My thoughts on Suraj Behavior...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sandhya's friend Priti concerned about her and the unfair treatment she gets from this uneducated people (as what she thinks) takes the matter in her hand and prepares the divored paper for her. She knowing the caliber of Sandhya wants her to persue her dream and not spend her life aimless with these people..

Sandhya who was still undecisive as what to do takes those paper from her hand and puts in her purse and that was Sandya's biggest mistake letting her friend's view cloud her mind.
Going home she gives the proof of necklace to Bhabho and those paper falls from her bag and falls in to Suraj's hand. He keeps them safe and thought he will give it to Sandhya.
Meanwhile he catches who the real culprit was behind the necklace. and calls Meenakshi to make it right for Sandhya as she has suffered a lot due to her greed. Meenaskhi was able to fool Suraj in not exposing her in front of the family. Suraj asks her to invent something and save Sandhya.
Well Sandhya's innocent was proved he was happy. Ourwardly Bhaho knowing that her denial will hurt Suraj agrees to declare her off the hook but inside she did not bend a little. Her husband did not believe her and the truth came out in front of Sandha who was coming down fthe stairs.
She was heart broken and vents out her hurt and her pain in front of Suraj who had no idea what happened as all was well per his talk with Bhabho...
So Sandhya who was terribly hurt sleeps and Suraj comes accros the divorced paper and was shocked to see that they even existed. His hurt was so deep that he just could not think anything..
Than Suraj goes to nearby village to give the sample of sweets for some function.
The house he goes was a well known house and the head of the house has just became a leader of the village..
While letting the man taste his sweets and taking the order he over hears two ladies talking as how it feels to be a wife of the leader..
She gives some example as a wife gets honor by the status of her husband and is worthy to be called the wife of the leader...
That makes Suraj think that what kind of honor Sandhya will get to be called the wife of Halwai..
That makes Suraj really sad and he did not want Sandhya to have that kind of low status.
By knowing Sandhya the way she is and her truthfulness and her integrity he knows that she will never leave him and will suffer like that in the hands of his relatives.
So to save Sandhya from all the heartachs he starts behaving like a completel jerk so that he can give enough reason to Sandhaya to proceed with the divorce.
It is not the love for his Bhabho... or it is not that he has finally realized that his Bhabho is right and Sandhya is not fit for him... Or it is not that he finally feels that Sandhya is not right for him..
No is none of those reasons.but it is only for the reason that he loves and cares for Sandhya too much to let her spend her life in this kind of environment.. He truly thinks that he an uneducated person is not fit to be her husband at all and that he needs to let Sandhay go... and that is the only reason he behaves the way he is behaving now so that he can hurt Sandhya to the maximum and break her determination to suffer for his sake and to bring the breaking point for Sandhay so that she will be forced to leave him.
His each and every cruel and harsh words and actions hurt him more than it hurts Sandhya. He knows that he is hurting her to the point of no return but he is purposely doing it so that she can take a decision without any guilty feelings to leave him and his family...
I am just waiting for Sandhya to get hold of that Divorce paper and then put 2 and 2 gather and understand what Suraj is trying to do and talk..
That wellwisher of a friend Priti did a great damage to her friend. The thing she wanted to save Sandhya from dropped on her head like a wall of brick..
but I do hope that this thing resolvessoon... as I simply cannot see both of them hurting like that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good post my friend I don't like SurYa suffering as well but I guess next week we will see some improvements in their relationship.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Although I enjoyed reading your post...and I too feel, Suraj is doing a natak and being mean on purpose...
However, I don't agree that he's doing it for Sandhya's sake. It seems more logical for him to be protecting his family especially Bhabo.
You see Suraj doesn't know Preeti gave Sandhya the divorce papers...also...he doesn't know whether she is double-minded about them or not. So why would he be trying to make things easier for her to leave. To him...the papers were in her purse and after her last outburst...he probably assumed the worse.
Also in the nightmare...he didn't run after Sandhya...rather he stayed back and held onto his Bhabo...shocked at the fact that she was begging him to punish her.
So...I don't think he's doing this for Sandhya's benefit...he would have talked things out with her had that been the case...Here he's distancing himself from Sandhya...maybe even toughening himself up for the blow he thinks she's about to bestow upon him and hs family.
Anyway that's just my POV...and I can be wrong...😆
I mean the current track is indeed very confusing...only the CVs know for how long it will drag...😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Can't defend Suraj...in light of his current behaviour...if it is a natak then he has to be careful in his attitude...he can do when alone but not in public and that too among his neighbours...even natak like this is disgusting...and can't be tolerated.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Umme I think you have a point there that Suraj doesn't know about divorce papers were given by Priti...
But I htink he would not flip without a reason..
He has known how his own mother misunderstood Sandhya and his family treated her. And then Sandhya's outburst... He would not get mad at her outburst as he knows that she must be hurting..
But may be he really got mad that with the reaosn that he would think that Sandhya really wanted to get divorced so why is she behaving like she is tolerating all this for his sake..
but he deifintely have a solid reason
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Posted: 13 years ago
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By looking at the precap... and by looking at the way Suraj wanted to feel that pain of Sandhya He himself is burning his own hands to feel that pain and more to punish himself that he could not show his wife any sympathy or love for her attempt to participate in the cooking competition so that she will be able to fulfill her DIL duties to make her MIL happy...
All Sandhya's efforts went in the dust but she was raised very high in Suraj's eyes as he alone knows how har it was for Sandhya to participate but she did it only to satisfy wrong ego of his mother.
He only knows that in spite of not knowing anything
He also knows that he has trapped her for that challange and she took it to fulfill his DIL's duties.
He also knows that he was totally unreasonable with her and he did not give her any support but left her there injured and thus he humiliated her publicly.
Yes he knows what he has done but he is distraught in his heart... It is killing him to be like that with her but he thinks if he becomes so mean it will be easy for her to walk away but it is so hard for him and behind the shutter of the shop he is punishing himself for what he is putting her through...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: evasumi

