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Hey Doston!
What say guys?
After today's episode, I had to do a post-mortem of the relationship that SaYali share- Samaira and Piyali. Sorry, I took the liberty of coining a portmanteau for them. 😛
Coming to Samaira and Piyali, I just wanna say that Piyali does not deserve a daughter like Sam. Frankly, when I started watching the show, I was confused as to whether Piyali really was Sam's mom, 'cause a real mother would never utter the kind of vitriol that Piyali hurled at Sam.
It actually hurt me to see Piyali spit 'I hate you" and "You should have died instead" at Sam. It was truly heart-wrenching to see a mother berate and reject her daughter like this. If you analyse the situation, I think Piyali loved and continues to love Jai more than Sam. It happens. For reasons only Piyali can fathom, Jai was clearly on top of her priority list and Sam was next..
This is not to say she didn't love Sam, just that she loved her less than Jai. So, the accident happened and all of Piyali's rage and grief found Sam as a convenient target. After all, she needed something/someone to blame for Jai's death.
A normal parent, IMO, could have been angry, even estranged for a while, but the extent to which Piyali took it makes her unworthy of being called a 'mother'. She tortured her daughter emotionally for years, while Samaira begged and pleaded for forgiveness. Nothing can be more wretched than that. Sam's pain really spoke to me and made me heart break. 🥺
Even today, the mother and daughter reconciled over Jai. It seems like Jai is a cloud that will hand over them forever. It looks like PIyali was obsessed with her son and this obsession is what swallowed her relationship with Sam whole. Even now, I doubt the cracks have fully disappeared. Though the superficial wounds have been addressed, have the internal injuries really healed? 😲
I do not think Sam and Piyali are capable of having a relationship other than a functional, working one. There is too much history and bad blood between them to justify a normal, loving parent-child relationship. However, things don't turn out the way we think they should.
Sam clearly is someone who yearns for her mother and is willing to forgive her mistakes. Do you think they can have a full relationship again?
Coming to Samaira and Piyali, I just wanna say that Piyali does not deserve a daughter like Sam. Frankly, when I started watching the show, I was confused as to whether Piyali really was Sam's mom, 'cause a real mother would never utter the kind of vitriol that Piyali hurled at Sam.
It actually hurt me to see Piyali spit 'I hate you" and "You should have died instead" at Sam. It was truly heart-wrenching to see a mother berate and reject her daughter like this. If you analyse the situation, I think Piyali loved and continues to love Jai more than Sam. It happens. For reasons only Piyali can fathom, Jai was clearly on top of her priority list and Sam was next..
This is not to say she didn't love Sam, just that she loved her less than Jai. So, the accident happened and all of Piyali's rage and grief found Sam as a convenient target. After all, she needed something/someone to blame for Jai's death.
A normal parent, IMO, could have been angry, even estranged for a while, but the extent to which Piyali took it makes her unworthy of being called a 'mother'. She tortured her daughter emotionally for years, while Samaira begged and pleaded for forgiveness. Nothing can be more wretched than that. Sam's pain really spoke to me and made me heart break. 🥺
Even today, the mother and daughter reconciled over Jai. It seems like Jai is a cloud that will hand over them forever. It looks like PIyali was obsessed with her son and this obsession is what swallowed her relationship with Sam whole. Even now, I doubt the cracks have fully disappeared. Though the superficial wounds have been addressed, have the internal injuries really healed? 😲
I do not think Sam and Piyali are capable of having a relationship other than a functional, working one. There is too much history and bad blood between them to justify a normal, loving parent-child relationship. However, things don't turn out the way we think they should.
Sam clearly is someone who yearns for her mother and is willing to forgive her mistakes. Do you think they can have a full relationship again?
What say guys?
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