^^ With regards to Saral, he claims to like Radhika and this isn't an arrange marriage from his end. To make your fiance serve you like a wife and to get cozy with her isn't the way arrange marriages happen and that too in small towns. For a boy like Saral who keeps yapping sanskaar and all, he himself drinks liquor and wants Rads to kiss him before marriage. When he himself has no sanskaar, how can he expect Radhika to have one. Also, he must have had affairs before marriage because he seems that kind of a person who believes in drinking and checking out women and Radhika being a doormat and sanskaari nari cannot question him even if he has had one after marriage. That's the way such marriages work.
With regards to the bangle, yes people are possesive about these ornaments because they all have some value but not when a person had got stiches and has been through death the previous day. One needs to be highly insensitive to say such things and that's what Saral is. He cares a damn if Rads would even die. That's what's wrong with him.
Yeah, sharing the blanket thing should have not happened but there wasn't any option for a person to do in a chilly atmosphere and it's not that any girl would do. Also, if Rads shares it with Saral, he would spoil her name before everyone. I believe that women do have secrets which they don't share even with their parents and forget partners before their marriage. Correct me if I'm wrong.
Eating Aloo paratha with chutni is considering a person a beggar? Hello, I eat paratha with chutni as I HATE curd. So what does that mean? Kindly don't judge this as being a beggar and all those words. Many do have paratha with chutney and achaar doesn't mean they can't afford curd. It's disgusting to say such things 🥱 I wonder how people can be so judgemental and make such statements like tomorrow people will say that those who eat bananas are all beggars 😡🤢
Also, if we are talking about girls here, no modern or small town girl would stay with a friend in a hotel and share 1 bed. I'm from Mumbai and this isn't normal here and hence what they showed with Sam and Neil also is wrong and the hotel had many rooms. Did Sam tell this to Arjun? I guess Arjun was unaware that they were staying in 1 room and he knew only Sam's room number. That's different he doesn't care about Sam and hence it wouldn't make a difference even if she was or not staying with another man. But again it's about girls and these things aren't normal for anyone. Here, Sam's parents are broad minded and trust their children but usually parents don't approve of such things.
Radhika isn't attracted to Arjun as I haven't seen this yet. I need a microscope here as I've never seen her having any feelings for Arjun and neither she has checked him out or checked his shirt or clothes or has appreciated his looks. She din't even care about what he wore or remembered him dancing in the rain. We can't blame Rads for Arjun's feelings for her like we can't blame Sam for Neil's feelings. Who said that Rads considers Arjun good for her? She doesn't want to get married to him and even if they get married in future, it would mostly be against Rads wish. Blaming her for Arjun's love is just illogical. If she gets married to Arjun and falls for him after his character is redeemed, she definitely is not turned into trash but yes, Rads bearing Saral and Arjun's behavior is highly disgusting.
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