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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi guys just finished watching the last two episodes w/ the subtitles

In my opinion when Latha went to comfort Shivani after her overhearing what Baburam said she could plainly see that Shivani was upset I would have just left the coffee and let her cool down because when someone is that angry you do not confront or comfort them they will not be able to think logically because of the anger, hurtful things could have been and where said. But because Latha has a good heart and motherly feel for Shivani she wanted to comfort "her child" but she should have left her alone and talked to her later.

I can understand Shivani anger at the thought that everyone is after her property but she should have taken her anger out on Baburam who is the actual culprit and should have realized that it is not in Latha's nature to think like that. The comments that Baburam made about Shivani's wealth were cruel and mean but she is aware of Baburam's greed (he has never hidden it from anyone imo)which was well portrayed by Maya's impersonation of Baburam when they were playing the game at Nishi's party. She was laughing and enjoying her impersonation, so now why all of the sudden she is angry that they are after her property. For me it doesn't make sense. If she wasn't aware of his greed then okay i could understand her anger.

I liked that Raghu came to his mom's defense. Yes he was going to slap her, but he was able to control his anger and stop himself. Latha was trying to diffuse the situation which was rapidly getting out of control and she slapped Raghu which I don't agree with, he was defending her which a son would do when he feels his mother is being wrongly accused of something.

First I like that Latha understood why Shivani reacted the way she did and didn't hold a grudge. However I didn't like how she reacted to Raghu. I really didn't like how Latha told Raghu that by your actions today you proved that I'm your stepmom. I'm sorry I don't agree with that if Raghu really thought of her as his stepmom he would never have come to Latha's defense he would have continued to let Shivani abuse her, but because he has accepted latha in his heart as his mom, he could not tolerate how verbally abusive Shivani was to her no son could.

True he raised his hand to Shivani but he controlled himself and didn't complete the action unlike Shivani when she hears something she just reacts doesn't think the situation thru. Shivani really needs to stop reacting to everything that the evil trio are doing and start thinking for herself. I'm having a hard time believing that someone can be that gullible for so long without trying to find the truth out for herself. Raghu is trying to tell her over and over his side but she is not even wanting to listen. At least she should listen to both sides and then come to a decision and if she can't she needs to do something to uncover who is actually on her side and who isn't.

Now from the precap Raghu is going to go and apologize to Shivani and again she will scold him. He needs to realize that keeping quiet and not trying to clear himself is not working he needs to do something it's about time. He needs to make his warnings to the evil trio come to life and not just give empty threats


Guys this is just mpov and no offense to anyone. 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree rekha di.latha should not have reacted that way to raghu...whats the need for raghu to tell sorry to shivani...what happened to latha when shivani scolded raghu many times but she never came in the middle...anyways i think latha has accepted shivani as her bahu so that may be the reason she is asking raghu to say sorry to shivani...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very amazingly put forth rekha ..u have analysed the situation so well 👏👏

Agree Shi reacting without seeing both the sides of the coin is really becoming irritating now n thus she has aquired the tag of being brainless which is completely justified ,looking at her naive behaviour .She just accepts the evil trio,s ranting without giving a second thought . She is showing her anger n abusing only R family n ofcourse R but very easily forgave her OWN bro n Her EX BEAU so easily which is really very unrealistic .😕😲 If she is getting angry n so pissed off by betrays n being cheated then she has to show this temper to all not just the loyal ,honest R .

I completely disagree with R family that he is only wrong n Shi is not at all wrong .😲 Accepted that should not raise hand on a women but atleast some family member should have mentioned that Shi was also wrong n had gone overboard in her anger n behaved really bad n cheaply with mom before making him feel so guilty .R just stopped himself n dint slap Shi shows that he can control n think even in extreme conditions which is not possible to do by Shi .

