Sir or Madam ..what difference does it make ? - Page 2

Even I could not get it. Does this Singh suffer from a complex of some kind. Men and women are different. There is no need for anyone to try and make an attempt to be like the other. Be proud you are a woman who made it to the top in this male dominated society.

exactly neeill

@neil this is my take on Ms Singh's insistence on Sir. Ms Singh is the other extreme of Bhabo. Bhabo if you look was too rigid on the standards of a good beendini. According to her a good beendini needs to be extremely good in cooking I mean she was telling she should make food for 50 people at a go, do all the household work like sewing, needs to be a mother immedaitely after marriage, should dedicate her life for her in laws and should not think of anything for herself, should not be educated much. Sandhya was a contradiction to this thought of Bhabo. Sandhya if you look in the sense of Bhabo's definition of beendini is an average one. But irrespective of that she turns out to be a good beendini. I mean there are qualities beyond the stereotypical image of a woman that makes someone good or bad woman which Bhabo is still in the process of learning. Again lot of her thought process has been proved wrong by Sandhya's characterization.

@shrutiravi

that makes lot of sense .

i havent watched past episode so thanks for the information on that bit

so in this IPS track we have IS instead of bhabho...and it would be really nice if sandhya could bring much needed change in IS's perception. Costume,haircut or mannerisms should not be the priority to show how strong you are...yes u do need some kind of discipline but to change your own identiy is not necessary to become a good IPS officer...

Ok I might sound stupid making this topic but today while watching the episode I did not understand why Inspector Singh (IS) had to stress to call her Sir and not Madam. I know that she preaches equality but does calling her Sir will accompolish that? or for that matter just having short haircut will endorse equality..is it so necessary to address someone as Sir to show that all are equal ???
any thoughts?
[They din't bring this up just for the serial...commonly Senior Female officers in the military and police are reffered to as 'sir'... but yaa...I always used to wonder...why..?

I think women should be respected as they are.

@shruthiravi and nneeiill

I feel like she is demanding to be addressed as SIR because later on CV's will show the BIGGEST TWIST on DABH 🤣 She is SIR and does not like to be called Madam... imagine the twist 🤣

ok as per my knowledgethe general term for drill instructor is sir/sahab and it is not gender based..😳...just like all cadets are reffered as commando or jawan...the officers after completing their training are addressed as sir/maam 😊

I don't get it either! To be honest if I was Officer Singh I wouldn't want to be addressed as "Sir" don't wanna feel like a man. Just saying though. "Madam" is not less superior than "Sir" and I am sure all the cadets respect her highly because they understand why they are here in this profession!