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Posted: 13 years ago

Diya Aur Baati Hum ' Episode Analysis 6-8-12

By admin on Jun 08, 2012

http://www.telly-tadka.net/tellywood-bytes/analysis-and-symbolism/episodes-analysis-and-symbolism/diya-aur-baati-hum-episode-analysis-6812/

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Show: Diya Aur Baati Hum
Episode: 8th June 2012

And finally the truth is out'.Finally Bhabho would realize that her bitterness towards Sandhya was without any reason.

I really would like to know the reason as to why the makers showcase Sandhya as a dumb person most of the time when she is with the Rathi's? Even during the Suraj-Sandhya MU track, when Suraj kept taunting her, insulting her all she did was "Keep Her Mouth Shut " and give expressions like a DUMBO'..Today when Bhabho, Chavi and the rest kept blaming her for Bhabho's arrest all she did was keep quiet. Bhabho had to scream on top of her already shilled voice to make Sandhya Confess the truth. During such times where is the fierce lioness Sandhya- who confronted Sudha and cornered her into telling the truth, the one who never fails to teach the local mawali's a lesson or two? Raathi's ke saamne aate his isko kya ho jaata hai? It's way to contradiction to the basic character that Sandhya Suraj Raathi is'..I understand keeping quiet due to respect, for not having to hurt the feeling of others, but i don't understand her keeping quiet when fingers are pointed towards her, towards the cultural and traditional values instilled in her.

The only plus point about the entire showdown was that finally everybody came to know the truth, they came to know the actual culprit behind Bhabho's arrest was Meenakshi. Zor ka Jhatka zara zoro se hi laga, but atleast now the truth is out and one can hope that from now on Bhabho's attitude towards Sandhya will mellow down a bit.

What the makers should now concentrate upon is Bhabho's attitude and outlook change towards Sandhya, on Bhabho realizing the fact that even educated girls like Sandhya can prove to be an ideal daughter-in-law, like the one she always wished for' and an ideal life partner for her son. Bhabho has no respect for Sandhya as a D-I-L or a Human, that should change and i am sure that would bring in a positive vibe to the show'..

Author: Vijitha Rajan
Telly Tadka

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I like this episode review/analysis! It makes several great points!

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Edited by A-A-S - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: A-A-S

. Bhabho has no respect for Sandhya as a D-I-L or a Human, that should change and i am sure that would bring in a positive vibe to the show'..

This is Depressing Character of Show

Seriously they need to bring this +ve vibes from bhabo , her words are so heart-Breaking , OMG i cant bear them when she made an issue of Chavi Rishta Postpone !!! and lost her character , stooped to many low levels in blaming Sandhya

Tfs !!! AAS

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Poojaa_P

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thanks for sharing.

Quite an interesting analysis.

I agree with most of the statements written there.

However.. the last bit about Bhabho having no respect for Sandhya may not be completely true.. yes bhabho keeps insulting her and taunting her but somewhere inside bhabho she does see sandhya as a respectable truthful D-I-L. Bhabho may never admit it but its true that she feels something special for Sandhya, its like bhabho somewhat likes sandhya in a way, but does not want to show it openly. Their relationship is quite a unique special bond. 😳

Other than that, the analysis are spot on. Thanks for sharing once again.

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leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

oh please, babho dsnt respect anyone other than herslef!! nor her dils nor her hbby, she lives on a high cloud abve the rest !! she questions freely others morals and parents vichar sankar meanwhile what has she produced?? chavi, vik, mohit??🤢 even suraj has fualts of his own( now maybe they will show him growing a spine) again liking someone or feelnig sometihng ofr someone doses not mean oyu respect that person too. right now bhabo is in no way an even option ofr the best saas, she taunts teases, is small minded and treats her infereior due to the fact that she is educated!

and i hate the india tellywood mentality that only a seesdhi sadhi chup sighar wife is a good wife!! sandy might as well turn dumb and start serving bhabo still bhabo would have anissue!cvs need to really look into the fact that ho a girl who cldnt take any injustie is ok for all insults, living like if guilty coz of one woman?

she has seen how her sil was treated she dsnt feel bad- but oh no y wld she she lied abt her edu na!! thats such a big wrong thatn ow the whole life she has to lve by it!!being meek and adarsh

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Krishna Navaneeth

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Posted: 13 years ago

The author of the article, Vijitha Rajan, is right on. The show should begin to redeem itself by getting Bhabho to give Sandhya more love and respect.

