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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 11 years ago

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@irobo @Fathimaji. All the things you said during the initial days are true. But Sandhya had every chance to walk out of marriage when Preeti gave her the divorce papers. Why didnt she take them if she was selfish. She could have walked out easily citing the reason that she has been cheated in the marriage. No one could have stopped her. But by refusing to take those divorce papers Sandhya knew very well her IPS is a gone case. But she choose to stick to marriage. If it was not Sooraj, for whom she took that decision. Did she at any point excepted that he will support his dream. See we can say accepting the fate, but then letting go of something for which she dreamed since childhood for someone else isnt it painful.

But Sooraj's love for her made her do that. What about Sooraj. Cant we say his act is that of gratitude for the fact that Sandhya accepting him for what he is and was the one who made him a confident young man by supporting him throughout WTC. Cant we say the knowledge that the girl who had done so much for him really had a dream which she was willing to forgo for his sake made him take the decision he took. Because he didnt want to feel guilty.

I am not taking anything from Sooraj's support to Sandhya for IPS. When she thought it was not possible he really made it happen. But just seeing the things from Sandhya's viewpoint also. Because a woman's sacrifice is treated as accepting fate and a man's sacrifice is glorified. Why double standards. Let us treat them equal. Even Sooraj never believed he will win WTC, but it was Sandhya's will power, love and support that made it happen.

Sooraj professed his love for Sandhya post semi of WTC, and I would be happy if they show the remarriage things before IPS results are out. That would be apt. Because as per his wish she has studied and done everything possible from her end to be an IPS. But now that is done away with. Whether IPS is there or not she is his, whether she clears interview or not doesnt matter , but she loves him enough.

A woman cannot initiate the need to take the relationship to next level directly and earlier also I pointed out that in some other post the first step towards it will happen only from Sandhya's end and Sandhya will bloom into a woman before going for IPS. So to take it to next level she is taking a romantic route.

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hema latha

@jhema

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Don't knw what to say about this RW.

Whatever it is it should happen before IPS. Then only it has some meaning. Otherwise it be like a favour for Suraj.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Exactly Hemaji. The perfect point for RW is post Sandhya's interview not post the results are come. Post results can make it dubious as many say.Yaa I do agree that post results it might take the sheen out of the whole concept. But post interview she doesnt know she will make IPS or not. But irrespective of that she wants to be a wife to Sooraj. Because nothing more he or she can do for IPS. If she clears IPS she is happy. Even if she doesnt she is happy to be his wife, because it is not the result that matter but the road towards it which they travelled together.

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hema latha

@jhema

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

AS per Spoilers I think after results she want to Do RW before she is leaving for training.

But as u said in Shantji's post, May be the judges questions make her to do this.

She want to give the secure feeling not only for Suraj and also for her.

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irobo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

@shruthiravi, one point i want to make clear is sandy actually wanted to leave RM

, and when suraj asked her problem after coming from temple, because he saw she was very sad. she told suraj "i cant just say it to you only, i have to tell this to bhabho and bhabhasha also because its important matter, so when there free in the evening we will talk"

but actually meena doing bad things at right time saved the day because , there was a theft in the house she has hidden it, when bhabho found out, there was the usual drama going on, so bhabho asked meena's parents to come, and they come to the house and bhabho started scolding them in very bad words,

sandy listening to this imagined her brother and In-law getting scolded from bhabho about her parents and them , because they cheated in this marriage .

so sandy decided to save her family honor and save parents pride, she hid the truth and stayed in the family and started lying her self to save her family honor.

so sandy was never selfless she was always selfish.

Edited by irobo - 11 years ago

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thala

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: irobo
this is why i dont like this RW, its like payment for the support and services rendered by suraj, if u know what i mean 😆. if sandy did this before IPS, then i would have been very happy, and respected sandy a lot, but after becoming IPS if she does this. she is same like others is RM. selfish

you spoke my heart bro

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thala

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: jhema
AS per Spoilers I think after results she want to Do RW before she is leaving for training.
But as u said in Shantji's post, May be the judges questions make her to do this.
She want to give the secure feeling not only for Suraj and also for her.

good guess J

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HalleNJ

@HalleNJ

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

RW now is much better than RW after IPS...it's all CVs mistake that they focused all the things in the world and sidelined Surya and make them a comedy piece instead of showing the seriousness of their relationship...it's not that i dont enjoy watching their scenes; I knew it sooner or later this issue will be brought up and discussed...

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irobo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@irobo @Fathimaji. Because a woman's sacrifice is treated as accepting fate and a man's sacrifice is glorified. Why double standards. Let us treat them equal.

one reason is suraj from beginning did everything out of love he had for sandy ,

sandy at first did not accept his helps and scolded him , but suraj explained to her that husband wife are one after marriage so problems also same and one. (something). but still she didn't want his help, so sooraj started helping her like help is needed for him, like when bhabho asked sandy to cook for daisa and others, after that only sandy started to see or linked suraj's help,

but what ever sandy done you can see its like help to repay her debt to suraj for the things he had done for her. WTC is a good example i think , you all know when sandy 2nd rank price giving ceremony was going on she was at the village. suraj did so many things to bring her to the college with out her or other knowing it, after she got the award , suraj said i also like to get similar awards but couldn't due to family issues.

so when that Italian person told sandy about WTC, she remembered what suraj said and she though to pay him back, thats all.

another one might be when sandy was angry with suraj in the beginning , she gave money for mohit without telling anyone. see the episode for more details and why its wrong, i'm tried of typing.

but sooraj when he found out 2nd rank matter he was angry as sandy as lied to bhabho, but still when bhabho wanted to throw sandy out of the house , suraj stopped it and lied to bhabho to save his wife. which is out of his love, in the process he damaged is relationship with his mother.

but sandy, asked why did you lie for me , you should have let me go, because it was the correct punishment for the lies i told or something.

again she helped suraj to get his mother together back by that sweet issue, it's like sandy always repaying her debt,

if you look at everything ,

i might have missed the important details here and there, but if you watch the first 70 episodes again you will clearly understand. about sandy

Edited by irobo - 11 years ago