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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why is Sandhya taking all the decisions by herself?
She is just married and new to her in-laws house. She does not even know any of them well including Suraj.
She is seeing the circumstances and imagining everything negatively.
First, she came to know her brother's lies and she imagined her parents being blamed of their values because of these lies and she accepted the marriage.
Today, again seeing Meenakshi's parents' condition, she again imagined her brother and bhabhi in their place and could not bear that. Now...she is even not going to tell them that she is educated and HAS DECIDED to lead her whole life with these lies.
Why is she not understanding each and every situation is different and the approach definitely differs from person to person (my opinion). Bhabho may not treat Sandhya as she does with Meena and Sandhya is not as irresponsible as Meena.
In today's epi, she said Sandhya to forget about the robbery and try to be happy on the festival day and do all the decorations and pooja by herself (bahu) and all and she just turned and saw Meena and scolded her (another bahu) to just be in her room and not to come in front of her.
It is a very bad decision of Sandhya to do so. She should talk to them.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you dear😛.. she is just assuming everything by herself😕.. she cant analyze anyone till she has conversations with them😊.. she must talk to other members of the family you know.. 😃
great post dear..👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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For an educated girl she is very dumb, she can't read members off her own family and yet she wants to be a IPS how is she going to solve a case...everyone guilty throw them in jail...Sandys character has been destroyed.
When this drama started we a very strong, determined young lady who would take on the world as she believed in the truth and justice...
now all we she is broken young girl hiding the truth and cant accept what around her...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I do not think Sandhya's character has been destroyed. She is the same old Sandhya but she is reacting according to the situation on the basis of what she is seeing. Now, she cannot analyse anything because she does not know anything about any of the family members. Chavvi clearly stopped Sandhya and said "these are daily dramas, do not bother about these" and it is indeed true. Vikram was trying to divert the situation by his usual way and this time, bhabho did not stop him.
It takes some more time for any girl, especially in Sandhya's situation. She should wait for some more time and understand the people in the house and then take important decisions but this is what the CVs hinted us in the title track video that she is not going to tell anything and Suraj knows her dream by himself.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This girl needs time .
Too much has happened to her so soon and she is very young and all alone ...
She doesn't know anyone and cannot trust anyone here right now ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes she should try and know suraj more then once she knows he is good and supportive she will have guts to tell truth..but now she is making a decision in hurry with no second thoughts
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yup...she should first get to know Suraj well...she should open herself to him and be receptive to him...i am sure he will act like a shield for her against anything bad...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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everything happen so fastly that she dnt realizing the facts n situation
may be she'll soon think of it n talk to the family instead of assuming all things herself
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Posted: 14 years ago
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May be I am the only ODD one here to think Sandhya is little Impulsive sort of gal...

She acts as per situations, which was clearly seen from Day1.

She was not wrong in assuming that her bhabhi and bhai has to listen to all that...

This is all new to the gal , she has come from opposite side of the relations and how they had been handled, every thing is happening in jet speed with the gal , she neither has proper mind set in that situation to think to talk to anyone or look for support , she is right in reacting that way ...she is way too young to handle this kind of situations ...

she decided to talk to family as she knew she and her father hated lying , she even said that to Suraj, wat made her change her mind in seconds ??????

The kind of insult Meena's parents has to take for her mistake, no kid want their parents to be called to be insulted , and more over Sandhya was shown as someone who wouldnt like to take anything bad said about her family or parents... ppl in that cases reacts in two ways, either they rebel and protest and give it back to sasuma, or they keep numb and prefer to suffer by suffocating themselves ... thats exactly wat sandhya did ...

Sandhya took her step back , which mean she was firm of saying truth , but knowing little about family members she has decided not to , no one to support u , loud MIL, no man to say anything in front of her , whom to talk ? Didnt suraj tell her about how he wish to see a happy family and all , he has given little different shaded side of his to the gal , its ok to stay calm right now and talk to ankita or her friend rather than to any family member without knowing much about them

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Posted: 14 years ago
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waise, if she tells truth, wont her bother and bhabhi be called , insulted and then made to beg to accept sandhya and all??????

She and Meena;s situation was almost alike but with lots of things in difference

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