, she made her bed, now go lie in it, with a smile on her face...Sam has walked away...towards HER family...who are supposed to support her.

Radhikas decisions cost her, and she lost the support of HER family, her own choice.

You don't feel sorry for people who choose to make their decisions based on their own judgements without thinking about the consequences and the effect it has on everyone else around them because only they think its right.

What's the point of God giving you your own life to live, if you have no control over it?

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