whose Idea is it?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: jyoti06

@Bold : I think when Shivani dreams , she has two types of dreamworld too 😆 ... when she has her fantasy dreams , they r upto her standard only .. for example her dream of Raghu in a suit calling her sweetheart and all which never happened in real 😆 ... and then the one eating daal chawal was actually a real dream , I mean the scenario happened in real which for her was a beautiful memory and so later she remembers it like a dream ... so again in dreams too she has this fantasy vs real ... but like I said she is not really calculating all this while hving her dreams ...

Her fantasy wala dreams hv that high standard thing ... and thats where the scare comes from Raghu that mayb in future she will expect similar standard from him which he wont b able to give her ... what for him was a simple dinner , she calls it a date .. for her its a simple sweet thing people do in love but for Raghu this is where he feels inferior because he dint knew its called a "date" ... like I said thats where he says our worlds r different ...

I feel both somewhere hv this bit of a communication gap .. Shivani dont realise in what way Raghu feels our worlds r different and Raghu dont realise that Shivani has no issues stepping into his world happily ..

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Originally posted by: dhakarn

i understand jyoti ...i understand why raghu is behaving the way he behaves ...n what he meant by starting relation afresh n all.. ... i am saying shivani's POV ... does she know what he meant? no! bec his words were like that ... we know raghu is not liking shivani trying to mold herself in the family , does she know? ... she thinks that its his over protective nature ... we know that raghu hasn't realised his love for her yet? ... does she know ? no! she thinks that he loves her but is not admitting it bec of all kinds of prejudices ...

n lastly , i don't understand how stating shivani's reasons to behave the way she behaves makes raghu's actions wrong ... n vice versa ... when raghu behaves the way he behaves its bec of shivani's pushing ... but when shivani behaves the way she behaves its bec she is thinking stuff on her own... raghu doesn't have a hoot to do with it ...! everybody's actions r dependent on the others ... n not just one channel system ...

Dhanya just like u r trying to see it from Shivani's POV , I m trying to see it from Raghu's POV because there is no fun if we just present one person's POV and forget the other ..isn't it ...

Yes Shivani does not know what Raghu thinks or assumes but its the same other way too .. Raghu too does not know what Shivani thinks or assumes of his gestures or words and thats where I even said in my previous post about a communication gap .. like for eg if Raghu says I arranged a dinner and she said oh its a date between GF and BF .. Shivani assumed GF And BF = RaShi but Raghu assumed GF and BF can b Shivani-Karan too na and mayb Shivani will accept it too because she is in love with the idea mayb ... Of course his assumption is wrong , same way Shivani's assumption that Raghu overnight will suddenly arrange a romantic date too is wrong ..and both does not bother to clear it out either ...

so its basically wrong assumptions from both sides and I believe we should try to understand both the POVs in this case ..

Raghu is behaving a bit insensitive because of Shivani's push only whereas Shivani is pushing so hard because Raghu is behaving insensitive towards her feelings ... so yup their actions r dependent on each other .. its just that few want to present Shivani's POV as they relate to her more while few want to present Raghu's POV as they relate to him more ... but the middle point is both their actions and reactions r dependent on each other only .. there is no two ways about it

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Dhanya just like u r trying to see it from Shivani's POV , I m trying to see it from Raghu's POV because there is no fun if we just present one person's POV and forget the other ..isn't it ...

Yes Shivani does not know what Raghu thinks or assumes but its the same other way too .. Raghu too does not know what Shivani thinks or assumes of his gestures or words and thats where I even said in my previous post about a communication gap .. like for eg if Raghu says I arranged a dinner and she said oh its a date between GF and BF .. Shivani assumed GF And BF = RaShi but Raghu assumed GF and BF can b Shivani-Karan too na and mayb Shivani will accept it too because she is in love with the idea mayb ... Of course his assumption is wrong , same way Shivani's assumption that Raghu overnight will suddenly arrange a romantic date too is wrong ..and both does not bother to clear it out either ...

so its basically wrong assumptions from both sides and I believe we should try to understand both the POVs in this case ..

Raghu is behaving a bit insensitive because of Shivani's push only whereas Shivani is pushing so hard because Raghu is behaving insensitive towards her feelings ... so yup their actions r dependent on each other .. its just that few want to present Shivani's POV as they relate to her more while few want to present Raghu's POV as they relate to him more ... but the middle point is both their actions and reactions r dependent on each other only .. there is no two ways about it

U said what i am trying to say... there is no fun in seeing only one's pov... both r responsible for each others behavior...
I will also like to add that if one is stating someones pov that doesn't mean that one us forgetting about the other... ir thinks that the other is wrong...