When will Sandhya Change ?

Sandhya will change if Bhabo stops her aangan dramas and accept her wholeheartedly. Once Bhabo places trust on Sandhya and handover her sons future in Sandhya's hand happily that girl will change. Just like she took him to WTC win which was made possible by his talent as well as her love for him, she will take Sooraj to his glory. Her unhibited love will work wonders on Sooraj's confidence and Sooraj will definetley go up up in his profession. Even with IPS Sandhya will only be Sooraj's shadow. She has the capability in her to take Sooraj to his ultimate destiny making Bhabo and Babasa proud , but for that Bhabo has to allow her. For once Bhabo has to free her son and accept that at his age wife plays an important role more than the mother.

and bhabho never allowed her to be herself, bhabho wants a Servant in the name of DIL.,

yes, i might have written some nonsense above but what i'm trying to say is,

1.sandy had many chances but she didn't take it . before and after marriage.

2. suraj from day one, asked her again, again, again and again about her , and her dreams , etc.. but she never trusted suraj and tell him anything, if she had told. things would have turned differently .

I completely agree with u. Sandhya can be herself only when babho changes and accepts her and suraj the way they want to be and not the way babho thinks that they should be. A mom has expectations but it is wrong of her to put all the responsibilities and pressure on just surya and make them do all her biddings, her wishes and her vision for her family. All this pressure adversely affects surya. EA on sandhya also affects suraj. All this emotional,strain cannot be good for any person. Home is one place where people feel happy, thier sanctuary. Even after sandhya becomes IPS and babho keeps up her EA, then with work pressure and home pressure one would certainly become a total mental wreck. Suraj cannot be happy without babho and living away from home. The only solution is for babho to change. Not just some grudging acceptance becz. Surya are saving her but total acceptance of surya and their dreams. Babho,is able to accept others with their faults, but she has to accept surya with thier goodness. It's amazing that she can't see thier golden heart and let's her ego and possessiveness blind her.

Suraj, sandhya and babho are like the three musketeers and their motto is what babho follows

All for one and one for all.

But right now babho thinks : , all (responsibilities ) for one (surya) one(victim, who takes all blames) for all.

Babho has to do some major growing up. Learn lots of life's lessons and stop emotionally blackmailing suraj to get her own way in everything. She thinks she is protecting her son. That the world won't respect him when sandhya becomes IPS, but it is she and her family that doesn't respect him and uses him. She has to accept him as an individual, with his own thoughts and wishes, and not just some reflection of her own personality, a puppet for her to use in the name of mom/son rishta.

FJ, shows that she can make wrong judgements, her lying to chavvi's inlaws about the exam, now fj lying to them, meenas bs revelation, and other things, hopfully makes her realize her mistakes. dabh has to show babhos emotional growth for that more babho drama, more tears and then only surya happiness and togetherness, I think. Along with that they have to show the other members growing up and at least respecting surya, as the elder brother and and for everything that thye have done, they deserve their respect and love. If all this doesn't happen, then the dreams of the three imp. Characters will not be fulfilled. RP as a united family led by babho then surya, surya pursuing and helping each other with their dreams and ambitions, etc. otherwise RP will just be a zoo.

If suraj didn't care for babho and was selfish and did his own thing, ironically, babho would change faster. But since suraj genuinely cares and loves his family, his happiness is tied to babhos, and sandhyas to his and babhos. So I think , they need babhos unconditional acceptance to lead a happy life.

Sorry for the long post and thanks for reading. Iam new here and so am writing long posts: beginners enthu. The discussions are more fun than the actual show .

So let Sandy eb Sandy till the show wraps up

Time pass ji,

U r absolutely right. Ev en if sandy has a baby, I shudder to think how the baby would be growing up in RP. Where the mom and dad get scolded and shouted at all the time,when others show no respect for them, made to be doormats, scape goats for everything, the baby too will have a difficult time respecting them. Meena will be jealous, compete, and also blame the baby even if her kid breaks something. The baby might rebel and grow up like mohit or chavi, or if surya are really careful, then the baby will be good but end up like surya always caught between some conflict or the other.

If surya continue to live there, then they have to make others understand and respect them.Draw some boundaries otherwise their life would continue to be hell. Not just babho, they have to reform others too. Suraj is partly responsible for their bad attitude, by being too kind, understanding and selfless.

Sandy is a fictional character, i know, but maybe her subconscious mind rebels against such treatment of her and her hubby, maybe she fears intimacy which could lead to a baby and other complications.

Just some thoughts.

Deepz ji,

Then suraj can be diya and babho,the baati as she is always making baati,,even in today's episode she was making baati.😆

@Tpji what a post and you are absolutely right. A baby for SURYA at this juncture is a disaster in making. Even the kid will go through aangan dramas. How will the kid feels when everyone in family is making fun of his/her papa and mama.

@Deebz Sandhya needs IPS but only with Sooraj. I am sure of that. She loves him deeply and is concerned about him. Sooraj needs family but only with Sandhya. Both their dreams are incomplete without each other. They are trying to give each other ( like Maggie's gift) what the other person cherishes. The one person who can ensure both their dreams turn to reality is Bhabo. Bhabo needs to understand that the new order is not her cup of tea( FJ proves that). She needs someone who has the knowledge of the new world as well as the goodness which of course Sandhya is. She also needs to understand what her son is actually capable of. He is a WTC winner and do she want to trap him in MKD lifelong. Shouldnt she allow him to broden his vision, his ambition and take his talent outside Pushkar which his wife can support him. As Babasa tells allow yourself to feel the love of Sooraj and Sandhya. Because if she removes her ego and brings in warmth to her dealings with Sandhya not only Sandhya but Sooraj will also be happy. Once they are happy they will keep the family united the way she had wanted.

After reading all these posts and writing some of them, I would like to ask when will babho change? I think that is more important for suryas happiness, and sanity and ours too.

If surya leave rm, they will feel guilty and constantly think of babho.

Can the cvs please send meena away to prison for bs ( maybe when kanica is participating in nach baliye), vik to maasas village, marry off chavi, send Emily to her parents for delivery and mohit to visit baby, babho and babasa on some pilgrimage. Then surya can be together. even if they just hold hands, look at each other, or even if sandhya keeps studying, its fine. they just need some peace, quiet and space. Iam in dreamland. 😳

Let them have whatever kind of relationship they want but people just don't keep interrupting and interfering.

And thanks for the welcome.😊