Sandhya's friend Priti concerned about her and the unfair treatment she gets from this uneducated people (as what she thinks) takes the matter in her hand and prepares the divored paper for her. She knowing the caliber of Sandhya wants her to persue her dream and not spend her life aimless with these people..

Sandhya who was still undecisive as what to do takes those paper from her hand and puts in her purse and that was Sandya's biggest mistake letting her friend's view cloud her mind.
Going home she gives the proof of necklace to Bhabho and those paper falls from her bag and falls in to Suraj's hand. He keeps them safe and thought he will give it to Sandhya.
Meanwhile he catches who the real culprit was behind the necklace. and calls Meenakshi to make it right for Sandhya as she has suffered a lot due to her greed. Meenaskhi was able to fool Suraj in not exposing her in front of the family. Suraj asks her to invent something and save Sandhya.
Well Sandhya's innocent was proved he was happy. Ourwardly Bhaho knowing that her denial will hurt Suraj agrees to declare her off the hook but inside she did not bend a little. Her husband did not believe her and the truth came out in front of Sandha who was coming down fthe stairs.
She was heart broken and vents out her hurt and her pain in front of Suraj who had no idea what happened as all was well per his talk with Bhabho...
So Sandhya who was terribly hurt sleeps and Suraj comes accros the divorced paper and was shocked to see that they even existed. His hurt was so deep that he just could not think anything..
Than Suraj goes to nearby village to give the sample of sweets for some function.
The house he goes was a well known house and the head of the house has just became a leader of the village..
While letting the man taste his sweets and taking the order he over hears two ladies talking as how it feels to be a wife of the leader..
She gives some example as a wife gets honor by the status of her husband and is worthy to be called the wife of the leader...
That makes Suraj think that what kind of honor Sandhya will get to be called the wife of Halwai..
That makes Suraj really sad and he did not want Sandhya to have that kind of low status.
By knowing Sandhya the way she is and her truthfulness and her integrity he knows that she will never leave him and will suffer like that in the hands of his relatives.
So to save Sandhya from all the heartachs he starts behaving like a completel jerk so that he can give enough reason to Sandhaya to proceed with the divorce.
It is not the love for his Bhabho... or it is not that he has finally realized that his Bhabho is right and Sandhya is not fit for him... Or it is not that he finally feels that Sandhya is not right for him..
No is none of those reasons.but it is only for the reason that he loves and cares for Sandhya too much to let her spend her life in this kind of environment.. He truly thinks that he an uneducated person is not fit to be her husband at all and that he needs to let Sandhay go... and that is the only reason he behaves the way he is behaving now so that he can hurt Sandhya to the maximum and break her determination to suffer for his sake and to bring the breaking point for Sandhay so that she will be forced to leave him.
His each and every cruel and harsh words and actions hurt him more than it hurts Sandhya. He knows that he is hurting her to the point of no return but he is purposely doing it so that she can take a decision without any guilty feelings to leave him and his family...
I am just waiting for Sandhya to get hold of that Divorce paper and then put 2 and 2 gather and understand what Suraj is trying to do and talk..
That wellwisher of a friend Priti did a great damage to her friend. The thing she wanted to save Sandhya from dropped on her head like a wall of brick..
but I do hope that this thing resolvessoon... as I simply cannot see both of them hurting like that.


Hurting Sandhya in private is for Sandhya 's sake but hurting her in public is for his mother sake so that she is not blamed for relation falling apart. The blame will come on Sandhya and Suraj as they had difficulties in relation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just4fun...
Yes that is so perfect...
In saving his wife he has not forgotten his mother... He knows that his mother had been wrong in treating Sandhaya thus but he also knows that his mother has the sense of truthfulness and justification.. only she is being misguided by something...
So as a son he is saving his mother's reputation and is taking everthing on his shoulder...
Man this man is exceptional but he needs to confront Sandhay for the papers and know her decision first hand...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I loved your post and I too wishes this track would end and that she would find out the cause of his anger. I hate seeing them ruin Suraj's character by making him so cruel.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post. Very balanced. Also enjoyed reading all other posts in this thread. We are all now optimistic about this coming week's episodes. Hope this week is less negative and more positive for this special couple.
Edited by JuhiRockz - 13 years ago

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