bhabho's next step

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thala

@thala

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Posted: 12 years ago

nowhere in the promo emily was shown does that mean emily is eliminated and bhabho focussing on discouraging sandy

in the promo it was shown bhabho saying "payegi apna sapna toh kho dhegi apna parivar"

what does that really mean

is bhabho blackmailing saying that if you fulfil your dreams then you will loose RP support

is she saying that sandy will not be able to spend time for the family

or does she mean to say that if she becomes an IPS officer then she will loose her identtity of RP bheendhni

or is it just to distract her

are the cvs hinting something😕

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Fatima

@Fatima_Q

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Posted: 12 years ago

Haven't seen the promo...but Bhabo's statement is typical and reflective of her stance against Sandhya'a IPS dream

I don't think she believes that a girl can be a professional and manage a family at the same time. Something has to give and Bhabo thinks the Rathi family and especially Suraj will fade in importance to Sandhya's IPS duties.

To some extent she is not wrong. I mean it would have been different if Sandhya had chosen to become a teacher or a doctor. For an IPS officer...duty to the nation and public will come first.

But let's see Sandhya become an IPS officer first 😆

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hema latha

@jhema

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Posted: 12 years ago

Bhabho's statement shows that she indirectly blackmails sandhya to not to pursue her dream and if she continues she will lose bhabho's kindness and love. Bhabho knows that sandhya loves her a lot. if she says like that then sandhya will drop her dream.Already she tried that by oil massaging and it succeeds.Only Suraj pressurized sandhya to continue her studies.If he doesn't do that sandhya might be sacrifice her dream.So bhabho say that to blackmail her.

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UMDU

@UMDU

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice post. What Bhabo said she means it. All her actions are anti IPS driven. Her inability to appreciate Sandhya or her contribution to the family is primarily a reflection of the same sentiment. In Bhabo's eyes no matter how good Sandhya is, no matter how noble she is, no matter how much her son loves her, IPS is too heavy a price to pay. From her stand point and her milieu and background, she is not wrong.

1.Her son, she fears will no longer be as respected as Sandhya as he is only a halwai,

2.There is fear of separation as Sandhya will have a transferable job

3. There is fear her joint family will break with Sandhya moving out others also may want to move out.

4.Danger to Sandhya's life

5. Uncertainty about the fate of RP.

6. Very little time for the family as working hours are long

These are real fears which cannot be allayed by any one.

Regarding other more conservative and negative fears

1. Bhabo losing her position in the house to Sandhya

2.Her ghoonghat clad Bahu wearing IPS dress

3. Her not respecting elders after passing

4. Her touching male criminals in her line of duty

5. Suraj also possibly moving out with his wife, other Beendanis also taking Sandhya's example and defying her.

Edited by UMDU - 12 years ago

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Emotional atyachaar on Sandhya is going to happen after Emily is eliminated. Maybe in the final round. I mean it will be real, real atyachaar. It can be said directly in aangan drama or Sandhya overhears it when Bhabo speaks to Babasa.

Promo was clear on one thing. Sandhya hearing her parents, hearing Sooraj, then Bhabo's words. Confusion on her face. Host asking whether she is ready.

Then she looking at Sooraj. That was ultimate I would say. He signalling I am there , go get it. After that the look that Sandhya gives the host is that of confidence and not that of confusion. That means she is going to fight it and whatever Bhabo has done she has decided to choose Sooraj over Bhabo. Whether she wins is a different question, but that eyes told she will give it a fight and not sacrifice in the name of parivaar.

By choosing Sooraj Sandhya attains 3 things. One she blossoms into a woman from a girl.

2nd she understands that her relation to parivaar comes through Sooraj, ie she is a wife and then a bahu. Only when she becomes a good wife , she can be a good bahu too. Her patni dharam is the most important thing and only by performing it she will get the respect in the parivaar.

Last but not least Sandhya has learned to live with emotional atyachaar and that atyachaar will not make her a coward once again which is very very important for a future IPS officer.

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