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Thank you Shruti. Those were kind words and I am heartily pleased that you have enjoyed reading the post. 😳😃
Indeed there is lot of depth to DABH...and we can actually catch it easily when we see in retrospect. Like you have said it before.
However, to keep the viewers glued to a tortuous and dragging drama just like the daily grill of life, the credit goes to the Character Chemistry of Sooraj and Sandhya. The ability of the husband and wife to become human beings who respect every one's existence around them before they assume any other role in their life is what attracts to us. Its the mystery of what would Sooraj do now ? What would Sandhya do now, that is what entices the audience. Even as the husband and wife, when they are not privy to each others painful circumstances, the way they reach out to each other in a very human manner, is able to insulate them both from seeing each other as standing at lower step and upper step of education, achievements. They are two diff kind of personalities bounded by just one commonality, their ability to love others in human manner, not too emotional, not too judgemental.
The essence of SurYa relationship is about being Good Human Being. That is how they always have accepted each other inspite of disappointments, lies, deceits and mismatches. That is how the unfairness to them is forgiven and forgotten by them and like two resilient human souls, they keep rebuilding or building with whatever resources they can find. They both have seen the worst moments of their life, have seen how if all alone, they look incompetent and they without any pride accept the others help when that help is given without hurting the others pride. There is so much to see from these two characters, to adjust, to compromise, to help, to accept, to forgive, to understand...these are the same feelings that we go through in our life. And it is all being part of a good human being in an ordinary way, nothing heroic or extra ordinary about it. That's why the two characters are pleasing to watch on screen. Seeing good makes us feel strong too.
And if we add the spice of opposition in the form of Bhabho, she too is very human. And so acceptable.
Indeed there is lot of depth to DABH...and we can actually catch it easily when we see in retrospect. Like you have said it before.
However, to keep the viewers glued to a tortuous and dragging drama just like the daily grill of life, the credit goes to the Character Chemistry of Sooraj and Sandhya. The ability of the husband and wife to become human beings who respect every one's existence around them before they assume any other role in their life is what attracts to us. Its the mystery of what would Sooraj do now ? What would Sandhya do now, that is what entices the audience. Even as the husband and wife, when they are not privy to each others painful circumstances, the way they reach out to each other in a very human manner, is able to insulate them both from seeing each other as standing at lower step and upper step of education, achievements. They are two diff kind of personalities bounded by just one commonality, their ability to love others in human manner, not too emotional, not too judgemental.
The essence of SurYa relationship is about being Good Human Being. That is how they always have accepted each other inspite of disappointments, lies, deceits and mismatches. That is how the unfairness to them is forgiven and forgotten by them and like two resilient human souls, they keep rebuilding or building with whatever resources they can find. They both have seen the worst moments of their life, have seen how if all alone, they look incompetent and they without any pride accept the others help when that help is given without hurting the others pride. There is so much to see from these two characters, to adjust, to compromise, to help, to accept, to forgive, to understand...these are the same feelings that we go through in our life. And it is all being part of a good human being in an ordinary way, nothing heroic or extra ordinary about it. That's why the two characters are pleasing to watch on screen. Seeing good makes us feel strong too.
And if we add the spice of opposition in the form of Bhabho, she too is very human. And so acceptable.
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