Unrealistic Portrayal. - Page 7

Ami- you are very naughty that you lied to your parents over this job.. i can never do such a thing

@Sakshi Ants:- I agree with you.👍🏼.It's unsafe to travel in the night. But it's just a drama n i was giving my verdict on the basis of sandy's character.. that's all.

n about nuttiness:- It's in my genes..

If you didn't take courage to go against your parents or do something adventurous in your life then it's not my fault.👎🏼

I like to take risks in my life time to time to challenge my fear n win over it...

Po Po Po! Yo!

Originally posted by: niruba

good post and good replies...I just have one thing to add, sorry if it's not related to the topic...Ami's questions made me write this...

this is what I think...surya and especially suraj had been portrayed as too perfect, perfect son, perfect husband, brother and human...so what happens now is when he is shown hiding/lying, some felt that was out of character and as though he has committed a big sin...others including me think hiding things from bhabo is fine because we relate suraj's character to us (we lie to parents for some reasons, but we love them alottt too) suraj is doing the same...we saw how he was treated when he was very honest in revealing the IPS dream to his family...he had no choice...

coming to bhabo, we tend to forgive her big sins easily because from the beginning she has been shown being inconsistent in her attitude, shown as biased, rigid and sometimes selfish...if she does something wrong we forgive her easily by saying that it's her nature, that's how she was brought up, etc etc...so now that's why suraj lie/hiding things looks like a bigger sin than bhabo's mean act of forcefully making sandya surrender her dreams...

yes, night college timing is unrealistic I totally agree...hope Cvs will give justifications for this later...

Thank you for your inputs Niruba. I have already said the same thing in page6 in reply to Ami's letter. Yes we do expect a lot from Suraj as he is the hero and has been shown near perfect. More than that I think some where in our psyche it has got ingrained that this sweet couple have suffered enough and should have pleasant moments in the future. We are apart from the moral issue worried about the consequences of a later discovery and the wrath of Bhabo which Sandhya is likely to face. Till now in the serial right from the day she stepped in all she has faced is humiliation and more humiliation. Seeing all that it to me sounds revolting to having to undergo the same torture again for no fault of hers . We would like them to sit back atleast for a while and enjoy their married life in the true sense with not too many tensions in the air. So my take on it would be that no doubt I feel uncomfortable about the lying part but more than that it is the fear of the disaster looming large that makes me nervous. As regards lying to our mothers is concerned I do not think your mothers will be as unbending as Bhabo and as dramatic in response as Bhabo. It is Bhabo's reaction to situations that makes us uncomfortable.

Oh hell, what's going on in this thread? Hahahah, desperate people.. Well.

"1. Sandhya a young girl going all alone in the night is very unrealistic. India is unsafe for girls especially the North."

Ahem!🤓
As you know, I'm much younger than sandhya. And Denmark is a much more worst place to be, specially in the night. Sandy is over 18, which means she's a grown up. I'm under, which means I'm a kid. I go out in the middle of the night, without anyone. Nothing has ever happened to me? I usually only go out in the midnight for a little run or skate, but sometimes I also go for a walk. Sandhya is going to a college, in a taxi, which I mean is much more safer than what I'm doing. If a kid can go out in the dark, then a grown up also can.
Aur waise bhi, she's my sister. I got my braveness from her yo 😳

Sorry if this doesn't give any sense.. I just got rolled in the snow, so my brain is not working probably

Umdu - thanks for the sweet word dear but i am actually among the oldies of the forum & could be older than you ..

next trade mark post of ma ji...

agree with the unrealistic in dabh...

but i want to ans for some questions...

there r three types of correspondence colleges...

1.normal college - half day morning or afternoon section...

2.evening college...after 7 or 8...

3.night college same as dabh 11...

and not all day college...just 4 days per week or two days per week...this all r as per my knowledge...

and abt ATM card pin number...like samir said...meena picked all related ATM card with her... in that pin number slip also there...thats y one guy helped meena to access...

and abt ur late night travel...its unrealistic only...but as u said with parents permission or husband's permission...then its k...for others...but for me...i wont go...😒...

i replied ur thread late...bcz i want to read ur thread with silent and no disturbance...thats y...

@Umdu Aunty:- I kindly request you to put this discussion on a halt.
Let drama remain as a drama and don't interrelate with real life. Don't expect indian daily dramas to close as reality.

I don't understand why are you boiling your blood so much?? It's injurious to your health. Just chill na..🤗

@ Sambar.. Denmark is safer than Pushkar I think...!!! 😆
@Uma n Sakshi aunty...!!! I agree with you...!!! If she was riding in a private car or Suraj's scooter even... I wouldn't mind...!!! But going to taxi stand alone... And searching for taxi...!!! I didn't even know taxi can be found that easily at midnight..!!! So it was a risky idea...!!! The taxi driver was good but what if he was bad...!!! What Sandy could do???

@Sindu, Shirin n Samah:- Don't argue with umdu aunty.. just put halt on this discussion..

Originally posted by: -Ayeshi-

@ Sambar.. Denmark is safer than Pushkar I think...!!! 😆
@Uma n Sakshi aunty...!!! I agree with you...!!! If she was riding in a private car or Suraj's scooter even... I wouldn't mind...!!! But going to taxi stand alone... And searching for taxi...!!! I didn't even know taxi can be found that easily at midnight..!!! So it was a risky idea...!!! The taxi driver was good but what if he was bad...!!! What Sandy could do???

Hm, I don't know. I find Denmark very unsafe these days, so..