Is shivani forcing raghu yet again.?

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Do you think shivani is forcing raghu yet again.?

Uma

@Uma-Arhaanfan

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Posted: 11 years ago

Just now saw the promo and wanted to know your views.

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DivzOnAir

@DivzOnAir

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Posted: 11 years ago

I dnt know if forcing is the right word, but she is definitely putting him in a tight spot. But then, she has every right to..cos that is exactly wat he is doing with her too... dnt love me, marry karan, 2 days later still dnt love me but dnt marry Karan either... n did he really expect her to listen to him after all what happened?

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manissha

@manissha

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Posted: 11 years ago

He is responsible for this situation. It was him who forci g her to marry karan.

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Uma

@Uma-Arhaanfan

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: DivzOnAir
I dnt know if forcing is the right word, but she is definitely putting him in a tight spot. But then, she has every right to..cos that is exactly wat he is doing with her too... dnt love me, marry karan, 2 days later still dnt love me but dnt marry Karan either... n did he really expect her to listen to him after all what happened?

agree with you but whatever may be the situation still shivani is forcing raghu.why dont she just leave him alone?

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Uma

@Uma-Arhaanfan

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: manissha
He is responsible for this situation. It was him who forci g her to marry karan.

yeah its him who made her accept for the marriage but still i feel shivani should not order raghu which he dint do with shivani

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_SuMmEr_LoVe_

@_SuMmEr_LoVe_

Dazzler

+ 6

Posted: 11 years ago

Like DivzOnAir has mentioned I too believe Force isn't the right word to be used here.

She has given him a choice. A very difficult choice. Two options from which he has to choose one but at the end it's going to be his call not her's.

Hoewver I really do not like the condition Shivani has placed on him. Even if Raghu gives in to her condition I really hope she,Shivani does not go ahead with the wedding. She needs to maintain some dignity and selfrespect. Distance is really important for these two. A alot of people are saying that Shivani is taking/ has taken Raghu for granted. However I also feel Raghu is taking Shivani and her love for him for granted too. Why does he think he can command her to marry someone esle. What right does he have to dictate who she should marry? Why should he have a say in who she should love or not?

Yes he made a promise to a dying man to always protect the girl he left behind. But that does not mean he has the right to force or dictate her life accordly to him or what he thinks is right. Now that I think of it. It is raghu who is doing all the forcing.

Edited by _SuMmEr_LoVe_ - 11 years ago

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Uma

@Uma-Arhaanfan

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: _SuMmEr_LoVe_

Like DivzOnAir has mentioned I too believe Force isn't the right word to be used here.

She has given him a choice. A very difficult choice. Two options from which he has to choose one but at the end it's going to be his call not her's.

HoewverIreally do not like the condition Shivani has placed on him. Even if Raghu gives in to her condition I really hope she,Shivani does not go ahead with the wedding. She needs to maintain some dignity and selfrespect. Distance is really important for these two.A alot of people are saying that Shivani is taking/ has takenRaghu for granted.However I also feel Raghu is taking Shivani and herlove for him for granted too. Why does he think he cancommand her to marry someone esle. What right does he have to dictate who she should marry? Why should he have a say in who she should love or not?

Yeshe made a promise to a dying man to always protect the girl he left behind.But that does not mean he has the right to force or dictateher life accordly to him or what he thinks is right. Now that I think of it. It is raghu who is doing all the forcing.

raghu never ordered or dictated her life but it was always shivani who controlled raghus life.raghu dint force her to marry karan but it was shivani who made a challenge to him.shivani never cared for raghus feelings and neither raghu too.so its boths fault.coming to shivanis blackmail to raghu that he should marry her iam completely against shivani with this decision

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_SuMmEr_LoVe_

@_SuMmEr_LoVe_

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Uma-Arhaanfan
raghu never ordered or dictated her life but it was always shivani who controlled raghus life.raghu dint force her to marry karan but it was shivani who made a challenge to him.shivani never cared for raghus feelings and neither raghu too.so its boths fault.coming to shivanis blackmail to raghu that he should marry her iam completely against shivani with this decision

Telling someone and trying to make them lead how they should live they're life is almost like dictating or enforcing a person. You do not go against or behind a person's back and try to put a matrimoial ad in the newspaper. You do not go behind a persons back and try to set her up with a man she is not romantially interested. Especailly when the person has stated they do not have an interest. . You do not set up situtions or mislead a person to who they go on a date with or who they catch a ride with to home. Just like Shivani keeps telling Raghu, his in love with her and is refusing to divorce him for that very reason she is enforcing herself on him.

No one should have the right to force a person by telling them they are or not in love. It is something for them to discover. Shivani needs to back down and let Raghu discover for himself. If he realized that than she is lucky if he doesn't than it is his lose. And Raghu needs to stop forcing Shivani into marrying against her will or into beleiving she is not in love with him. Feeling's can not be forced. I wish they could. But truth is they can't. If it is, it is, if it's not it isn't

Shivani chose to go against Raghu's will of marrying karan. Yes, she placed a condition which she sady lost. She's lost battle and now is keeping to her word of marry Karan. She is realsing him so he can move on.But now Raghu is coming back to her and telling her not to marry him.His is not even asking her he is telling her not to.And once again she has laid another condition on him. I'm not saying only one person is to be blamed. They both are equal's. But this whole sitution where we're at is due to raghu. The scale tilts towards raghu slightly more for starting this whole marrige saga. All Shivani did was add fuel to it. Which was stupid. But she had no idea it was going to backfire.She had no idea he would go to this extent and at the end it would be her who would get burnth.They're both are lost subborn humans.

And even I am not happy with this new condition she has placed on him. She needs to let him go...she needs to set him free. And she needs to make her own decisions. No more conditions no more bets. Both of them are at fault. Both of them are treating this wedding as a game like 5 year old. Where they both keep changing the bride and groom.

Edited by _SuMmEr_LoVe_ - 11 years ago

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JhaCreation

@JhaCreation

Navigator

Posted: 11 years ago

if raghu can then why can't Shivani do show. she had learned it firm raghu

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dhakarn

@dhakarn

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+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#10

Who isforcing whom? As far as i could see its raghu who is forcing n ordering her what she should do n not to do...he cheated her too on the shart by faking marriage with sumi making her think that he really martied sumi...

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