*~DABH-Frustrations Thread~*#2 *DT Note P 66/70* - Page 19

Originally posted by: nneeiill

We started asking mods for explanations when only certain comments
Were removed saying that it has nothing to do with FT.
Whereas comments against Neil's previous show still exist in this thread.
How is that part of an FT and why should we not seek an explanation?
Why should I remain silent when I can clearly see such comment still existing
Here and a pic of a duck is removed within minutes . We asked mods for a valid
Reason .

forum-a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged...

Who said IDEAS AND VIEWS have to be Positive only ??This is what a FORUM is for Right??

• @Criticism-meaning
  

• the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes:
• Please see the emphasis on the word PERCEIVED...Perception is not ABSOLUTE its INDIVIDUALISTIC..Thus the arguement that criticism has to be general is certainly not valid
  
• the analysis and judgement of the merits and faults of a literary or artistic work:
• So Criticism includes both merits and faults...If SOMEONE IS LOVING THE MERITS OF THE SHOW it again falls into CRITICISM..So my question again is...WHAT IS SO POKING ABOUT CRITICISM which encompasses both Praises and issues ?

So yes if someonecan raise PRAISES then we can RAISE ISSUES TOO ??

My questions?

• What is the purpose of the forum if not to discuss?
• What is the duty of a Mod if not Unbiased Moderation?
• What is the Decorum of a member if not MUTUAL RESPECT?
• What is a Frustration Thread if not a place to VEnt out DISSATISFACTION in terms of story line ,acting and expectations from the CV's?
• What is the use of being there in a forum if not EXPRESSION of thoughts and Exchange of IDEAS?
• What is the meaning of MUTUAL RESPECT if not ACCEPTANCE of OPINIONS and STRENGTH TO HANDLE CRITICISM-Constructive or Negative should hardly matter.

• Sandhya-A CONFUSED stereotypical pseudo-projection of a Bharatiya Nari
  
• Suraj -A dumb Mute Husband
• Bhabho-A tyrannical Terrorist
• Babasa-A henpecked Husband
  
• Zakir-An irritating Overconfident whacko Fool
• Rahul- A retard
• Roma -A moony eyed Lunatic
• Meena Beendani- A Selfish snob

• How to PROVE to the World that a WOMAN has to constantly be under scanner.
• How to justify Abuse of MIL's in the name of Respect and Sanskaar ?

Inspiration is the process by which the mental stimulation takes place to do or feel something, whereas aspiration defines a hope of fulfillment of achievements.

There is nothing in Sandhya that stimulates me to believe and have faith.

The Oxford Dictionary defines inspiration as "the process of being mentally stimulated to do or feel something, especially to do something creative". It denotes that some kind of influence is involved in the process of stimulation. In simple words, inspiration deals with influence which motivates one to do something. To be inspired, the most important thing is the source of inspiration. This is the entity under whose influence, you would do something. This source can be another person, a song, a painting, a story, a photograph, and many other numerous things.

The Oxford Dictionary defines aspiration as "a hope or ambition of achieving something". The sentence "I aspire to be a doctor", it clearly indicates the wish of the concerned person to become a doctor. Aspirations form hopes and these hopes are seen for future. Aspirations form an integral part of human wants. Future is unpredictable, but people with their dreamy eyes, dream of a future that will fulfill their desires. It can define the type of person you want to be, the life that you want for yourself, or anything that you feel would be good to be associated with your identity. Aspiration means that you are always short from reaching to the point you aspire, because once you achieved success in what you had aspired, then it will no longer be an aspiration.

My Frustration is that the story is Aspirational -Which denotes the aspirations of many women who can do nothing but ASPIRE -whether it is fulfilled or not ..is another story.Hence the massive TRP's.The story is not about REAL women or CHARACTERS...It is just a projection of ASPIRATIONS coming TRUE in the WORST UNREALISTIC POSSIBLE MANNER.Off late the ASPIRATION value has lost too..Where are the Dreams in her eyes?

WHY IS THERE A NEED OF INSPIRATION TO BRING OUT THE ASPIRATION IN HER?

And this my friends is MY PERCEPTION OR DISCUSSION of the show - EXACTLY WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF THE FORUM...

Reporting MY PERCEPTION ,MUD SLINGING on MY BELIEF and COUNTER ATTACKING with Arguments of how I SHOULD WATCH AND NOT WATCH OR GIVING ME OPTIONS is a CURTAILMENT OF MY FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION.

• I absolutely REFUSE to TONE DOWN MY LIBERTY OF SPEECH within the code of conduct.
• I absolutely RESENT the way the characters are handled
• I absolutely DEMEAN the PATHETIC ways the so called TRP- Grosser use to GLORIFY REGRESSION AND FOOLISHNESS
• I absolutely ABHOR the kind of PERSONAL attacks HURLED on us and the actor we love.
• I absolutely QUESTION everyone here...IS IT SO HARD TO BELIEVE THAT IT IS A forum and not a DEFENSIVE AND OFFENSIVE FANCLUB.