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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

No one want Sam to bear Arjun's bad behavior .The way CV's have projected Sam.She is capable of give it back to Arjun with interest.


So this means that Sam will walk out of the marriage when she gets to know of Arjun's motive and his revenge plans. If she is strong, she shouldn't bend because he is her husband. If she stays in the marriage, means she is bearing his behavior because she loves him and wants to improve him this way and she will hurt herself everytime she tries to improve him. No difference then as Sam will be portrayed as a weak character like all other female leads who try to improve their husband no matter how badly he behaves.
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Posted: 10 years ago
@erika i doubt marriage will happen but if that happens they will bring some or the other twist to make sam majboor to be in marriage
the sam they showed till now wont tolerate but i dont trust Cvs n mainly SP
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Posted: 10 years ago
^^ That's what I'm saying that as of now I don't support Arjun with any girl whether Sam or Rads or Bonnie or Kritika 😆
I don't consider SamArj or Ardhika rocking as I know that if Arjun is paired with either of these girls, he will make their life hell and CVs will make the girls majboor. As now Rads is majboor, Sam too will turn into Rads No. 2 and people who are now bashing Rads will bash Sam too.


The actors make a great pair but unfortunately not the characters as Neil seems to be the only sensible person in the show. If Sam is majboor due to any reason, she needs to find a solution to walk out of the marriage as then her character can be redeemed and not butchered. It's not the responsibility of a girl to pamper boys but boys should know how to behave themselves.


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Posted: 10 years ago
it happens in real life too no matter how sad u r in ur marriage
ppl convince u to nibhao d rishta
have seen a live example of this
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Posted: 10 years ago
I did not say it in the marriage point of view.Now in the current track itself if Arjun tried to behave badly with Sam.She will give it back to him.
If CV's do get SamArj married then she finds out his truth .Then I honestly want Sam to throw divorce paper on Arjun's face and walk out from the marriage.I can't see Sam behaving like a abla nari.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: arshita235

@erika i doubt marriage will happen but if that happens they will bring some or the other twist to make sam majboor to be in marriage

the sam they showed till now wont tolerate but i dont trust Cvs n mainly SP


If they show Sam as a typical married woman.Good bye to the show .
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: arshita235

it happens in real life too no matter how sad u r in ur marriage

ppl convince u to nibhao d rishta
have seen a live example of this


But that's real life and I don't want to see the same thing in reel life.

I've seen people walking out of the marriage because they can't bear their husband's bad behavior in real life and why can't CVs show it in reel life too. Why portray women as weak after marriage? When they can show such illogical characters like Nandini, it doesn't matter if they show Sam as a strong woman and Rads too.

@Vimal: That's what I want that Sam should walk out of the marriage and I'll salute her if she does it. A man who cares a damn for her feelings shouldn't be given a cent of respect no matter if you love him or not. Don't make the boy play with your feelings and enjoy your tears.

Unfortunately, these shows make the women of today agree with their story and the people take it as a right example. When women are shown strong, people consider it as a joke but when women are shown having no self respect, people consider them as an example of sanskari bahu.
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Posted: 10 years ago
@Erika i applaud those ppl who walked away but i have seen a girl still nibhaying marriage even after knowing his infedility n he beat her mercilessly...she is a working woman but family convinced her to go back n she went in d hope that he will change
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: arshita235

@Erika i applaud those ppl who walked away but i have seen a girl still nibhaying marriage even after knowing his infedility n he beat her mercilessly...she is a working woman but family convinced her to go back n she went


I have seen this too where a man banged the wife's head on a gas cylinder and she still tolerates his beating everyday and says he is my husband. I don't know whom to blame here, the man or the woman.
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Posted: 10 years ago
I want to say .Parents especially parents of male child should raise their male child by making them to treat women equally ,parents should not do partiality with male n female child,male child enjoys all the freedom and female child does not have freedom,respect women and their choice .Then only male's will start thinking Women r no less them to them.They r above them .Sadly some parents don't do it and raise their sons as some king of nation .Fulfilling all his demands ,ignoring female child's n their demands .Male grew up with this kind of upbringing .When they have gf or wife .They like to dominate them .Because in their house they might have dominated their sisters yet parents would have not scolded him.So if wife/gf questions him his ego hurts and they raise their hand . Parents upbringing reg male child will make many change in society .If they teach them Women needed to be respected from childhood days.They will grow with this thinking and they will follow it.

I like the Vogue ad and the tag line raise your son from childhood by saying men don't make others cry.


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