Does no one feel angry with Sandhya??!!! *DT Note PG-6* - Page 3

very nice post neeljay

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@neel I am with you. Sandhya going for the mission leaving her husband and 5 year old child faking her death is unacceptable to me. She should have hinted to her spouse about the mission is my take.

In the given scenario I have no qualms with Bhabo wanting a second marriage for Sooraj or Sooraj wanting to move ahead in life with another woman as his wife as his first wife is presumed dead. I am only not liking the way they do this. I mean a woman in a man's bedroom and man in insane condition. It doesn't look morally correct for me as much as Sandhya's faking death and going for mission.

I am also a working woman in a MNC in IT field and many times due to project pressures had to give more importance to work than family. But I also try to ensure as much as possible my family is informed about the pressures and some alternate arrangement is made so that both priorities can be taken care.

Thank you dear! Yes, yesterday I also didn't like Lalima going to Suraj's room at night dressed as Sandy but I'm relieved after today's episode. Now I understand why LM did what she did and I see nothing wrong in it.

And I totally agree with on project pressures and still taking care of family! Exactly! We give extra time to our employers and we make personal sacrifices also for them but we make sure our families are well prepared and taken care of. That's all I wanted from Sandy.

All the people in this forum who say that was right, if they take a look in their heart and ask themselves how they would feel if their spouse faked their death and made them and their children go through the trauma...

Originally posted by: --jas--

@neel_jay ... superb post 👍🏼... nothing more to add i agree with each and every word of urs ..

Thank you! 😳

Originally posted by: Taha0023

Some one called you un-educated?

Sandhya of course should inform her Husband that she is going to a secret mission.
What she did to her husband , is not forgivable.
At List Suraj should know about this secret mission.

He had that heart to tacle this mission. But where she through Suraj, is extremely unfair and extremely inhuman.

The man behind her become IPS officer should know, she is alive!

OK. Now I am coming to my education, I am Architect PhD from London, working for various world famous firms. Worked in London, Stuttgart and NewYork. Because I am affraid some one will call me un-educated🤣🤣
I watch this show for Sandhya. But this time Sandhya is very wrong. If Suraj would know, he would handle Ved, during this tough time.
Suraj is such a person, he would keep this secrete mission strictly confidential.

Ha ha Taha, we will still remain uneducated only dear. And that's because we dared to question Sandhya! 😆

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@neel I am with you. Sandhya going for the mission leaving her husband and 5 year old child faking her death is unacceptable to me. She should have hinted to her spouse about the mission is my take.

In the given scenario I have no qualms with Bhabo wanting a second marriage for Sooraj or Sooraj wanting to move ahead in life with another woman as his wife as his first wife is presumed dead. I am only not liking the way they do this. I mean a woman in a man's bedroom and man in insane condition. It doesn't look morally correct for me as much as Sandhya's faking death and going for mission.

I am also a working woman in a MNC in IT field and many times due to project pressures had to give more importance to work than family. But I also try to ensure as much as possible my family is informed about the pressures and some alternate arrangement is made so that both priorities can be taken care.

. IT fiield and police jobs are not at all equal. IPS job is very tough. Suraj know this . He lso enouraged Sandhya to became an IPS Officer. If she tells Suraj about the mission he definitely tells Bhabo and Menkshi. It spreads like foresttfire. Sandhya thought she will definitely come back and she took promise from Suraj no other women in his life. For the country sake so many people did so many sacrifices. She lso wants to do something for the nation. That is her big mistake. She should lso take some IT job and take house responseblites. But I like sndhya's qualities. Hats off Sandhya.

@kimkudos please I have not compared IT jobs and IPS. I also know how tough IPS job is and I am coming from a state where there are inspirational IPS officers like B Sandhya. I have heard her speech, her struggles to come to the place where she is. IT I just used to tell that I understand a working woman's problems not as comparison And you tell Sooraj will tell to Bhabo and Meena Sandhya is going on a mission. That is the trust a wife have on husband. That too for a man who send her to night college without breathing a word to his family. That too of a man who has not told about her fight with naxals during her IPS training. The reasoning itself that Sooraj will tell Bhabo and Meena itself shows the cracks in their so called perfect relationship. No one is asking Sandhya to tell about the details of the mission. They are just telling her to give a hint she is going on a mission which concerns national security. Let whatever news they get, don't feel disheartened, she will come back. That's my only point which is sorely missing in this.

Wow great funda If she did for family she is not correct IPS Officer. If she did for nation she is not correct wife. Great ideas . Suraj may not tell to Bhabho But definitely he won't allow her to go for the mission. He won't allow her to go for die. This is also one reason Sandhya didn't tell to Suraj.

Originally posted by: Kimkudos

Wow great funda If she did for family she is not correct IPS Officer. If she did for nation she is not correct wife. Great ideas . Suraj may not tell to Bhabho But definitely he won't allow her to go for the mission. He won't allow her to go for die. This is also one reason Sandhya didn't tell to Suraj.

This is also a very regressive mentality that a woman is a good wife only if she is a man's slave , cooks and cleans and stays at home 24/7