exactly and i know it for a fact that had suraj role was not odne by anas rashid and some ugly looking actor ,we would have comments on how sandy dsnt deserve suraj but right now he is perhaps gods greatest gft to a wife! such a sweet hubby wqho inslts breaks down his wife spirit cause her pain for her good only, such a pompous man who assumes himslef so intellignet to decide for both the ppl in marriage! crap!!!
how yesterdays epi made me more of anti sanduy suraj:
- sandys point remains the same: ghar mei kuch galat hugai will get blamed, no one will beleive me i will have to prove myself again and again- is it really wortyhwile to live in a house like that??
- to live with ppl who feel educating female was worng, to live with such a negative woman- bhabo( she thnks the worst of everyone other thna her kids) to be with ppl who live to cheat, blame faults on others and are insenstive not to say selfish?
- to be in a house where men are just on the sideline ,if they even open mouth they are lalbeleled as taking the opposite side and against the head of the house- bhabo!
- where it is to live by my rules or cheat lead a ouble life am ok but never let it come to light!!
now comming ot suraj:
yes ppl say he is so great mahaan that he bearing all the pain and dukh to let her her go and live her life as he is not worth!! fine he is not worth her i agree but not coz of education but coz of ::
- he is a coward- he let his mom test his wife?? stood silently whiel she was berated everytime- helped her from behind but never had the guts to come and say i have decided she is ok and she will stay here end!! when she actually pointed out that she will always be blamed andquestioned, he ddnt see the logic rather went on high horse - next day his attitude was disgusting! -his thick head dsnt let him see that even now it is the same kuch b hu sandy is blamed? no one respects her- isnt his joib is to create ensure ppl respect her rather than pave way for her to run away?? this is the coward thninkngi i dint agree , he wnt be a mna enugff to ensure his family treats her better, try to give her what she wants, restore her honour npo he says thisi s so bad better she goes only!!
- he is so thickheaded: he judged her khudi when she said am being judged evaluated always,and now he judged her on basis of conv and divorce ppe, without giving her a chance to explain - how is he any different?? he alone decided her future?? how is he better than her bro? iska kuch say hai ya nhn??
- preachy: he preached saamne se aake batein , sach bateinm, baat karein and what did he do ? hid the baat assumed all of it and made a decison too???
- is he that dumb that he dsnt relasie that love cant happen for twp ppl at the same pace? is there no place ofr frinedship in a reationship? does it alsways have to be love? no place ofr sincery loyalty trust and honsety??
- he dsnt care for the way he is destroying her, will she be able to create a successful life with sich brutal scars?- suddden death of mom, cheating by bro( ok thats ok now) torture by susral and worse she is forced ot leave thningk that she isnt good enough for them, she lacks at all- how will that motivate her to move aead? breaking odwn a psirirted girl is better than tellnig her that i guess it is really not suited for u and u can move outnow if you want, i wnt stop u?? that is better no??
- his tears, his dumb acts of burnnig hands piutting mosiqto ciol is just dumb when he cant see the mental torture!!
why is it being depicted and agreed by most that since sandy dsnt reciporcate his love or understsnd his love it is her fault too,!!
aray bhai it is an aranged marraige she is thrown against with an absurd household, a hubby who is unpredicatble, who is wimpy also , how will she fall in love ik dum se? why cant it be enuff that she respects him , cares for him treats like a firned, protexts his family honour, triues to help him whereever he needs - just coz she dsnt seeep or makes gaga moves at him is that the fault or reason to call her robot inhuman unwise??
for me the best way shld be sandy to leave with dignity, suraj to find the truth and bhasbo to find the truth of all mohit, chavi , meena, and all fmaily to relaise sandys owrth, then suraj to go and try ot get her back, meanwhile i want sandy ot geto n with her studies do ias and bhabo ppl to feel sorry ofr treating her, i want suraj to woo her agian while she is donig ias and to bering her back while promising his uncondiutional supprt, only then can it be any redemption.
if sandy forgives him just by saying that oh u toht so much of me wowoi love u!! thats just yuck!!
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