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Simmi

@simmi.friends03

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Shi ask him in haveli..whether he can't love her or don't love her...he says that its a sin to even think abt that point...so shi is not forcing herself on him...she want clear reply from him...she donate all the property to maje him clear that she is not her malkin...so it was actually raghu who deep inside know the ans.but just running away from the truth...now sumi mom further makes the situation more complicated for him...they winot let him thing & influence his mind...

Once shi get her answer under the impression of mom than for the happiness of raghu she will leave him...

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heera1702

@heera1702

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Very nice post n equally valid comments by all ..👏👏 its so nice to get to know different POV of all n all seem to have a gud valid thought n prediction .👏👏.Hope the cvs r regular visitors here n note down the beautiful n awesome points n try to show the same in the show .

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rekrn

@rekrn

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: isha01
love is something that need to feel not force.But we cant say shivani is forcing.Its not called "force" actually,she is raghus wife & she is demanding her right only.If you come to the force then i will tell you sumitra is forcing raghu emotionally.She is blaming raghu for her condition that is true somehow but raghu is married now & she is not awre of his divorce.So raghu made the first mistake by promising her & then she got all the right to expect somthing illogical .

I dont find shivani is wrong cause sometime there will be time when you will have to proof your love...she is just trying her level best.But that moment raghu said he is going to marry sumitra she had broken.She had no word to utter except crying.

Agree with you completely Sumi is forcing Raghu with her fake story I'm not disputing that. What I'm trying to say is that both Rashi have to change their mindset.. his that he is her Nakur, and hers that she is his Malkin. Because for me by her selling everything and packing her bags, moving into the basti she expected Raghu to accept her. I agree that at times you have to prove your love, but first she needs to get Raghu to accept and acknowledge his feelings. Right now he is not willing to admit his feelings. Shivani is in emotional turmoil i accept that, and she is trying desperately to get Raghu to realize his feelings but by doing all this she is actually pushing him away IMO.

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Simmi

@simmi.friends03

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#14

One more thing to add didn't latha know that raghu has joined smwhere else...so he was the employee of his dajju...than become the half patner in property. ..if he can't think beyond this is his problem...& mom is just in her anger she is doing wrong to shivani...her anger make her blind actually she is disillusioned raghu's mind...

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rekrn

@rekrn

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Thanks everyone for your views 😛

I was just writing what I thought didn't think that the word force would have such an impact and for that I'm truly sorry to have offended anyone. 🤔

Ok guys maybe I shouldn't have used the word force, maybe I should have used another word instead. What I meant to say is that the statement was to show that not only Raghu's mind has to remove the notion of Nakur, but Shivani also has to get the notion of Malkin out of her mind. That's all I meant, nothing more. I was just trying to explain why I had that viewpoint that's all and the word force is just what came to my mind at that moment it was not intended as a negative towards Shivani or that I was blaming her for her actions.. 😛

Edited by rekrn - 11 years ago

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rekrn

@rekrn

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: DivzOnAir
Its been just one day since her confession, right? She is still not thinking straight. I think she believes that the only reason she could find for raghu not accepting her is the wealth.

N anyways,I don't think giving raghu any amount of space was gonna help matters. What could she have done? Wait in the haveli thinking he would return?
What if she got the divorce papers the next day? Sign them, thinking he will reverse his decision?
What if she got news that sumi n raghu got married soon after? Blame her fate, n wait for a love that is not gonna come back?

Agree Shivani is still an emotional wreck and we all do things when we are emotional. I was just making the point that not only does Raghu need to get rid of the Nakur mindset but Shivani has to get rid of the Malkin mindset that's all I meant.

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rekrn

@rekrn

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: simmi.friends03
Shi ask him in haveli..whether he can't love her or don't love her...he says that its a sin to even think abt that point...so shi is not forcing herself on him...she want clear reply from him...she donate all the property to maje him clear that she is not her malkin...so it was actually raghu who deep inside know the ans.but just running away from the truth...now sumi mom further makes the situation more complicated for him...they winot let him thing & influence his mind...
Once shi get her answer under the impression of mom than for the happiness of raghu she will leave him...

Agree with you, I'm not disputing it. The only thing I was trying to say in this post was that they both have to get rid of their notions of Nakur/Malkin. I'm not blaming Shivani for her actions, i can understand why she is doing it, she is an emotional wreck and she is not thinking clearly.

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isha01

@isha01

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: rekrn

Agree with you completely Sumi is forcing Raghu with her fake story I'm not disputing that. What I'm trying to say is that both Rashi have to change their mindset.. his that he is her Nakur, and hers that she is his Malkin. Because for me by her selling everything and packing her bags, moving into the basti she expected Raghu to accept her. I agree that at times you have to prove your love, but first she needs to get Raghu to accept and acknowledge his feelings. Right now he is not willing to admit his feelings. Shivani is in emotional turmoil i accept that, and she is trying desperately to get Raghu to realize his feelings but by doing all this she is actually pushing him away IMO.

i think shivani is requesting raghu to accept her love not ordering.She told raghu-"tum daju k jo the wo the but ab humare pati ho".So she released raghu from her side.I'm not telling that raghu has to accept shivani.My problem is raghu knows shivani has nobody in this world without him so he could handle this mess in different ways.Its not a gentle step to bring sumitra.Shivani had left her malkin attire from that moment when she knew about the circus incident.I think desiring her love to be with her is not malkin attire.When she moved to the basti i was amazed cause this girl is totally desperated for raghu.And she can live there as raghus wife.So its also not malkin attire.I think in future to cry on her fate its best to try how much she can.And its also not malkin attire.

I told it before that it may be little bit easy to accept raghu as her huband but it will be more tuff for raghu accept her malkin as her wife.I have no problem here.But right now shivani has nothing to be with her,no any person here she can trust so she is trying her level best to win her love & i wish you will not call it malking attire!!!

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rekrn

@rekrn

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: isha01

i think shivani is requesting raghu to accept her love not ordering.She told raghu-"tum daju k jo the wo the but ab humare pati ho". Agree So she released raghu from her side.I'm not telling that raghu has to accept shivani.My problem is raghu knows shivani has nobody in this world without him so he could handle this mess in different ways.Its not a gentle step to bring sumitra.Shivani had left her malkin attire from that moment when she knew about the circus incident.I think desiring her love to be with her is not malkin attire.When she moved to the basti i was amazed cause this girl is totally desperated for raghu.And she can live there as raghus wife.So its also not malkin attire.I think in future to cry on her fate its best to try how much she can.And its also not malkin attire. I respect your pov, but for me her coming to the basti with the notion that Raghu will accept her willingly shows that she expected like before Raghu would agree.

I told it before that it may be little bit easy to accept raghu as her huband but it will be more tuff for raghu accept her malkin as her wife.I have no problem here.But right now shivani has nothing to be with her,no any person here she can trust so she is trying her level best to win her love & i wish you will not call it malking attire!!! Sorry It wasn't my intention to offend you, I was just stating my view. to me whether she realizes it or not her subconsciously her mindset is that of a malkin and I'm not finding fault in it, it's just my pov.