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alexxa

@alexxa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

@Shruthiravi

Why Suraj is silent? I thought that, by now, Suraj would be more up front with his mother. He is not! He had his trials and it did not work! So, he decided to be silent (as another strategy, for a change???)

The main problem Bhabo has, is that she cannot "see" what makes Suraj happy! This is beyond Bhabo's comprehension: in her world, bahu should speak less, work more and deliver children. She is so convinced that only this will make Suraj happy. Who should explain to her that this is not what Suraj wants?? And I cannot see how silence or/and obedience can help here! But, only give Bhabo even more power over the situation and a "bigger" ego.

That is why I think some "turn of events" could put Bhabho in the situation of confronting her outmost fear: loosing Suraj. So, I agree with you! I would definitely, like to see that. Now, it seems like they are going round and round…endlessly! Where is this road going??

So, from this pov, maybe, Sandy's failure is needed to bring about change! Perhaps, this is what it takes: Sandy being portrayed as "human" (breakable) and not super woman (which instigates Bhabo even more). Maybe Bhabo will have a change of heart seeing SurYa defeated...and she will feel their pain through her own pain!

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alexxa

@alexxa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

@ Toxic

Agree with you, as well, that it was not necessary for all the MoMli drama. It seemed like there was a point to it, in the beginning, but as discussions in the forum show, CVs lost track of what they were supposed to do…

Instead they should have better focus on SurYa problems, directly!

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thala

@thala

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

i have skipped many scenes and episodes which didnt have surya

i love to watch only surya and story revolving around them

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alexxa

@alexxa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

I would also love to see only SurYa scenes, Ramasuresh!

They should install those TRP "measurement instruments" in our homes!😆

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UMDU

@UMDU

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

@ Alexxa Suraj did assert his authority on one or two occasions like when Sandhya was thrown out of the house and when Bhabo kept papads under their bed. He was forceful without being rude. I loved that version of Suraj. However suddenly the CVs decided to quieten him and make it a more Sandhya Bhabo drama with Suraj quietly watching from the background and supporting Sandhya secretly but never in the open when his family members humiliated her in public. He did not open his mouth when Bhabo created a spectacle before her neighbours dancing and hitting at Sandhya sarcastically. When everybody left he wiped her tears. This sudden change in the characterization of Suraj from being assertive to becoming totally docile, I could never understand. His absolute devotion and love for Bhabo will never allow him to separate from his mother. He may be angry with her but he will not break the apron strings. The reason being the CVs aim to show a traditional Bhabo changing gradually. The change to a modern thought process has to be brought by Sandhya. If she leaves the RM to establish a nuclear family that cannot happen. So SurYa have to stay with Bhabo bear all the pain and change her gradually humoring her from time to time. Without hurting her ego without making her feel insecure, without making her feel slighted,but still making her accept modern ideas is their mission. If you want to target a larger traditional audience to change than this is the best route. Why I said Mohit should separate is because of clash of cultures, Mohit's need to take responsibility of Emily and the child and to my mind the introduction of a nuclear family system through a supporting character and its acceptability to a traditional mind. Bhabo will be shown changing but very slowly and that will be the last bastion Sandhya will conquer. If Bhabo changes there will be nothing in DABH to show as romance after a certain point will drop the TRPS. Sorry for such a long explanation.

Edited by UMDU - 12 years ago