Mohit and Chavi both need to realize their errors and taught to improve their behavior.

Bhabho has failed miserably as a human being, mother, and a wife. That is how I feel her character has been portrayed by the show so far.

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Poojaa_P

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: leo4ever
oh please, babho dsnt respect anyone other than herslef!! nor her dils nor her hbby, she lives on a high cloud abve the rest !! she questions freely others morals and parents vichar sankar meanwhile what has she produced?? chavi, vik, mohit??🤢 even suraj has fualts of his own( now maybe they will show him growing a spine) again liking someone or feelnig sometihng ofr someone doses not mean oyu respect that person too. right now bhabo is in no way an even option ofr the best saas, she taunts teases, is small minded and treats her infereior due to the fact that she is educated!

and i hate the india tellywood mentality that only a seesdhi sadhi chup sighar wife is a good wife!! sandy might as well turn dumb and start serving bhabo still bhabo would have anissue!cvs need to really look into the fact that ho a girl who cldnt take any injustie is ok for all insults, living like if guilty coz of one woman?

she has seen how her sil was treated she dsnt feel bad- but oh no y wld she she lied abt her edu na!! thats such a big wrong thatn ow the whole life she has to lve by it!!being meek and adarsh

...every individual has their own way of thinking and i respect your view, you may not see bhabho as a good human because of the things she has done to Sandhya, and maybe most of the other people will agree with you that she has no respect. Who am i to say what is right and wrong? Everyone has their own definition of 'respect' .

You may only see the bad things that she has done to sandhya but will never be able to see the goodness inside her if you keep searching at the surface.

I have seen real people like bhabho that are infact nice people from inside. They say bad things and hurt people but sometimes they can't help it, and i'm not saying bhabho is helpless she is not, its her choice that she is like that, but maybe she wants everything good and perfect which you can never achieve even after practice.

And i definitely agree with you that she is narrow minded and has small thinking, but not to forget that the serial is showing middle class villagers life. (not saying all middle class villagers are small minded - but most people in India have that mentality- no offence to anyone sorry.) So just because we are open minded and see wider presepective, it's a skill that we've gained, hasn't come naturally, therefore not everyone will be able to see what you are seeing.

So all i'm saying is that actually older people like bhabho take time to adapt to modern views and perhaps take longer to understand others feelings and values. But i tell you the day bhabho realises the importance of sandhya, she will be most regretful and turn the best M-I-L.

PS: I did not mean to offend anyone's views or thoughts. If i offended anyone i am truly sorry. I know it probably sounded harsh but what can i do, got to love my special jodi - BhaSa. 😆

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...soniii...

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Posted: 13 years ago

Guys dont mind for digging this Topic !!!

@ Poojaa_P :

Everyone knows she is a kind of person, of those times , but we must not accept and take it for granted , After all it is we who must bring change and stop being supportive saying she has Narrow-Mindes . Change Must be Started from us !!!

I agree she has love but that was only small bits , but her rude part is 1000X times bigger than love

she is more more venomious in Accusing sandhya , feels insecure for the reason she is educated !! so one dont like consider that as love ,see the love , hatred ratio of 1: 1000 , its quite immoderate and Negligible , this is the reason many dont like bhabo and say she has love towards any person , that is her husband or suraj or sandhya or suraj siblings .. she is a Pride win lady ,

Love and Hatred feelings must be in equal and compatable proportion !!! Then only one could balance life in any releation !!!.

Not Offensive , its My POV

Edited by sonufan - 13 years ago