Why can't besties fall in love?

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Erika

@roni_berna

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

I am not talking about Neil and Sam here but am generally talking about best friends. How does a friendship get spoiled when love comes in between? It does not happen all the time but even if it happens, it's obvious as two opposite genders can fall in love and it's natural. Love doesn't destroy their friendship unless the love becomes an obsession or the friend turns possessive.

Love is a beautiful feeling (although I haven't experienced it 😛😆) but I have seen selfless love and when two best friends get married it is the best thing that can ever happen.

If falling in love makes a person weak or harms a relationship, I can't agree as if it's true love then no harm is caused. It shouldn't be blind love though.

Here Neil loves Sam and Sam doesn't love him and hence I don't ship NeSam. I only believe that when two people love each other, they should be together else not. I don't support all the revenge marriages that happen on screen even if it is the case of my favorite couple. I love when they happily get married or have an arrange marriage.

For me, best friends falling in love is awesome as you not only know your friends likes/dislikes but also know and accept the flaws and good things about your partner.

Would like to have an opinion as a neutral viewer and please no biased responses. I am not talking about the show but am generally asking it. Kindly avoid any sort of bashing. 😊

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Sevenstreaks

@Sevenstreaks

Trailblazer

+ 42

Posted: 10 years ago

what i feel is lil / more friendship should be there in every relation ship ...that friendship makes that relation even more stronger ...😳... i believe best friends can be best life partners too (my pov ) ...😆😉

u think Sam doesnt love Neil... i ll say she didnt realise it ...Sam happiness is not fulfilled with out Neil...they are like Soulmates ... and I m Nesam shipper too ... not because i ship Ardhika

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tina

@tina59

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

I also feel Besties falling in love is the best thing. They always say your husband should be your best friend. Love is just a natural progression for many besties and who said they cannot remain besties even after marriage.

I know many couples who were good friends first and then got married.

as for neil and Sam, I always said,the love was always there, Neil understood/realized it first. Sam is taking her time as she is distracted by Arjun for now. The moment will come soon when she realizes that Neil was and has been always her life partner.

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Huma

@Huma-

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

beautifull post erika!

falling in love with ur best friend,is the best kind of love! no secrets no lies happy life lol

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Sapna

@sapnapari

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

Totally agree wid u dear...

Best friends falling love is the most beautiful thing...

They know everything about each other.. n not just that..their comfortability zone also will b very high n dey'll never feel awkwardness in sharing any damn thing...

I don't think there's any mistake in crossing d line when both of u r in love..

N the most positive point abt these kind of love marriages is that there will never b breakups... coz whtever happens ul b 2gether at d end of d day coz u know each other inside out...

N TRUST... it can never b an issue on these kinds of relationships...

I personally feel 2 have ur best friend as ur life partner... u must b lucky...

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*king*

@*king*

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

The lovable one states the following:

Love is like Baskin Robbins, it comes in various flovours. It can happen to anyone at ant time. They can be strangers, friends, colleagues or even family (well in south india marriages within the family isn't a tabboo).

Love at first sight Flavour : This flavour is mostly liked during adolescence. This happens between strangers. You fall in love with someone on the first glance with imaginary violinsts playing music in the background, rose petals raining around and bell ringing in your heart which is only heard by you.

My bestie, my love Flavour : This flavour is for those couples who have spent years together yet dont realise wht they actually feel for each other. They love for each other is concealed by a strong outer coating of frienship. This can also be called love after 1000 sights as one day after a few 100 sights suddenly u realize what your feelings really are and again the imaginary band, flower rain and bell start bajoaing.

Office Office Flavour : This flavour is for office colleagues. they work together, laugh together and slowly fall in love with each other.

Online Dating flavour : this is a recent addition. Falling in love by chatting online. This flavour can be dangerous as there are chances it can be adulterated.

One-side love Flavour : This is the flavour Neil is having currently. This is the again the most common flavour especially with boys which can be hazardous too.

Love after marriage Flavour : This flavour has its own sweet taste. This is for arranged marriage couples. where you slowly start knowing each other and fall in love.

As a doctorate in love the king can go on and on. But this is all for now.

*king*

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*king*

@*king*

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: tina59
I also feel Besties falling in love is the best thing. They always say your husband should be your best friend. Love is just a natural progression for many besties and who said they cannot remain besties even after marriage.
I know many couples who were good friends first and then got married.

as for neil and Sam, I always said,the love was always there, Neil understood/realized it first. Sam is taking her time as she is distracted by Arjun for now. The moment will come soon when she realizes that Neil was and has been always her life partner.

Yes your husband/wife should be your best friend but its not like your best friend should be your husband/wife.

*king*

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Anju..

@Anju..

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

just want to clear abt NeSam...kash n shravu said first time we will show girl boy as BFF...also neil himself said m not ur boyfriend...we watched them with that point of view so we all got connected so very much to their friendship thats it

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sparkle2985

@sparkle2985

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: *king*
The lovable one states the following:

Love is like Baskin Robbins, it comes in various flovours. It can happen to anyone at ant time. They can be strangers, friends, colleagues or even family (well in south india marriages within the family isn't a tabboo).

Love at first sight Flavour : This flavour is mostly liked during adolescence. This happens between strangers. You fall in love with someone on the first glance with imaginary violinsts playing music in the background, rose petals raining around and bell ringing in your heart which is only heard by you.

My bestie, my love Flavour : This flavour is for those couples who have spent years together yet dont realise wht they actually feel for each other. They love for each other is concealed by a strong outer coating of frienship. This can also be called love after 1000 sights as one day after a few 100 sights suddenly u realize what your feelings really are and again the imaginary band, flower rain and bell start bajoaing.

Office Office Flavour : This flavour is for office colleagues. they work together, laugh together and slowly fall in love with each other.

Online Dating flavour : this is a recent addition. Falling in love by chatting online. This flavour can be dangerous as there are chances it can be adulterated.

One-side love Flavour : This is the flavour Neil is having currently. This is the again the most common flavour especially with boys which can be hazardous too.

Love after marriage Flavour : This flavour has its own sweet taste. This is for arranged marriage couples. where you slowly start knowing each other and fall in love.

As a doctorate in love the king can go on and on. But this is all for now.

*king*

wow king 👏

mana telugu lo okkokka famous movie gurtuvastundi naaku ur flavour description choosi

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sparkle2985

@sparkle2985

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: arshita235
just want to clear abt NeSam...kash n shravu said first time we will show girl boy as BFF...also neil himself said m not ur boyfriend...we watched them with that point of view so we all got connected so very much to their friendship thats it

but neil proposed sam na how BFF now

its oneside love now😕😕

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