As for the precap ,hoping there is not another abuse n insult coming in the way for R .😭

If he can ask for forgiveness for doing no wrong then hope Shi too ask for forgiveness from R n his family .Hope the cvs r listening .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Love your post. You've written it beautifully, and I agree with all your points. Raghu's anger was completely justified. No one can be patient when their mother is being insulted.
And he didn't even hit Shivani, just raised his hand. He restrained himself in time. So Latha really shouldn't have reprimanded Raghu and slapped him for that. He is being made to feel guilty for no reason 😕 I love Latha's nature generally, but this time she hurt Raghu for no fault of his

As for Shivani, based on past experiences, I don't expect very rational behaviour from her 😆 so I don't feel disappointed by anything she does :| 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks Rekha for this post.
I liked your analysis. And agree with you that Raghu has to do something to stop evils from remoting Shivani. 🤔 He took her responsibality . So he have to protect her.

Shivani on the other side is feeling cheated by Raghu. She can't trust him after having proofs against him. And now after slap scene she has stronger reasons to heat him. 😒

I hope in the upcoming episode they have a fight. I don't want Raghu to apologize and accept scolding silently. I want him to punish her.😉

I want her to feel worry when she sees that bandage in his hand.😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kautilya04


And he didn't even hit Shivani, just raised his hand. He restrained himself in time.


Hi Ranju.

I liked your comment. But personaly I faced this situation when I was in school days. My beloved teacher raised her hand and didn't slap me. I was respecting her. But some misunderstanding happen and she did that. You know what? I didn't forgive her. And I cant forget that day.😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Uma Thanks

I have no problem with Latha asking Raghu to say sorry to Shivani, because in any fight btwn two people both are to blame and both should apologize.( Unfortunately it seems like Raghu is one always apologizing.) Agree with you why didn't she interfer when Shivani was scolding Raghu many times. I think Raghu has askd them not too so may that is why and she has accepted Shivani not only as bahu but as another daughter . I just didn't like the comment she made to Raghu about how he proved that she is his stepmom it didn't have any merit to me on the contrary to me he proved that he has accepted her fullly as his mom by defending her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: heera1702

Very amazingly put forth rekha ..u have analysed the situation so well 👏👏

Agree Shi reacting without seeing both the sides of the coin is really becoming irritating now n thus she has aquired the tag of being brainless which is completely justified ,looking at her naive behaviour .She just accepts the evil trio,s ranting without giving a second thought . She is showing her anger n abusing only R family n ofcourse R but very easily forgave her OWN bro n Her EX BEAU so easily which is really very unrealistic .😕😲 If she is getting angry n so pissed off by betrays n being cheated then she has to show this temper to all not just the loyal ,honest R .

I completely disagree with R family that he is only wrong n Shi is not at all wrong .😲 Accepted that should not raise hand on a women but atleast some family member should have mentioned that Shi was also wrong n had gone overboard in her anger n behaved really bad n cheaply with mom before making him feel so guilty .R just stopped himself n dint slap Shi shows that he can control n think even in extreme conditions which is not possible to do by Shi .

As for the precap ,hoping there is not another abuse n insult coming in the way for R .😭

If he can ask for forgiveness for doing no wrong then hope Shi too ask for forgiveness from R n his family .Hope the cvs r listening .



Thank you

@red completely agree with you here, they have seen how she behaves with him how come they didn't remember it.

As for Shivani asking for forgiveness don't have much hope of that. Seems like the cv's are going to continue this track for awhile longer.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: awida


Hi Ranju.

I liked your comment. But personaly I faced this situation when I was in school days. My beloved teacher raised her hand and didn't slap me. I was respecting her. But some misunderstanding happen and she did that. You know what? I didn't forgive her. And I cant forget that day.😭


Oh I can understand Shivani's anger. I wouldn't forgive anyone who raised his/her hand on me too x( In fact, I may go ahead and give the person a whack myself 😆

But I felt that Latha overreacted :/ She shouldn't have hit him :( At least, that's what I felt...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kautilya04

Love your post. You've written it beautifully, and I agree with all your points. Raghu's anger was completely justified. No one can be patient when their mother is being insulted.

And he didn't even hit Shivani, just raised his hand. He restrained himself in time. So Latha really shouldn't have reprimanded Raghu and slapped him for that. He is being made to feel guilty for no reason 😕 I love Latha's nature generally, but this time she hurt Raghu for no fault of his

As for Shivani, based on past experiences, I don't expect very rational behaviour from her 😆 so I don't feel disappointed by anything she does :| 😆



Thank you

Agree don't expect Shivani to change anytime soon.

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