'He is your employee.. Not your slave.' Edited

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Note: Guys I have removed the word force, It was not my intention to use it as a negative towards Shivani, it was the first word that came to my mind I was just trying to explain my viewpoint, that they both have to get away from the Nakur/Malkin notion. I understand that Shivani is an emotional wreck and i am not blaming her for her actions. I am deeply sorry to have offended anyone.


Let me start by saying that this statement said by Latha was not called for, she could have just ended it by saying he is your employee she didn't have to go to the extreme and tell that he is not her slave.

The more I thought about this comment it's context is somewhat true. I think this dialogue maybe a trigger to Shivani to understand that she can't make Raghu accept her so easily...even though she has given away all her property and wealth as we all have indicated she still expected Raghu to agree with her and do what she wanted... like she was still his Malkin. I was thinking that she may think about this comment again and it will help her reallize that even though she sold everything and put herself on the same financial level as Raghu she is still behaving like a Malkin in her mind and she has to change that. So this track is not just about Raghu removing his preconceived notion but also her preconceived notion so that both are on the same level not only in their feelings but also in their mindset, and behave like a husband and wife not that of Nakur/ Malkin.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post and agree with you di..Shivani should understand this and not force raghu..i think raghu will take three more months to feel for shivani...and this can be done only when sumithra will be near to raghu.when sumithra wants raghu to talk with her then he might remember all the time about shivani.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is a wonderful point 👏👏👏

I think this is one reason why Latha today is so Anti-Shivani all of a sudden .. its going at the back of her mind that if Raghu-Shivani comes together then Raghu will b forever reduced to her slave and no mother will want her son to give away her self-respect for a woman 🤔 ...

So yup Shivani got to understand this point and stop forcing herself on Raghu ... She should try to win his heart by giving him the needed space as distance always makes the heart grow fonder 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post Rekhz.
I don't think that Shivani is forcing Raghu to accept her. She is just trying to make him see how much she loves him , and wanting to remove any inhibitions maybe he saw between them. If she wants to force him ..so she has to act like rich men who force poor girls to marry them by blackmailing them and their families. We see this in many movies and serials. If she wants to buy his love she could use her money to remove Sumitra from her way. And make his family stand by her side by buying them a new house and fulfilling their dreams.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Uma-Arhaanfan

Nice post and agree with you di..Shivani should understand this and not force raghu..i think raghu will take three more months to feel for shivani...and this can be done only when sumithra will be near to raghu.when sumithra wants raghu to talk with her then he might remember all the time about shivani.



Thanks😛

I think hopefully Shivani will realize this and act accordingly. Yes he will think about Shivani when he is with Sumi, because I think situations will occur that will bring up similar memories of him and her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

This is a wonderful point 👏👏👏

I think this is one reason why Latha today is so Anti-Shivani all of a sudden .. its going at the back of her mind that if Raghu-Shivani comes together then Raghu will b forever reduced to her slave and no mother will want her son to give away her self-respect for a woman 🤔 ..You have made a good point a mother wants the realtionship between her son and his life partner on the same level, which may be why Latha is behaving how she its.

So yup Shivani got to understand this point and stop forcing herself on Raghu ... She should try to win his heart by giving him the needed space as distance always makes the heart grow fonder 😳
So true they both will miss each other😳

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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post rekha...
agree with u that shivani is still on malkin attitude forcing R to accept her...they way she packed up everything and walked into his house...without even asking him or his family...shows that she is forcing herself into the family...even after R denied her...in way she took him and his family for granted...they will do what I say was her attitude...

and maybe Latha saw that...so now for shivani to understand...that part...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: awida

Good post Rekhz.

I don't think that Shivani is forcing Raghu to accept her. She is just trying to make him see how much she loves him , and wanting to remove any inhibitions maybe he saw between them. If she wants to force him ..so she has to act like rich men who force poor girls to marry them by blackmailing them and their families. We see this in many movies and serials. If she wants to buy his love she could use her money to remove Sumitra from her way. And make his family stand by her side by buying them a new house and fulfilling their dreams.



I understand your view Itidal 😛

Maybe force is not the proper word, but she is not listening to what Raghu is saying that he can't have a relationship with her because he considers her as his Malkin. He never said it was because she was rich or he was poor. Regardless that Raghu has feelings for her deep down which he hasn't acknowledged but By her giving away the property and packing her stuff moving to the basti, she expected Raghu to accept her with open arms. IMO she was pushing him to accept her if she wasn't she should have given some time to Raghu to deal with her confession. She has pushed him into a corner now, even at his birthday party before the power went out, it was clear that she was going to confess her love in front of everybody in her haste to declare her feelings she is not taking the time to let him realize his and he may do things to keep her at a distance.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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love is something that need to feel not force.But we cant say shivani is forcing.Its not called "force" actually,she is raghus wife & she is demanding her right only.If you come to the force then i will tell you sumitra is forcing raghu emotionally.She is blaming raghu for her condition that is true somehow but raghu is married now & she is not awre of his divorce.So raghu made the first mistake by promising her & then she got all the right to expect somthing illogical .

I dont find shivani is wrong cause sometime there will be time when you will have to proof your love...she is just trying her level best.But that moment raghu said he is going to marry sumitra she had broken.She had no word to utter except crying.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its been just one day since her confession, right? She is still not thinking straight. I think she believes that the only reason she could find for raghu not accepting her is the wealth.

N anyways,I don't think giving raghu any amount of space was gonna help matters. What could she have done? Wait in the haveli thinking he would return?
What if she got the divorce papers the next day? Sign them, thinking he will reverse his decision?
What if she got news that sumi n raghu got married soon after? Blame her fate, n wait for a love that is not gonna come back?

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