Why can't besties fall in love? - Page 3

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Posted: 10 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: erikalui

Guys, I hope you'll know that this thread was created to discuss about two best friends falling in love and not to spam. I cannot understand telugu but I do get that this is called spam which can be discussed in the CC thread and not here. If you'll don't appreciate the effort of a person who is trying to have a healthy discussion then it's fine but I dint expect this from members out here. Either a thread has to turn into a war zone or spam. I won't be creating any thread now in this forum. 🥱


I agree, we were having a good discussion,

and yes husband should be your best friend but best friends could be ur husband. It works well either ways
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: AnuMP



Thats where the problem comes. If you have a Bestie who knows every secret, every dream and every fear, then how does your husband / wife become a friend BEYOND that?


That friendship then does have to get replaced, or either marriage is less than what it should be or the friendship is more than what it should be.



Well this boils down to individual choices. There is no one-shot answer for this.

@red : The royal opinion is that if you aren't able to share your dreams, secret and fear with your partner then the relationship is flawed to start with. No matter how close you are to your friend husband/wife are always a step above as they dont have boundaries.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshita235



Arshita nuvvu kuda telugammai va. Ee vishyam ninna cheppaledu.

King ni choosi thattukune gunde dhiryam inka telugu prekshakulaki raaledu. So direct cheyadame best.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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they can fall in love, sure but I think the viewers who don't want to see nesam as a couple are of the view that for once they would like to see 2 best friends from the opposite gender remain just that..best friends; and even though initially I wanted nesam as a couple, these days I am inclining more towards them being remaining just friends...I would have liked neil with bonnie.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: erikalui

Guys, I hope you'll know that this thread was created to discuss about two best friends falling in love and not to spam. I cannot understand telugu but I do get that this is called spam which can be discussed in the CC thread and not here. If you'll don't appreciate the effort of a person who is trying to have a healthy discussion then it's fine but I dint expect this from members out here. Either a thread has to turn into a war zone or spam. I won't be creating any thread now in this forum. 🥱



Peace. It wasn't intentional.

It's a nice topic and the thread will stay with the scope of it. Don't worry. Looking forward for more sensible threads like this from u in the future too.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: LOLitaPawar

they can fall in love, sure but I think the viewers who don't want to see nesam as a couple are of the view that for once they would like to see 2 best friends from the opposite gender remain just that..best friends; and even though initially I wanted nesam as a couple, these days I am inclining more towards them being remaining just friends...I would have liked neil with bonnie.



The king is one of them. It not just because the king prefers SamArj over Arjika but so away from the cliched Best friends fall in love and good girl-bad boy fall in love.

We create a space for relationship in our life. For parents, siblings, friends, partners etc. Now how much space each of this occupies in our life is up to individual choices. Neil occupies an important and special space in Sam's life as they were there for each other since years. But its not necessary that that relationship should blossom into love.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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@king yes nenu kuda telugu lets discuss in CC sorry erikalui
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: *king*



Well this boils down to individual choices. There is no one-shot answer for this.

@red : The royal opinion is that if you aren't able to share your dreams, secret and fear with your partner then the relationship is flawed to start with. No matter how close you are to your friend husband/wife are always a step above as they dont have boundaries.

*king*



Thats the point I was trying to make Your Royal Highness😆. The life partner necessarily displaces the Bestie, no matter how good a friend.

Or the relationship is flawed as you said, or the Bestie is more than you had realized
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Posted: 10 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: *king*



The king is one of them. It not just because the king prefers SamArj over Arjika but so away from the cliched Best friends fall in love and good girl-bad boy fall in love.

We create a space for relationship in our life. For parents, siblings, friends, partners etc. Now how much space each of this occupies in our life is up to individual choices. Neil occupies an important and special space in Sam's life as they were there for each other since years. But its not necessary that that relationship should blossom into love.

*king*

@ underlined - exactly. The king be very wise😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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well best friends falling in love is the best thing to happen. For me its the only way i actually can marry maybe if it happens at all. 😉
And well even if you cant fall in love & are so close to each other then why not just take a decicion to be life partners. sexual/romantic attraction is not the only thing in a relationship.
And here NeSa share a queer platonic relationship. they cannot live without each other and anyone else coming in their lives will always be secondary

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