Don't mind but shouldn't Arjun.... - Page 4

Originally posted by: tina59

think of his wedding first rather than worry about Radhika's marriage to Saral.

He should have the guts to break his wedding and come out with the truth coz in the end, he is still cheating Sam and also her parents . He can give all the motivation to Radhika but will not back out of his evil plan, that seems hypocriticial isn't it?

pleae lets have a healthy discussion on it. I am talking only about the characters here and also about the current situation in hand.

Originally posted by: erikalui

@gil-99: This will be a redemption track for Arjun. His love will only make him realize that revenge is wrong.

I don't mind singing any song based on friends instead of singing "Bheege hoont tere pyaasa dil mera"😆Arjun isn't Imran Hasmi of Murder to take revenge on Sam like the later did with Mallika😆

Originally posted by: esprit_00

Hmm... I think Arjun is slowly becoming my favorite character because he has so many layers. Is he a hypocrite? Maybe ...

I mentioned this yesterday but I consider Nandini similar but worse to Ms. Havisham from the novel Great Expectations. And Arjun is like Estella - whose mind has been poisoned since a young age! What he is doing to Sam is awful - i agree ... because Sam is innocent in all this. He should realize this, but he has been manipulated and brainwashed since a young age so he can't break his promise to Nandini. Now I am not condoning that the revenge Arjun intends to go through with is correct, just that view it from his perspective. From what I understand, Arjun was an orphan, however he was taken in by Nandini-di at a young age, which finally gave him a home and family he probably craved. Rather than caring for and nurturing this young boy, the guardian decides to poison his mind and manipulate him into believing true happiness lies in him carrying out her revenge. Technically he has never really had anyone who has genuinely cared for him until now. I mean he was trying to be his worst with Radhika initially to scare her away yet she didn't deter - rather she showed genuine care and concern for him when he was hurt. An opposite reaction to what he expected. If it was Sam instead, she would have told him off and left him to fend for himself - and rightly so. Again this is NOT a negative in Sam's trait - it is just who she is as a person - i mean Teji etc did the same - who puts up with a 🤬. So all this unconditional comfort and care that Radhika bestowed was very new to Arjun. Furthermore, it troubled him that she understood him more than anyone he knew. And unintentionally, he let his guard down in front of her - leading to where we are today: He has created a special place for Radhika in his heart and no one is aware of this - even Nandini and Saral aren't completely aware of the depths of feeling Arjun has for Radhika ... they think he is on the path to caring for her, not knowing it's way beyond their perception.

At the end of the day actions are judged by intentions ... and Arjun has good intentions for everyone he cares about (which are now 2 people, Nandini & Radhika).

Originally posted by: esprit_00

Hmm... I think Arjun is slowly becoming my favorite character because he has so many layers. Is he a hypocrite? Maybe ...

I mentioned this yesterday but I consider Nandini similar but worse to Ms. Havisham from the novel Great Expectations. And Arjun is like Estella - whose mind has been poisoned since a young age! What he is doing to Sam is awful - i agree ... because Sam is innocent in all this. He should realize this, but he has been manipulated and brainwashed since a young age so he can't break his promise to Nandini. Now I am not condoning that the revenge Arjun intends to go through with is correct, just that view it from his perspective. From what I understand, Arjun was an orphan, however he was taken in by Nandini-di at a young age, which finally gave him a home and family he probably craved. Rather than caring for and nurturing this young boy, the guardian decides to poison his mind and manipulate him into believing true happiness lies in him carrying out her revenge. Technically he has never really had anyone who has genuinely cared for him until now. I mean he was trying to be his worst with Radhika initially to scare her away yet she didn't deter - rather she showed genuine care and concern for him when he was hurt. An opposite reaction to what he expected. If it was Sam instead, she would have told him off and left him to fend for himself - and rightly so. Again this is NOT a negative in Sam's trait - it is just who she is as a person - i mean Teji etc did the same - who puts up with a 🤬. So all this unconditional comfort and care that Radhika bestowed was very new to Arjun. Furthermore, it troubled him that she understood him more than anyone he knew. And unintentionally, he let his guard down in front of her - leading to where we are today: He has created a special place for Radhika in his heart and no one is aware of this - even Nandini and Saral aren't completely aware of the depths of feeling Arjun has for Radhika ... they think he is on the path to caring for her, not knowing it's way beyond their perception.

At the end of the day actions are judged by intentions ... and Arjun has good intentions for everyone he cares about (which are now 2 people, Nandini & Radhika).