Originally posted by: shruthiravi
It is not that Sandhya's doesnt trust Sooraj. But she still hides things from him especially about Bhabo, Chavi etc..She still feels herself to a barrier between mother -son, sister-brother. She feels if she talks about some pain they inflict on her Sooraj might take her side which will adversely affect his relationship with Bhabo or rest of RP.
Sandhya has to let go of that fear. Just like Sooraj realizes he is not a barrier between Sandhya and her dream, Sandhya need to realize she is not a barrier to his relationship with his mother and other siblings.
Just like after the task Sooraj discussed with her his inner most fear that he was afraid of her safety though he supported her she should be able to speak about her pain, her struggle to him. Yesterday too she hid the fact that the parachute didnt open.
Dont think that Sandhya got this message yesterday. It is a future symbolism where she will be finally able to conquer that fear.
Bingo Shruthi... I was thinking that I have something to mention but couldn't remember, thanks to you!
Yes, the same question came in my mind in several occasions repeatedly regarding Sandhya Sooraj conversation topic.
Why she can't share her good, bad and everything with Sooraj, there conversation is just formal. It seems they are walking on a thin ice, as if by one little awkward talk can break it. Why Sandhya fail to understand how strong there relationship is.
Why she couldn't tell him about the parachute not opening thing. Some people can thing that she didn't want to make Sooraj worried, but truly, yes, he should be worried and say well, thanks to god everything went well. What fear stopped her to tell Sooraj.
To sum up, I'll say Sandhya used to hide things from Sooraj because she didn't want to make a fuzz between Sooraj and his poribar, but now it became her habit to hide things unnecessarily. I don't like CVs sending messages to those unmarried girls to hide things from their husband, either for good or bad reasons. Example, Lahega things, now parachute thing.. and so on. Not only hiding, he lied too for lahenga.
I can't hide that huge thing from my hubby and I shouldn't.
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