When will Sandhya Change ?

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Sonali_11

@Sonali_11

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

I think both Suraj and Sandhya have changed alot if we compare it with the earlier episodes.. Suraj never argued with Bhabo the way he does now , He's more confident about the decisions he makes.
Whatever Sandhya has been doing is directly or indirectly for Suraj's sake even if in few cases Bhabo is involved..She feels bad if shes not able to cook for him , she tries to give him surprises..So in a way she has changed alot.
The focus of this track is Bhabo vs Suraj Sandhya , Cv's are trying hard to justify Bhabo's stance , Surya are being shown as devoted children , I don't expect any other thing as of now.

Edited by Sonali_11 - 12 years ago

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

@niruba when did I say Sandhya didnt change. She has changed a lot , so has Sooraj. But for them to look inwardly in their relationship as well as their life together they need peace. Peace from aangan dramas. Peace from having to prove to Bhabo everytime. They need trust from Bhabo. Once they have it no one can stop SURYA. They will be a perfect couple in every way.

@Sonali this track was for Bhabo to realize her folly. For her to understand by being a husband to Sandhya Sooraj doesnt cease to be a son. She has to give space for his wife. I guess with FJ more or less CVs will achieve that.

@ Geeth for Bhabo to change completely BS+ Chavi's marriage issue has to happen. But after FJ funda we might see some transformation in her.

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pamela01

@pamela01

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Suraj worships bhabo. In Suraj eyes his mother is a goddess and therefore she does no wrong even when Suraj is aware of what she is doing is wrong.

If bhabo

really want Suraj to break all ties then she should ask him to move far away from Hanuman strreet.

Bhabo will not do that since if he moves far away then she will be deprived of his money.

Greed is a very bad thing.

Bhabo is greedy for money and her hate for Sandhya is eating her internally.

Sandhya had her chance to get a divorce but she choose to stay married and live in a very disruptive house where she is treated very bad so it is her own fault.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

@pamela in India you dont walk out of marriages just like that as marriage is treated sacred. Also the treatment Sandhya got in RP was because of Ankur's lie, his greed. Sandhya was willing to go when Bhabo threw her out first time. But Sooraj stopped her sticking his head out and supporting her in every way to pass 15 day test. How will she walk away after that. There was an element of gratitude for him and the trust he placed on her. Then after she knows he became bad in front of the society to free her , her gratitude blooms into love. Their problem is both of them are givers but in different way. He has been a giver to his family and she wants to give back to society. He wants to give her to society as IPS means more social service than family service, and she wants to give him to family that means family comes to him before her. But what CVs have to show is that they dont want anything alone. A second level of SURYA confession on their priorities is needed.

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irobo

@irobo

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

again the problem is with sandy ,when they came out of RM, suraj asked sandy to trust him, and leave the family problem to him and he will short it out with bhabho, and asked her to concentrate on studies and IPS ,

but sandy is not doing that, and thats casuing most of the problems.

if sandy do's what suraj asked her to do and support him in their family life , then suraj will grow up and become a men, and stop running behind bhabho. and will have the strength and power to solve all problems they have.

Edited by irobo2050 - 12 years ago

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.kat.

@.kat.

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Orobo ji,

To achieve sandys dream of IPS, suraj took the lead and is fighting hard to convince his mom. He supported sandy thru 3 matka challenges, sbc. Even when sandy was ready to give up her dream, he is the one holding on to her dream .

In the same way, samdhya is making sure that suraj's dream of a united family also gets fulfilled. She also will go to any lengths to achieve it. Be it running after babho, giving her foot baths, acting foolish, or pretending to be inept at cooking etc.

In their relationship Cvs cannot show one person taking more and using the other. If suraj makes her IPS, but they leave RP, then it would be like sandhya failed him and used him. So sandhy would try her best to keep suraj united with his mom. Surya know what is imp.to each other and are willing to do anything to make it happen. Surya are secure in their love for each other. They are happy being together and they are solving problem of babho in their own way.

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irobo

@irobo

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

i think we or i cant blame sandy for running behind bhabho always, because when she got married her in-law said to think bhabho and bhabasha as mother and father, because the in-law thought bhabho might be like her MIL,

and sandy lost her both parents recently , so she's also trying accept bhabho ans bhabasha as her parents.

to top it off , sandy is a shadow of suraj, so until suraj changes a little bit.

sandy might be like this for ever. 😡

Edited by irobo2050 - 12 years ago