I have seen it too often, wife beating etc, but not injecting her to kill her baby that part no. Beating up women and intimidation of all family members including their own parents making everyone in the house feel like they are nothing. It does beg belief if its upbringing the other brother of the same family would be the same too, why he is not like that? its not upbringing only. So I think its success, money and power goes too much to their heads. Guys have this inherent trait already to be less emotional so when they get money its giving them licence to speak anything that comes into their minds, in an insensitive way, when all the power is with them and they know they won't have any bad consequences to them they start intimidating and beating people. You see how they get success is by taking risks these type of men are always crossing a line to see what will happen will it be good or not, if they are not bitten back they cross another one.
Such people need to lose their power over the person they are intimidating but often the victims just mold themselves to the aggressor. But here we see his true face is shown to the public, therefore in future they can't lie about their character to get success. Its my experience once they realise this is the way to gaining success they will continue in that way, the person to give up is mostly the woman, say if you know if you talk he will beat you, you stop talking, if you know he is a womanizer you look the other way and let him have his mistress or two, you find a lot of these intimidated women will say but he is married to me so it doesn't matter if he loves with this and that woman, going out and facing society alone with a child or two is too scary a prospect, she is well and truly conquered by that stage, she's molded herself to his ways. Fear of life after leaving him makes her stick with the marriage.
If we go back to Urmi what would have been had she stayed with him and let fear of what society would say and how she was going to provide for herself and her son, she says sorry to him, he keeps insulting her turns her child to also not respecting her, then she realises its not going to get better so she becomes like Samrat's other family members keep quiet and let him do anything he wants with her and the son.
Edited by .Verity. - 10 years ago
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