Hi SamiR...this is I think the first post I am reading from you..so let me just say...I believe you when you say that you are Samir and not Anusha...so um...welcome to the DABH forum.
Nice and thought provoking post...👍🏼
Now let me add my 2 cents...😆
I don't think sacrificing her dream is proof of Sandhya being a sacha jeevan saathi..not really...I mean a sacha Jeevan saathi would have have trusted her husband enough to tell him about this aspect of her life. She would have trusted him enough to know that whether or not he could support her...he would understand and sympathize with her.
So I personally don't feel she sacrificed her dream for the sake of the Rathi family...if she had...she wouldn't be so happy and excited at the prospect of having it come true.
Rather...she had put off her dream...even talking about it to anyone...because given the circumstances of the Rathi household and age old beliefs they hold...it seemed pointless. Her circumstances at her in-laws place had led her to believe that it could never become a reality.
In regards to Sandhya's dream...it's Suraj who has proved to be a sacha jeevan saathi here. He understood not just her...but that fate had given him the responsibility of carrying out her parents' wishes...Not bad for someone who everyone considers a simpleton.
Now I'm not bashing Sandhya mind you. I think she's proved many times over that she too is a sacha jeevan saathi. She learned to adapt as well as she could to her given cirumstances. And she accepted her husband's family as her own...that was the most important quality Suraj had sought in a wife and he got it. That to me is a true sign of a sacha jeevan saathi.
Sandhya with many examples of her deeds...not only won Bhabo over...but she also won Maasa over by saving a relative's wedding, She helped Chavi pass her exams, and I need not go into details about how she taught Suraj to dream the impossible dream...all the way to winning the WTC competition. I can list many other examples...but I think we all know them.
So yes I think Suraj and Sandhya have both proved time and time again (or whenever the title track plays in the background 😆)...that they are true sache jeevan saathi for each other.
Edited by ummesulaiman - 12 years ago
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