Do you believe in second chance?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Everyone🤗
I am back with a weekend thread😳This time my question is bit more serious 😳

Here's the question-

Do you believe in second chance 1. In life
2. In love
3. In marriage !!


My answers:
For me, I do believe in second chance In Love&Life but I just don't think everyone deserves them. I truly believe, you've got to be EXTRA careful with giving a second chance.second chance might mean another shot at life, sometimes it's also like giving someone another bullet after they have missed shooting you the first time.I believe there should be second chance only if the person really sincierely regretted what she or he has done to the one concerned and also depends the extent of one's begray. Moreover, A Second chance doesn't come by often so if you are lucky enough to get a second chance,DON'T WASTE IT.

In Marriage: now I can't really say anything about this one as I don't have any experience as I am not married yet..

what do you think??!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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of course doesn't Almighty God gives us so many second chances he forgives again and again and as you said if u are really in remorse for what u did and want to make amends well I guess u deserve a second chance, I don't have any problem if someone cant give u a second chance I think it is their prerogative, personally it depends on the offense that the person commits .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice topic snigdhu.. :)
dont know about love and marriage but one should be given second chance for life for sure..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice Post Snigs😛

To me everyone deserves a second chance to rectify any mistakes they may have made but for me it would depend on what the circumstances are that caused them to want a second chance.

For me I will put up with a lot and know that we all make mistakes but I also have a limit to what I will tolerate once that is reached then giving them any more chances will be hard.

When it comes to Love and Marriage, for me the two things that are not forgivable and giving anyone second chances would be very difficult, is abuse and infidelity.

Marriage is a comprise, we all will make mistakes, but to be able move on from those mistakes and learn from them, is what will make you understand each other more and strengthen your relationship. It just really bothers me when I read especially here that couples get married and in a few years sometimes even months, when they are having problems instead of trying to solve them the answer is separation or divorce. For me when you take the step to get married it is a lifetime commitment, if problems occur and they will all avenues should be taken to solve them not be so quick to give up.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In Life everyone deserves a second chance but its how they use those chances.. As humans, we all have our flaws and therefore humans can not pass judgement on others..However, second chances does not mean that it should be abused and certain deeds some people do, dont deserve more chances such as pedophiles, murderers, abusers (all kind abuses) and those that commit serious crimes, mainly because they never gave a second chance to life to their victims...
As for love and marriage, it depends upon person to person...All have a chance for happiness and if they do not find that first time round then they do have a chance to find it again without the baggage...However, one should always work on their relationships but only after exhausting the chances should marriage or relationships should dissolve...

Snigs...where have u been? Missing U... :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rekrn



Nice Post Snigs😛

To me everyone deserves a second chance to rectify any mistakes they may have made but for me it would depend on what the circumstances are that caused them to want a second chance.

For me I will put up with a lot and know that we all make mistakes but I also have a limit to what I will tolerate once that is reached then giving them any more chances will be hard.

When it comes to Love and Marriage, for me the two things that are not forgivable and giving anyone second chances would be very difficult, is abuse and infidelity.

Marriage is a comprise, we all will make mistakes, but to be able move on from those mistakes and learn from them, is what will make you understand each other more and strengthen your relationship. It just really bothers me when I read especially here that couples get married and in a few years sometimes even months, when they are having problems instead of trying to solve them the answer is separation or divorce. For me when you take the step to get married it is a lifetime commitment, if problems occur and they will all avenues should be taken to solve them not be so quick to give up.

Thanks a lot for replying in details and very well said👏👏@bold-loved ur pov.I wish everyone would think like that !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-

In Life everyone deserves a second chance but its how they use those chances.. As humans, we all have our flaws and therefore humans can not pass judgement on others..However, second chances does not mean that it should be abused and certain deeds some people do, dont deserve more chances such as pedophiles, murderers, abusers (all kind abuses) and those that commit serious crimes, mainly because they never gave a second chance to life to their victims...

As for love and marriage, it depends upon person to person...All have a chance for happiness and if they do not find that first time round then they do have a chance to find it again without the baggage...However, one should always work on their relationships but only after exhausting the chances should marriage or relationships should dissolve...

Snigs...where have u been? Missing U... :(

Thank you sis😊.I am loving all of ur's pov😃very helpful n it's pleasure to read all the comments!!
Miss u toome kinda busy with shopping 😆😳!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snigdha_Khanam

Thank you sis😊.I am loving all of ur's pov😃very helpful n it's pleasure to read all the comments!!

Miss u toome kinda busy with shopping 😆😳!!


If busy for shopping then you are forgiven because of you I am active again...😉😆

Free in the evening/night??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-


If busy for shopping then you are forgivenn because of you I am active again...😉😆

Free in the evening/night??

thats so sweet of you🤗Yes I m very much aware that u r active here.I can see that.so glad to see that😳.Everyday I go through the forum n read all of ur bakaity silently😛Me not liking d current episodes thats one reason keeping my mouth shut🤬!! Yah I will be active from tomorrow on fb😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snigdha_Khanam


]thats so sweet of you🤗Yes I m very much aware that u r active here.I can see that.so glad to see that😳.Everyday I go through the forum n read all of ur bakaity silently😛Me not liking d current episodes thats one reason keeping my mouth shut🤬!! Yah I will be active from tomorrow on fb😊


Snigs, I say be active despite whatever the track... Ok will wait for tomorrow...😳

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